Taylor Swift and Brendon Urie's 'ME!' Song Lyrics Show How Far She's Come in Her Relationship With Joe Alwyn

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From ELLE

Finally, after literal weeks of teasing, Taylor Swift has dropped the first single off her seventh album, "ME!" The track, which Swift collaborated with Panic! At the Disco's Brendon Urie on, came complete with a music video full of rich imagery and a message all about self-love.

Swift explained the meaning of the song ahead of its release to Robin Roberts. "'ME!' is a song about embracing your individuality and really celebrating it, and owning it," she said. "I think that with a pop song, we have the ability to get a melody stuck in people’s heads, and I want it to be one that makes them feel better about themselves."

But it's the lyrics, penned by Swift herself, that are a clear self-love anthem and give a revealing look at Swift's own personal growth to loving herself so fiercely and having confidence of her worth in her relationship (in real life, to her boyfriend of two years, Joe Alwyn). Here, the lyrics, via Genius, with references to Swift's life explained.

Intro: Taylor Swift

I promise that you'll never find another like me

Verse 1: Taylor Swift

I know that I'm a handful, baby, uh

I know I never think before I jump

And you're the kind of guy the ladies want

(And there's a lot of cool chicks out there)

Swift could be referring to her boyfriend Joe Alwyn here. Swift's Reputation song "Gorgeous" was believed to be about Alwyn and his arresting good looks.

I know that I went psycho on the phone

As Genius fans pointed out, this may be a reference to Swift's infamous Reputation "Look What You Made Me Do" line, "I’m sorry, the old Taylor can’t come to the phone right now. Why? Oh, cause she’s dead!"

I never leave well enough alone

And trouble's gonna follow where I go

(And there's a lot of cool chicks out there)

The trouble Swift is talking about here is likely her fame and the scrutiny she gets as being someone in the public eye. Swift has talked before about the trouble with dating her. Back in a 2015 Telegraph interview, she mused that she'd be single at 30. "I'll probably still be single," she said then. "Let's be honest. No one's going to sign up for this and everything that goes with it. 'Hi, nice to meet you, want a date? Do you love camera flashes? I hope you do!'" Swift has been dating British actor Joe Alwyn for nearly two years now. She'll turn 30 in December.

Pre-Chorus: Taylor Swift

But one of these things is not like the others

Like a rainbow with all of the colors

Baby doll, when it comes to a lover

I promise that you'll never find another like

Chorus: Taylor Swift

Me-e-e, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh

I'm the only one of me

Baby, that's the fun of me

Eeh-eeh-eeh, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh

You're the only one of you

Baby, that's the fun of you

And I promise that nobody's gonna love you like me

Swift's chorus here shows her self-growth from Reputation and the belief she now has in her self-worth. In the video, her Reputation era snake literally becomes a butterfly. And lyrically, there's a huge difference between the confidence she has her in her value to her partner "I promise that you'll never find another like me-e-e" versus the doubt she had in herself in Reputation's song "Delicate." Her lyrics there show a lot more hesitancy. She opens the song, singing, "This ain't for the best / My reputation's never been worse, so / You must like me for me… / We can't make / Any promises now, can we, babe? / But you can make me a drink."

Verse 2: Brendon Urie & Taylor Swift

I know I tend to make it about me

I know you never get just what you see

But I will never bore you, baby

(And there's a lot of lame guys out there)

Swift can say this with authority: Before dating Alwyn, she had a reputation for dating various famous men (and later writing songs about them). Those boys included Harry Styles, Joe Jonas, Jake Gyllenhaal, Calvin Harris, Tom Hiddleston, and John Mayer.

And then we had that fight out in the rain

Swift's "Delicate" music video was shot in the rain. The song was believed to be about Alwyn, although whether they literally had a fight in the rain or that rain was metaphorical, only they can say.


You went after me and called my name

I never wanna see you walk away

(And there's a lot of lame guys out there)

Pre-Chorus: Taylor Swift and Brendon Urie

'Cause one of these things is not like the others

Livin' in winter, I am your summer

Baby doll, when it comes to a lover

I promise that you'll never find another like

Chorus: Brendon Urie and Taylor Swift

Me-e-e, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh

I'm the only one of me

Let me keep you company

Eeh-eeh-eeh, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh

You're the only one of you

Baby, that's the fun of you

And I promise that nobody's gonna love you like me

Bridge: Brendon Urie, Taylor Swift

Hey, kids!

Spelling is fun!

Girl, there ain't no I in "team"

But you know there is a "me"

Strike the band up, 1, 2, 3

I promise that you'll never find another like me

Girl, there ain't no I in "team"

But you know there is a "me"

And you can't spell "awesome" without "me"

I promise that you'll never find another like

Chorus: Taylor Swift and Brendon Urie

Me-e-e (Yeah), ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh (And I want ya, baby)

I'm the only one of me (I'm the only one of me)

Baby, that's the fun of me (Baby, that's the fun of me)

Eeh-eeh-eeh, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh (Oh)

You're the only one of you (Oh)

Baby, that's the fun of you

And I promise that nobody's gonna love you like me

Outro: Brendon Urie, Taylor Swift

Girl, there ain't no I in "team"

But you know there is a "me"

I'm the only one of me (Oh-oh)

Baby, that's the fun of me

Strike the band up, 1, 2, 3

You can't spell "awesome" without "me"

You're the only one of you

Baby, that's the fun of you

I promise that nobody's gonna love you like me

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