17 confessions about what an affair with your coworker can really be like

Kit Steinkellner
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17 confessions about what an affair with your coworker can really be like
17 confessions about what an affair with your coworker can really be like

An affair with a coworker is often portrayed as romantic and glamorous. Real talk, did it get any swoonier than Jim and Pam in The Office‘s Season 2 finale? Of course, having an affair with a coworker can be an extremely complicated proposition in real life.

Below, confessions about what it’s really like to have an affair with a coworker, courtesy of Whisper.

1.

I'm having an affair with my coworker. I have fallen in love with him. I can't stand my husband. I can't leave him either.
I'm having an affair with my coworker. I have fallen in love with him. I can't stand my husband. I can't leave him either.
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2.

Everytime I see my coworker, who I had a brief affair with, I'm torn between slapping him and hugging him. He does so many stupid things that end up being hurtful to me it's almost deliberate.
Everytime I see my coworker, who I had a brief affair with, I'm torn between slapping him and hugging him. He does so many stupid things that end up being hurtful to me it's almost deliberate.
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3.

I'm married and have been having and affair with a coworker. Best decision I ever made.
I'm married and have been having and affair with a coworker. Best decision I ever made.
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I'm married and I'm having an affair with a female coworker who is also married. We are going into work early this morning to have sex in my office
I'm married and I'm having an affair with a female coworker who is also married. We are going into work early this morning to have sex in my office
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I'm married and had an 8 month affair with a married coworker. We just ended it for the right reasons, but I think I caught feelings and can't figure out how to get over him.
I'm married and had an 8 month affair with a married coworker. We just ended it for the right reasons, but I think I caught feelings and can't figure out how to get over him.
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6.

I've had an affair with a coworker for over a year and I love him. We've tried to end it but keep coming back to each other again and again.
I've had an affair with a coworker for over a year and I love him. We've tried to end it but keep coming back to each other again and again.
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I had an affair with my coworker, we both left our spouses & are married now. I love him, but it was a mistake.
I had an affair with my coworker, we both left our spouses & are married now. I love him, but it was a mistake.
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8.

I'm having an affair with my husband's coworker
I'm having an affair with my husband's coworker
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9.

I'm currently having an affair with a coworker who is engaged and has a grieving fiancee who just lost her first child.
I'm currently having an affair with a coworker who is engaged and has a grieving fiancee who just lost her first child.
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10.

Having an affair with my way way older coworker. Sometimes I go to her house and we eat dinner with her husband. I pass as a friend of their son.
Having an affair with my way way older coworker. Sometimes I go to her house and we eat dinner with her husband. I pass as a friend of their son.
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11.

I had an affair with my married coworker and now he's my boss
I had an affair with my married coworker and now he's my boss
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12.

Started an affair with a coworker recently, & I feel bad about it.. But there's something about him that just feels so right when we're together. Feel like a horrible person
Started an affair with a coworker recently, & I feel bad about it.. But there's something about him that just feels so right when we're together. Feel like a horrible person
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13.

I'm having an affair with a coworker. It makes me happy to sneak kisses when our colleagues aren't looking.
I'm having an affair with a coworker. It makes me happy to sneak kisses when our colleagues aren't looking.
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14.

The affair I had for over a year with a coworker was the worst thing to ever happen to me.
The affair I had for over a year with a coworker was the worst thing to ever happen to me.
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15.

I had an affair with my coworker months ago... I stopped because it was wrong and I want to confess to my boyfriend... But I don't know if I can.
I had an affair with my coworker months ago... I stopped because it was wrong and I want to confess to my boyfriend... But I don't know if I can.
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16.

I'm having an affair with my coworker! We had sex at work, that's how it all started!
I'm having an affair with my coworker! We had sex at work, that's how it all started!
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17.

I've been having an affair with a coworker that no one knows about for the last year he's 5 yrs younger than me i think I'm falling in love with him
I've been having an affair with a coworker that no one knows about for the last year he's 5 yrs younger than me i think I'm falling in love with him
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