Woman shocked by husband’s ‘unsettling’ secret household move

A man secretly moved in a roommate while his wife was away for a weekend. He feels his behavior is justified and asked Reddit’s “Am I the A******” forum if he was right. His wife lost her job and has been unemployed for a year. To cover the cost of their apartment they decided to get a roommate. The wife specifically requested they have only a female roommate. But when they couldn’t find one, the Reddit poster moved a male roommate in while she was gone. “I picked someone, ran a background check, and moved him in while my wife was visiting her sister for a weekend. I shouldn’t have just ignored her, but it was crunch time” . “she was not willing to just talk about it or to either of us. She’s furious at me, for the past week she’s only spoken to scream at me and threaten to evict our new roommate” . Reddit users thought the husband disrespected his wife. “This was a huge violation of boundaries. it would [...] be really unsettling to come home to a stranger in my own home,” one user commented