Woman troubled by boyfriend’s ‘massive’ financial request: ‘I would end this relationship’

Woman troubled by boyfriend’s ‘massive’ financial request: ‘I would end this relationship’. A woman's boyfriend is furious at her for spending money on breast augmentation and not him. She asked Reddit's "Am I the A******" forum for advice. She has $55,000 in savings. Her boyfriend of three months asked her to loan him $5,000. She asked Reddit's "Am I the A******" forum for advice. She has $55,000 in savings. Her boyfriend of three months asked her to loan him $5,000. she denied his request. He then became furious and accused her of being selfish. "My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months," she wrote. "We both love each other very much and I see a future with him. He immigrated to my home country about three years ago and is on a student visa, meaning that he has to pay exorbitant visa fees and full-fee student fees. He was recently talking to me about money problems and basically asked if I could loan him $5,000" . "I’m extremely protective over my money as I work/study 24/7 to maintain my savings," she explained. My boyfriend knows that I have about $55,000 saved up and he also knows that I don’t pay too many living expenses besides fuel, groceries and a phone bill. I told him that I wasn’t comfortable loaning him money this early in the relationship. He then flipped the conversation on me. he got angry at me because I’m planning on getting a breast augmentation, which will cost me $10,000 next year. He called me selfish for spending money on my body rather than him" . Reddit users were on the girlfriend's side. "$5,000 is a massive loan for someone you know in this brief period," someone commented