These Could Change Your Sex Life Forever
Lube is a little like masturbation. It’s a big part of most people’s sex lives, and almost nobody wants to talk about it. And, like masturbation, there are many ways to enjoy it. Even if you think you don’t really “need” it, consider that you might really like it. Aside from the obvious uses, the right lube may be the accessory that lets you try something new or take an old favorite to the next level.
Furthermore, if you’re struggling with irritation or discomfort, lube could be the answer — or the culprit. There are several types to choose from, and since every body is different, there is no #1 lube for everyone. If the #1 face moisturizer gave you a rash, you’d probably buy something else, right? You’d check the ingredients, do a little research, and find a product that made your skin feel good. Shouldn’t your sex life feel good, too?
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Here, we’ve rounded up a slew of the best lubes out there, plus the pros and cons so you can find your personal holy grail. All of them are body-safe and contain genital-friendly ingredients. Happy hunting!
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Silicone Lubes
Pros:
The word “silicone” may not sound like the kind of thing you want anywhere near your most intimate parts, but the truth is, it’s a very body-safe ingredient. Silicone is hypoallergenic andcannot be absorbed into the skin. But, the best part is its unmatched slickness and staying power. Silicone lube will not dry out, period. Plus, it will stay on in water but washes off easily with soap.
Cons:
Silicone lubricant cannot be used with a silicone toy (it will cause the material to deteriorate). It can also be tough to wash out of fabric, so, you know, try to be naked when you use it.
Swiss Navy Silicone Lubricant, $17.25, available at Amazon.
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This one doubles as a hair-frizz fighter.
Uberlube, $14, available at Babeland.
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A classic never goes out of style.
Pjur Eros Bodyglide, $22.99, available at Drugstore.com.
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Despite the perfume-bottle styling, this one is both unscented and tasteless.
Pink Silicone Lubricant For Women, $18.49, available at Walgreens.
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One of the few silicone lubes you can find at the drugstore.
Wet Naturals Silky Supreme, $9.99, available at Drugstore.com.
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Water-Based Lubes
Pros:
While some might like the invisible slickness of silicone, others prefer water-based lube for its thick, cushion-y feel. This is the go-to type for anal play because it provides a generous, comfortable barrier. It’s also safe to use with all toys and is generally less expensive than silicone. If it starts to dry out, water-based lube can be instantly revived with a little water or saliva, and it rinses off easily (no soap needed). It’s probably the most readily available lubricant out there, and you can usually find a variety at any drugstore.
Cons:
Water-based lube will dry out eventually, so you may need to reapply (meaning you’ll go through a bottle faster). And, since it’s water-soluble, it won’t stay put for shower or bathtub sex. Keep an eye out on those drugstore brands too, since a lot of them contain glycerin, which can trigger yeast infections.
Isabel Fay Natural Water Based Lubricant, $12.95, available at Amazon.
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The Please line was created by the legendary sex-positive toy shop, Good Vibrations.
Please Liquid Lubricant, $8, available at Good Vibrations.
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Don’t mind the retro shampoo-bottle look. This one’s a winner.
Slippery Stuff Personal Lubricant Gel, $12.49, available at Amazon.
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Lelo is one of the best toy-makers on the market. These folks know what they’re doing.
Lelo Personal Moisturizer, $24.90, available at Lelo.
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When it comes to lube, a pump dispenser is your best friend.
Passion Natural Water Based Lubricant, $11.99, available at Walgreens.
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Hybrid Lubes
Pros:
Sometimes you can have it all! Hybrid lubes (also known as “silk” lubes) are mostly water-based with just a small amount of silicone. In almost all hybrids, the silicone shows up in such a teeny amount that it won’t damage silicone toys, so feel free to use these with all materials. And, as we know, a little silicone goes a long way, so these lubes give you that slippery feeling with a thicker cushion.
Cons:
While these lubes are like magic, they’re magic with a little compromise. You shouldn’t expect them to be as slippery as silicone or thick as water-based. Other than that, there’s really no downside.
BabeLube Silk, $16, available at Babeland.
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Each product from this line is made with certified-organic botanicals.
Sliquid Organics Natural Lubricating Silk, $10.19. available at Amazon.
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By Kelsey Miller
