Shawn Mendes and Camila Cabello are dating, or at least that’s the impression I’m getting from their faces and tongues constantly being smashed together and Camila’s new Instagram saying she loves him. And while some people are convinced their relationship is nothing more than an elaborate PR stunt to make “Señorita” the song of last summer, You! Cannot! Deny! that Shawn and Camila are hooking up. Truly, no town in Florida is safe, and scrolling Instagram is basically NSFW at this point...especially if you follow Shawn and Camila fan accounts, which I definitely do as an adult woman.
But come on, who can be blamed for shipping a celebrity relationship when it’s this insanely extra?
Exactly. If you, too, need more clarity on how these two went from just friends to nonstop PDA and saying “I love you,” here’s a quick timeline of their relationship.
September 10, 2014
Camila flirts with Shawn on Instagram, calling him Shawnyboy, which is a nickname I shall be using henceforth.
@shawnmendes shawnyboy!!!! gonna miss ya man. you rock but you would rock more if you laughed when i said uteruses before duderuses. JK ILY
— camila (@Camila_Cabello) September 11, 2014
June 28, 2015
Shawn covers Camila with what appear to be ice-cream sandwiches (also maybe marshmallows?) while she’s sleeping. Wow, the perfect man.
A post shared by camila (@camila_cabello) on Jun 28, 2015 at 7:31pm PDT
August 30, 2015
Shawn and Camila pose together at a VMA after-party and the ~vibes~ are strong.
September 19, 2015
They hang out again a month later at the iHeartRadio Music Festival and this cuteness happens:
September 21, 2015
Shawn denies dating Camila, telling E! News, “We can’t do that! I mean, Spanish and Canadian don’t really mix.” ???
November 20, 2015
Shawn and Camila drop the video for their collaboration “I Know What You Did Last Summer,” which...wow:
And now people are leaving new YouTube comments on the 2015 post, and they’re hilarious:
Me: Hey, Siri, tell me a joke.
Siri: Shawn and Camila are just friends.
Four years and we finally know what they did last summer.
2015: I know what you did last summer.
2019: I’m doing you this summer.
Oh, and finally...
Shawn x Camila: We’Re juSt frIends
Director of “Señorita”: Not today.
November 23, 2015
James Corden grills Shawn and Camila about their relationship and Shawn fully denies that they’ve *ever* made out, saying, “Every time I try to make a move, she just swerves me off.”
June 19, 2016
They win an award at the MuchMusic Video Awards and hold hands onstage! Cute but also trolling!
May 20, 2017
Camila and Shawn basically declare their love for each other on Twitter while maintaining that they’re “friends.”
.@ShawnMendes i love u SO much and i miss u even more than I love u thank u for being such an amazing friend 💞💞💞👫
— camila (@Camila_Cabello) May 20, 2017
December 9, 2018
Camila posts a photo of Shawn braiding her hair and the fandom flips:
My personal fave response?
February 11, 2019
Shawn and Camila attend the Grammys and she says she “loves him” in an IG post....
so proud of this amazing human !!!!!! seems like yesterday we were just kids singing ed sheeran songs in the dressing room, now we’re kids trying not to throw up cause we’re at the Grammys!!!! i love you forever ❤️
A post shared by camila (@camila_cabello) on Feb 11, 2019 at 2:39pm PST
June 20, 2019
The video for “Señorita” drops. The internet implodes.
— basic capricorn 🪐 (@fightlikemulan) June 21, 2019
June 25, 2019
Shamila fans notice that Camila’s boyfriend, Matthew Hussey, has been blocking comments about “Señorita.” Everyone assumes they are this close to breaking up, and whoops, everyone is right.
well, matthew has been blocking comments that involve camila like “stream seniorita”. maybe it’s because of shawn, but wouldn’t you want your girlfriends music promoted? fishy
— 𝚜𝚘𝚏 (@whysromance) June 25, 2019
June 26, 2019
Us Weekly reports that Camila and Matthew are done. Damn, turns out Shawn was serious when he sang, “I know I can treat you better / than he can.”
June 27, 2019
Camila calls out her fans for trolling her ex, writing, “To my fans, if you really love me, please do not send people I love and care about hateful things. You doing that really hurts me, and it’s so unnecessary and heavy and damaging to add more pain to pain. There’s a real person behind your tweets. You spamming them with hateful, insensitive things is really not funny, is causing all of us pain, and doesn’t at all reflect the values I talk about.”
July 4, 2019
According to Us Weekly, Shawn and Camila attend Nobu’s Fourth of July party, and an “insider” says that “they were sitting with each other, facing each other and look very intimate." Usually, I’d say this is pure fanfic, but we’ve all seen that water make-out pic.
