We’re in tears reading Carey Hart’s tribute to Pink on their anniversary

Fourteen years of marriage is a major accomplishment, especially in the celebrity world, where the average marriage lifespan seems to be around three years. Pink and husband Carey Hart reached this milestone on Tuesday, January 7th, and we’re toasting the couple’s achievement.

The 40-year-old singer and 44-year-old athlete have two kids together, and they’ve always been honest about the struggles of parenting and marriage.

Hart celebrated their anniversary with a heartfelt message and series of photos on Instagram, including one from their wedding day in 2006.

We’re swooning over the second photo of the whole family—Pink, Carey, and children Willow, 8 years old, and Jameson, 3 years old. Pink followed up with her own anniversary post filled with throwback photos of the couple, showing their many hairstyles dating back to the early aughts.

Talk about a mohawk. Although this post is totally aww-worthy, Pink kept it real (like always), by hinting that her sappy post wasn’t totally genuine in the moment with a second Instagram post. She shared a photo of a gorgeous bouquet and a handwritten note from Hart, admitting that she wasn’t “even feeling” Hart when she originally posted the collection of throwback photos.

We love how honest Pink and Hart are about their relationship, because no one is perfect, especially after 14 years of life together. Marriage is hard work, but in this couple’s case, it appears to be worth it.