Revolutionary fight, pacifist dentist, tea room: Wild Matawan history at Burrowes Mansion

MATAWAN - One Sunday in 1933, Thora Thomsen returned to her Keyport home from church and found her husband dead asleep in his favorite chair. Only he wasn’t asleep — just dead. At age 49, in the throes of the Great Depression, Thora suddenly was a widowed mother of five children.

But Thomsen had an entrepreneurial spirit, and a short while later she answered a newspaper ad seeking a renter for the stately house at 94 Main St. in Matawan. The house belonged to the prominent Brown family — today, it’s known as the Burrowes Mansion Museum — and Thomsen pitched an idea of turning it into a tea room and restaurant.

In March 1935, the Colonial Tea House opened, and for three years it was a beacon of high society amid the Depression.

“Elegant, exciting, fun and yes, commercially successful,” is how author and longtime Matawan resident Mary Lou Diecker describes the operation in her book: “The Burrowes Mansion of Matawan, New Jersey: and Notations on the History of Monmouth County.”

Thora Thomsen's portrait in the dining room of the Burrowes Mansion in Matawan.
Thora Thomsen's portrait in the dining room of the Burrowes Mansion in Matawan.

Matawan history: 250-year-old founding father portrait rediscovered, brought home to Matawan

The newly published 187-page work is the second edition of Diecker’s original version from 1978. She updated and expanded it on account of the mansion’s 300th birthday, and on Saturday she and editor Barry C. Orr will hold a book signing there, with proceeds going toward its upkeep.

The chapter about the Colonial Tea Room is new, and the dining room is decorated accordingly, complete with a portrait of Thora.

“It had to be told,” Diecker said Tuesday at the mansion. “It’s something new, something we could show off. This house has had so many lives, and now it has a another one.”

Mary Lou Diecker holds her updated book in the dining room of Burrowes Mansion in Matawan.
Mary Lou Diecker holds her updated book in the dining room of Burrowes Mansion in Matawan.

Matawan's 'Blue House': Eyesore getting facelift, but at what cost to history?

The Burrowes Mansion is most well-known as the site of a Revolutionary War skirmish, with prominent patriot John Burrowes Jr. narrowly escaping capture out the back window while his wife held off musket-wielding loyalists at the door — and was gravely injured in the process.

It housed plenty of colorful occupants through the centuries, including a pacifist dentist who was hanged in effigy out front because he opposed the Civil War and J. Mabel Brown, a pioneering woman publisher of a local newspaper empire. It was Brown who cut the rental deal with Thomsen — an arrangement that ended in 1938 when other members of the Brown family decided they wanted to move back in.

So the Colonial Tea Room closed, and Thomsen — who was “ahead of her time, she had that flair” — was out of luck.

“Out she goes,” Diecker said. “Where does she go? We’re not really sure.”

History at risk: Middletown house of murdered patriot ranked No. 2 among NJ endangered history landmarks

It’s a fascinating historical footnote to a place filled with them. Sales from Diecker’s book will benefit the Matawan Historical Society, which is responsible for maintaining the Burrowes Mansion Museum. Upgrades to the plumbing and electrical system, and structural reinforcement, are needed. The historic home surely will be a focal point of local celebrations of America’s 250th birthday in 2026, and Diecker sees the updated book as “a road map” for that.

“The house is magic,” she said.

The updated edition of "The Burrowes Mansion of Matawan, New Jersey."
The updated edition of "The Burrowes Mansion of Matawan, New Jersey."

The signing takes place from 1 to 4 p.m. Saturday. Books also will be available for purchase later at www.MatawanHistoricalSociety.org.

“You don’t have to buy a book when you come in,” Diecker said. “There’s no fee at the door. Come in, see the house, walk around and see if you’re enchanted. And if you are, buy a book and help us in keeping the house for the next generations.”

For more information, email info@matawanhistoricalsociety.org.

A reenactment of the British loyalist's raid on the Burrowes Mansion in Matawan marks the 300th anniversary of the mansion’s construction. The deadly raid took place in 1778 and failed to capture the owner John Burrowes, an officer in George Washington’s Continental Army and a key supplier of patriot troops along the hotly contested Bayshore. 
Matawan, NJ
Saturday, June 3, 2023

Jerry Carino is community columnist for the Asbury Park Press, focusing on the Jersey Shore’s interesting people, inspiring stories and pressing issues. Contact him at jcarino@gannettnj.com.

This article originally appeared on Asbury Park Press: Burrowes Mansion in Matawan book chronicles 300 years of history