When it comes to the best lube for sex, there’s a style for any and every occasion. No longer used for just lubricating the vagina or anus, today’s lubes go above and beyond to stimulate, relax muscles, and increase sensitivity for optimal pleasure. There are some ground rules to follow, though: Water-based and pH-balanced lubes are best for women; viscous lubes are best for anal sex; and absolutely do not use silicone sex toys with silicone-based lubes, says Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey, sex and intimacy coach.
With so many lubes on the market, why not experiment with ones that best suit your needs?
“Once considered taboo, lubricant is now a must-have for intimacy,” says Taylor Sparks, holistic erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven. “Lubricant can prolong foreplay, aid with painful friction, help extend intimacy, and reduce vaginal dryness. The right pleasure oil can turn a masturbation session into an uncharted adventure of self-love. Ranging in price, purpose, and formulations, lubricants are not all created equal. Read the backs of product labels and if you can't pronounce it, denounce it.”
Below, Sparks and three other sexperts, break down the most popular lubes for every situation—from foreplay and self-pleasure to intercourse with someone who has sensitivities or allergies.
Here's what we'll cover:
Best Lube Overall
Best Lube for Men
Best Lube for Women
Best Water-Based Lube
Best Lube for Anal Sex
Best Lube for Sex Toys
Best Lube for Masturbating
Best Lube for Foreplay
Best Lube for Sensitivities
How to Get the Most From Your Lube
If you’re looking to further amplify lube and, by proxy, your sex game, Sparks recommends the Lube Launcher. “When we typically apply lube, we put some on our fingers and insert them into the vagina, anus, or apply it to the penis,” explains Sparks. “As soon as it gets past the snug fit, most of the lube is left outside, but the Lube Launcher allows you to apply a significant amount of lube high into the vagina or anus, then it works its way down as you're having sex or masturbating, thereby wasting very little and not needing to re-apply as often.”
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