What Does 'SMH' Mean When Texting?

SMH meaning in text

These days, whether you open up your TikTok app or receive a text from a friend (or BSF), you'll likely see some type of abbreviation or acronym within the message, video or caption. GRWM, TMI, YKWIS, SWMBO and ICYMI are just some of the many terms that have become as prevalent in the social media landscape as Gen Z slang words. While some of this lingo is easy to guess, others (like OOMF) are trickier. For example, what does 'SMH' mean in text?

We'll cover SMH's meaning, along with when people started using it and a couple of examples of its use. Plus, if you're wondering how, exactly, to respond to SMH, we've got you covered.

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What Does 'SMH' Mean in Text?

"SMH" in texting means "shaking my head." The acronym conveys disappointment, unbelief, confusion or annoyance.

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When Did People Start Saying 'SMH'?

One of the earliest Urban Dictionary entries for this particular term was from February 2004.

That entry for SMH said: "Acronym for 'shake my head' or 'shaking my head.' Usually used when someone finds something so stupid, no words can do it justice. Sometimes it's modified to 'smfh' or 'smmfh' by those that prefer profanity in their internet acronyms. 

trick1: i got a headache...i hit myself in the head with my knee while trying to do situps.
trick2: smh"

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What Is an Example of 'SMH'?

Some examples of using SMH include:

  • "S/U for the most bizarre thing I've ever seen - all I can say is smh"

  • "IJBOL, what does this even mean?! #SMH"

  • "smh, it's really nbd so why is everyone freaking out?"

  • "TFW the only right reaction is smh"

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How Do You Respond to 'SMH'?

If someone says "smh" to you, you can choose to respond back either seriously, in jest or agreement. For example, some possible responses include:

  • "Unbothered"

  • "Nodding my head"

  • "IDC"

  • "Oh, yeah?"

  • "Same, honestly"

  • "lol I know"

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