So, You're Crushing on a Virgo Woman. Read This Before You Ask Her Out
Astrology can help us understand more about ourselves and the people we love/date/hopelessly crush on—no matter their gender. For more deets on Virgo compatibility, check out our guide to dating a Virgo man and our gender-neutral guide to dating a Virgo person.
So you're interested in a Virgo woman...interesting decision. Either you already have your life together, or you’re open to getting it together.
Dating a Virgo woman is no joke! They are critical perfectionists who show their love by searching others. When a Virgo woman is on your side, you can expect for her to go out of her way to express her love for you. At her highest vibration, a Virgo woman will call you out on your harmful behaviors and help you find solutions to reconcile with your demons.
Yeah, a Virgo woman is the type of woman that you will build an empire with (if you take her seriously). Ruled by Mercury, women who were born when the Sun was transiting through the sign of Virgo are appreciators of communication. However, they tend to hold their own words closely until the time is right.
Virgo is a mutable earth sign, so Virgo women can act like they are either experiencing, preparing for, or recovering from a metaphorical earthquake. They understand that things fall apart, which is why they care so much—and why they can be critical. Remember, they have the best of intentions for those who they love, and they will always communicate with you when they feel the time is right.
The Virgo Basics:
Birthday: August 23 to September 22
Type: Mutable earth sign
Keywords: Service, analytical, fixer, judgmental, ritualistic
Love anthem: "Upgrade U" by Beyoncé (feat. Jay-Z)
Famous Virgo women: Beyoncé, Zendaya, Pink, Jada Pinkett Smith, Amy Winehouse, Salma Hayek, Blake Lively, Cameron Diaz
The Best Matches for a Virgo Woman
For fun and growth, the best matches for a Virgo woman are Capricorn and Pisces. Remember earlier when I said Virgo women are always preparing for an earthquake? A Capricorn is exactly the type of stable planner that a Virgo woman can appreciate. Together, the two will develop plans for a better tomorrow. A Pisces encourages a Virgo woman to take time to dream and relax, and reminds her that failure and falling are a part of the process.
Sex with a Virgo woman:
If you've ever listened to a Beyoncé song, then you should know that sex with a Virgo is a mystical act. Virgos come off as composed and proper when you first meet them; it’s a part of their presentation. They recognize that the world is watching, so they are careful with how they present themselves. Now, once you get them behind closed doors…that's another story.
A Virgo woman is open-minded, to say the least. She becomes increasingly open-minded the more established she feels in a relationship. Remember, Virgo women like to keep up with the appearance, so they can’t get kinky with just anyone. Once you do get them in their comfort zone, spontaneous acts and flamboyant attire is sure to follow.
All about Virgo:
Virgo operates from a place of inward-thinking. This is not to suggest that they're unwilling to express their thoughts—they just recognize the dangers of speaking too soon and without surety. Rest assured, when a Virgo woman speaks up, it's after careful thought and observation. Virgos serve others, and that should be treated with respect. They go well above the call of duty for their loved ones. If you need someone to help you write a resume, a Virgo will find you a coach. If you need someone to double-check your work, there is a Virgo woman in your corner, rooting for you and willing to go above and beyond.
The closer you get to her, you’ll begin to recognize her dreamy nature. Virgo women do have a reputation for being sticks in the mud, but that's just because they care about holding themselves with a sense of pride. If you have the privilege of ever really seeing her, what you will find is someone who’s nothing short of magical.
She’s a dreamer and a visionary, which is exactly what fuels her willingness to grow and improve. Within a relationship, she will be your source of inspiration. She wants to listen to your dreams, to encourage you to think bigger, and to imagine a world filled with fulfillment. Be patient with her, because she is slow to let you get to know her, and even slower to love. Good things tend to come with time, and she will be your blessing if you’re patient. When you have earned her trust and respect, she will structure her life in tandem with yours. Similar to a two-person bike, she will pedal with you, as long as you’re willing to match her speed. As an intimate partner, her vulnerability comes without thought. She is intuitive, doing and saying what she feels in moments of passion.
Whether as a friend or a lover, Virgo women are gentle and nurturing. A Virgo woman recognizes that everyone has different needs and ways of understanding affection. She can flip through emotions and feelings often, because she works hard to be an empathic person. If you're ever able to meet her circle of friends, you will find that she surrounds herself with people who care and show compassion.
She is an over-achiever and often spreads herself thin, because she's always working tirelessly for good outcomes. Her labor should not go unappreciated—in fact, she will love it if you take the time to notice her. To know her is to love her. Ask her about her day, and celebrate the unconventional and practical ways she shows love. Doing so will give her all the reason to love you back.
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