July 5, 2019
Camila hits up one of Shawn’s shows and posts a bunch of flirty Instagram Stories:
July 6, 2019
Shawn denies dating Camila during a live Q and A, shaking his head “NOPE.”
— Pop Crave (@PopCrave) July 7, 2019
Yeah, suuure, buddy.
July 8, 2019
Romance rumors heat up when Shawn is spotted hugging Camila and looking like way more than just friends:
July 13, 2019
A fan films Shawn and Camila kissing (!!!!!) in Oakland.
— Pop Crave (@PopCrave) July 13, 2019
Honestly, every other romance can step to the side because, in the immortal words of Faith Hill:
July 27, 2019
Fans get pissed when Shawn walks offstage after being asked what inspired him to write “Señorita.”
— Shawn Mendes Updates (@TrackingSM) July 27, 2019
He apologizes in a since-deleted tweet, writing, “Hey! There was no bad intention here. If you were there, you would have known it was the last question & that’s why I decided to turn it into a lighthearted funny goodbye! Sorry if that upset anyone, I adore you guys! No need for any negativity ❤️ I love you guys!!!”
July 28, 2019
Shawn and Camila are captured on camera by a fan who saw them kissing in Tampa:
shawn and camila kissing 🥰 they look so happy and in love pic.twitter.com/naE647fW3S
— shawmila thoughts (@shawncamilaupd) July 27, 2019
July 29, 2019
Which bring us to the fated day Shawn and Camila are photographed making out in every body of water Miami has to offer. More pics from that good time this way:
July 31, 2019
Just after those steamy-AF beach make-out pics came out, an Entertainment Tonight source claims that Shawn and Camila’s summer fling appears to be blossoming into something more. Apparently, the two are now “committed to working on a relationship.” Wow!! “Shawn and Camila originally were just enjoying spending time together and having a summer fling,” the source said. “Shawn and Camila have really fallen for one another.” Ugh, be still my beating heart—it’s all too much to bear!
August 6, 2019
In a new interview with Variety, Camila talks about what falling in love feels like. “Falling in love is like an infinite amount of levels and layers and angles. I fell in love and just opened up. Everything was written in present moment,” she says, not naming names. If we could guess, it would be Shawn she’s talking about (duh), but of course, they’ve yet to outright confirm the dating rumors.
Camila also talks about what it was like to pair up with Shawn for that crazy-wild “Señorita” duet. “I’ve known Shawn for such a long time, and it’s so much fun getting to work and do things with somebody who means a lot to you,” she says. “Somebody who means a lot to you” as in a boyfriend??? We see you, Camila.
August 8, 2019
Camila and Shawn hang out for his 21st birthday in New York City, and it’s über cute, of course! Their birthday date involves lots of hand holding, shopping, PDA, and sneaky fan videos of the two of them.
August 9, 2019
UM, WOW, Camila drops the L-word in a birthday Instagram to Shawn, and it’s a Shamila moment for the ages.
“Happy birthday to this magic human, I love you!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️,” she told him, for all the world to see, along with a cute polaroid of him picking at her hair. (IDK what that’s about, but it’s still cute, k?)
A post shared by camila (@camila_cabello) on Aug 9, 2019 at 9:35am PDT
Meanwhile, E! reports that the two spent Shawn’s birthday celebration the evening before at a party together, where they were filmed kissing and dancing and having the time of their lives.
August 26, 2019
Shawn and Camila perform in a highly anticipated VMAs situation that is SO steamy it probably fogged up your screen.
— MTV NEWS (@MTVNEWS) August 27, 2019
August 29, 2019
Before Shawn and Camila walked the VMAs red carpet (separately, sigh), they had to get ready for the big show! Vogue followed Camila as she picked out her dress and got all dolled up for her big performance.
In the vid, Shawn pops by to say hi to Camila before their steamy duet (around the 9:00 mark), and Camila talks about how “Señorita” came to be in the first place (around 7:10).
“It must have been last summer when he sent me the idea for the song, and he was like, ‘Oh my gosh, do you want to do this with me?’ And I thought it was super cool,” Camila said.
“It was literally, like, a few months of back and forth, but I couldn’t—I literally lost sleep over it, because I was like, ‘My god. I think I do want to do it, or maybe I don’t, whatever.’ So there just came a point where we were like, let’s just go in the studio. Let’s just sing it and see how we feel, and if it feels right, we do it, and we don’t, no pressure, it’s all good. Yeah, we went in the studio and figured it out and then filmed the video a week and a half after.”
And the rest, as they say, is history.
Also, Camila calls her white “wedding dress” VMAs look “very romantic,” saying that’s “kind of where I am in life right now.”
