Ricky Martin And Billy Porter Are Both Getting Divorced, And I'm Genuinely Surprised By Both Of These Separations

Today is a big day for gay divorces — like, I'm genuinely caught off guard by both of these, and it's somewhat of a "gay earthquake" in the gay relationship world.

First off, Billy Porter.

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Billy Porter and Adam Smith have been married for six years.

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They're always arm in arm on red carpets.

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They attended Billy's Walk of Fame ceremony together.

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I feel like I always see cute pics of them!

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And now People magazine is reporting that they are breaking up.

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Billy's rep told People, "I can confirm that Billy Porter and his husband, Adam Smith, have made the sad decision to end their marriage after six years."

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He added, "The decision was an amicable and mutual one and was made after much consideration. They continue to love and support each other as they embark on this next chapter."

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I thought that was a big deal, and then Ricky Martin announced his own divorce.

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These are two major gay divorces in one day.

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Ricky has been married to Jwan Yosef for six years.

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They've also been pretty public about their relationship over this time period.

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The two are all over each other's Instagram.

And they're always looking ridiculously handsome on red carpets together.

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In a joint statement to People, Ricky and Jwan said, "We have decided to end our marriage with love, respect and dignity for our children and honoring what we have experienced as a couple all these wonderful years."

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They added, "Our greatest desire now is to continue having a healthy family dynamic and a relationship centered on peace and friendship to continue the joint upbringing of our children, preserving the respect and love we have for each other."

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Oof, I'm not gonna lie, these two divorces came out of nowhere for me.

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Sending love and light to them all.

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