TikTok mom shares what not to say to adoptive parents: 'Please stop asking'

A TikTok foster mom who posts under the username Raising Cultures (@raisingcultures). posted a video that now has more than 240,000 views and gives a detailed rundown on questions that adoptive parents are tired of hearing. The North Carolina-based mom began: “For the sake of adoptive families, please stop asking:” . “1. Where are the real parents?”. “2. Do they have real siblings?”. “3. Will you have your own children?”. “We are their real parents! They are real siblings! We do have children of our own, 4 to be exact,” wrote the proud parent. The filmer said that while the couple has one biological daughter, . there’s no difference between how they feel about her versus how they feel about their three adopted children. The comments section was filled with support for the adoptive parents and their important message. “I’m adopted and you are their real parents and mine are too. Thank you!” wrote one appreciative user