Fight a Broken Heart with a Sexy New Style
By Morgan Vines, BounceBack.com Editorial Staff
You're suffering from a broken heart and feeling rundown. Tears stain your cheeks. Forget about makeup. Your hair hasn't seen a shower in days. And you can't remember if you own anything other than sweatpants.
You're in need of a drastic change. Leave the couch behind. This calls for a makeover to lift your spirits. It may sound shallow, but when you look good, you feel good. That's why when you dress up for work, you perform better - because you feel unstoppable.
After a relationship breakup, it's crucial to toss out the old and tear your mind from that broken record of memories. We've got some trendy tips to help you find your new signature style so you'll be ready to go out and make some new memories.
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The easiest way to freshen your look and make a dramatic impact is to cut or dye your hair.
THE LOOK
After Ryan Philippe left Reese Witherspoon for the younger, blonder Abbie Cornish, Reese dropped the sweet girl next door look for her signature, edgier bangs.
THE LOOK GONE WRONG
When Britney Spears finally woke up and broke from Kevin Federline, she had a meltdown. Inked with fresh tattoos, she strolled into a salon and demanded they shave her head. When the owner refused, she reached for the buzzer and sheared it all off herself. It's no surprise she invested in a closet full of wigs soon after.
TIPS: What's hot now? Emma Watson is proving short hair can be sexy too. Her recent pixie cut has been turning heads. Just be careful not to jump on the trend bandwagon. Although a new style looks hot on many celebrities, it may not flatter you.
Not sure which shape you should rock? Visit your trusted stylist and ask them for their vision. You can't go wrong. They're trained to know which cut fits the angles of your face. If you want an even more noticeable change, dabble with a new color. Have fun with it. The amazing thing about hair is that it grows back and color fades.
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Your clothes make a statement about how you see yourself. Whether you like it or not, they make an impression on others and give them an insight into your personality. To change your sad view of the world, break into a style you never thought you could pull off but always envied. Daring to conquer something that intimidates you will boost your confidence. Your heightened self-esteem will get you noticed and attract new friends to spark that smile you've been hiding.
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When Anne Hathaway ditched swindler Raffaello Follieri, she also left behind her girlish attire in favor of a sexy sophistication.
THE LOOK GONE WRONG
After her marriage fell apart on TV, Jessica Simpson tried to class it up to get the media to take her seriously. But there were some missteps like the infamous "mom" jeans that failed to flatter her curvy figure.
TIPS: Sit down with pen and paper and try to sum up your personality. Put your current style into words. Think about what details you love and whose style you're always wishing you could copy. Then take the plunge. Go all in and you can't go wrong. You don't have to invest in a new wardrobe. Play with a different style each day until you find one that feels right. Steal ideas from magazines and rework your closet. Remember, it's all in the accessories.
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By playing with your makeup you can create a different look for every mood. Makeup enhances the style you're chasing with your hair and clothes. If you're nervous to try an entirely new look, think of your most attractive feature (eyes, lips) and focus on playing it up.
THE LOOK After her fling with Taylor Lautner fizzled out, Taylor Swift went from innocent girl-next-door to sexy siren. All she did to make the switch was drop the natural, nude lip for her now, almost-signature bright red shade.
THE LOOK GONE WRONG Anything over the top will probably end up being categorized as costume-like. Think Amy Winehouse's exaggerated cat eyeliner or Taylor Momsen's raccoon mask. And leave the drag queen look to Lady Gaga.
TIPS: Darkening your eyes turns a daytime glow into a nighttime vibe. A little neutral shadow can freshen those puffy eyes, while bronzer will invigorate your skin. And if you haven't been sleeping, a green tinted concealer will magically cover those dark circles. A bright red lipstick creates that glamorous old Hollywood look that will get you noticed when you're ready to head back out into the dating world.
Whatever you choose to do, have fun with it. It'll take your mind off the breakup and make you feel sexy again. You've cried in sweatpants long enough. You deserve to get out there and feel good again.
What have you tried to revamp your look after a breakup brought you down? Whose post-breakup style do you love and whose flopped?
Morgan Vines is a writer with a background in television production. She lives in New York City and can be reached at morganvines@yahoo.com.
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