September 4, 2019
Shawn and Camila are back to doing what they do best: making out in public places within view of paparazzi photographers. A blessed update for us all.
This time, they lock lips while strolling around Toronto before Shawn’s concert. Cute stuff.
September 5, 2019
Camila is appropriately on the cover of Elle’s Women in Music issue, and she dives deeper into her relationship with Shawn, saying some pretty mushy stuff.
“Honestly, this past year and a half was the first time I really experienced falling in love with another person,” she said. “I think there is so much more depth to love when you know you are in it with another person. You have so much more to say—I think that’s what makes me emotional.”
Still, she doesn’t get too detailed, and that is on purpose.
@camila_cabello on her new music: “There was a time when I was listening to these songs that I had to turn the album off. I had to let go emotionally—I sat there and cried so much. I feel an undeniable truth that the album has captured the essence of me at this point in my life. I always think, ‘Could I be more honest? Could I be more open?’ I feel like I’ve done that even better than on my first album.” Link in bio for the full #ELLEWIM cover story. ELLE October 2019: Editor-in-chief: @ninagarcia Cover star: @camila_cabello Written by: @dbacherwrites Photographer: @yvanfabing Stylist: @annatrevelyan Wearing: @davidkoma Hair: @dimitrishair Makeup: @patrickta Manicure: @jolene.b.nails Set Design: Bryan Porter at Owl & the Elephant @daysofourslides Produced by: Paul Preiss at Preiss Creative @preisscreative
A post shared by ELLE Magazine (@elleusa) on Sep 5, 2019 at 5:31am PDT
“Love is the most sacred, precious thing to me. I want to always feel like my love is between me and that person and never belonging to anyone else,” she explained. “As much as I love my fans and as much as I love people, I like to live my life as normally as possible. In a relationship, it makes me feel uncomfortable to invite everyone in on that.
“People can say whatever they want to say. They can speculate, but at the same time, we are going to live our own lives, enjoy it, and fall for each other like nobody is watching,” she said. “I never want to open the door for people to feel like they are involved. I want it to be mine and [his]. That’s why I’m so tight-lipped about it: because I want to protect it.”
September 9, 2019
If you were left a lil disappointed after Shamila’s VMAs non-kiss, they more than make up for it in Toronto while performing “Señorita” onstage. Camila and Shawn kiss onstage, and it’s everything the VMAs could’ve been in a better world!
A post shared by etalk (@etalkctv) on Sep 6, 2019 at 6:15pm PDT
September 12, 2019
Welp, in an update that you probably don’t want but are going to get anyway—Shawn and Camila are basically
kissing licking each other’s faces on Instagram like unhinged puppies in love. And no, that is not an exaggeration.
Shawn and Camila decided to laugh in the face of their kissing criticizers by showing the entire world video proof of exactly how they kiss each other...kinda. In the video, Shawn says, “So we saw on Twitter and stuff you guys saying stuff about the way we’re kissing and how it looks weird, like we kiss like fish.” Camila basically agrees and is like, “It really hurt our feelings.” So after that, Shawn presents us with the evidence. “So we just want to show you how we really kiss,” he says, mere seconds before Camila slides her tongue over Shawn’s mouth. It’s...a lot!
A post shared by Shawn Mendes (@shawnmendes) on Sep 11, 2019 at 10:01pm PDT
For some reason, I and the other 16 million Instagram viewers cannot seem to look away. At the very least, it does poke a hole in the “Shawn and Camila are fake” rumors! Right?
September 19, 2019
Shawn and Camila spend the day in West Hollywood together...in Halloween masks because September is basically October, which is basically HALLOWEEN, right? Shawn wears a creepy baby/alien one and Camila picks a unicorn.
MEANWHILE, that same day, Shawn is spotted (solo) at an airport in Los Angeles, where he gets grilled about his relationship in a Backgrid video you can see here.
The person tailing him starts out by saying, “You and Camila give the term ‘I just threw up in my mouth’ a whole new meaning,” which, ouch, dude! Shawn keeps it classy in his response, saying, “It was a little bit of a joke,” referring to that funny Instagram video from the week before.
The whole interaction is a bit cringey...but Shawn does say he’s known Camila’s parents for a long time and they get along, which is cool. He also says, “We’re definitely not a publicity stunt,” when the guy asking him Qs brings up that conspiracy theory.
September 28, 2019
A fan goes ahead and asks Shawn if he has ever loved a person who didn’t love him back (heavy question!), and he responds by immediately bringing up Camila. Lucky for us, it’s on video!
