Why Queer Women Have To Create Their Own Sex Positions
I’m early in the process of exploring my queer sexuality, but during my first same-sex relationship, I felt overwhelmed about navigating how to pleasure someone with a vagina. Was there some magical lesbian sex position I was just supposed to know, one that would make my partner and I both feel amazing?
According to Rachel Klechevsky, a sex therapist specializing in queer identities, there isn’t a particular sex position that’s best for newbies still figuring things out. What works, most often, is focusing on dialogue. “Ask what they find pleasurable in giving, receiving and joint activities,” Klechevsky suggests.
At first, my partner (who is now my ex) and I had...