A fan asked @ShawnMendes if he’s ever loved someone who didn’t love him, and what did he do:
“If I told you the whole story of Camila, it would take a long time. I would say that you have to fight for someone you really love. And if you really truly love them, you'll get them” pic.twitter.com/I7ZalDXRJV
— Pop Crave (@PopCrave) September 28, 2019
“If I told you the whole story of Camila, it would take a long time,” he says, despite the fact that the fan totally didn’t ask about her. “I would say that you have to fight for someone you really love. And if you really, truly love them, then you’ll get them. It just takes time. But make sure you really love him or her, you know? You’ve just got to make sure.”
October 3, 2019
Camila basically admits she’s super in love with Shawn—yes, really!!! During an interview on UK’s Capital Breakfast radio show, she said, “We’re pretty happy,” and added, “I really, really love him a lot.” AWWW!
Before publicly professing her love for Shawn, Camila gave a little bit of backstory on their relationship. “There was a period where we didn’t hang out as much just because we were both busy, and this song was really fun because we got to just hang out again like we did on the song we did before, ‘I Know What You Did Last Summer,’” she said, “which was when we got really close....We were like, ‘Oh, yay, we get to be pals and just hang out!’” And then “Señorita” came out and Shawn and Camila were no longer just friends anymore, LOL. We love context!
— Capital (@CapitalOfficial) October 3, 2019
October 21, 2019
Shawn deletes that jokey video of him and Camila kissing, causing breakup rumors galore. But fear not, Shamila stans!!
He also posts a new (less thirsty) pic of them kissing to Instagram, so all is well.
A post shared by Shawn Mendes (@shawnmendes) on Oct 19, 2019 at 5:49pm PDT
October 30, 2019
Shawn lets it slip that he and Camila have officially been dating for four months—and they got together on July 4th!
“We haven’t been dating for that long,” he said to his fans at a concert. “We have been dating since July 4th officially.”
P.S. We’ll be updating this timeline because something tells me this is only the beginning.
November 12, 2019
Shamila reunites!! Shawn and Camila make out courtside at a Clippers game right next to some cameras and two perplexed blonde women.
It’s very Pete Davidson/Kate Beckinsale, no?
November 12, 2019
After their courtside PDA sesh, Shawn and Camila went to a tattoo shop to induct Camila into the cool-kid tattoo “club.” Camila got “It’s a mystery,” a reference to Shakespeare in Love, inked on her pinkie, and Shawn got his sister’s first initial behind his ear.
A post shared by Kane Navasard (@kanenavasard) on Nov 13, 2019 at 9:54am PST
A post shared by Kane Navasard (@kanenavasard) on Nov 14, 2019 at 10:16am PST
November 20, 2019
Shamila is GRAMMY NOMINATED, PEOPLE!
A post shared by camila (@camila_cabello) on Nov 20, 2019 at 12:59pm PST
A post shared by Shawn Mendes (@shawnmendes) on Nov 20, 2019 at 2:42pm PST
November 21, 2019
Camila fully goes on the record to say that her relationship with Shawn was hella awkward at first. No, she isn’t talking about when she first started dating him this year, she’s talking about when they first collaborated together back in 2015 on “I Know What You Did Last Summer” when they were still teenagers.
In a Rolling Stone interview, Camila said she and Shawn had romantic feelings for each other back then but it was hard to act on them because (a) Shawn’s career was just taking off and (b) they weren’t mature enough to know what to do about their feelings. We’ve all been there!
“During ‘I Know What You Did Last Summer,’ I really bonded with him as more than a friend. I think he did, too, but we were both really young and he was experiencing the pressures of his career. I don’t think we knew what to do with those feelings. It was this awkward thing where we both liked each other, but we weren’t together. It was just weird. An energy was there from the beginning, but after that song, we didn’t spend as much time together. Our paths just didn’t cross in that way romantically until we started hanging out again and writing. For me, it just brought it back.”
November 24, 2019
Shawn and Camila heat up the AMAs stage with a performance of “Señorita” while also taking home an award.
— Courtney Rhodes (@cocoforever101) November 25, 2019
Also, THIS IS SO CUTE:
Camila shouting out my mom 🥺❤️ the sweetest
— Shawn Mendes (@ShawnMendes) November 25, 2019
And their friend Taylor Swift’s reaction really says it all, doesn’t it?
— Taylor Swift News (@TSwiftNZ) November 25, 2019
April 18, 2020
The couple hopped into the One World: Together at Home broadcast in support of COVID-19 relief to perform "What a Wonderful World," and it was honestly so beautiful.
Check it out:
— sar loves camila (@bippitycabeIIo) April 19, 2020
That’s all for now, but of course we will be updating with more details of Shamila’s romantic endeavors!
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