There's nothing shameful about being single. In fact, in a lot of ways, it's better: You can enjoy the independence, you have the ability to get to know yourself apart from any external factors, and you don't have to compromise for anyone. Nobody makes messes you have to clean up, nobody eats the treats you were saving for later, and all your stuff is always exactly where you left it. And the supposed loneliness that comes from being single? Not a factor if you've got friends, family, and other people around you who can fill your days with light and laughter.

But don't just take our word for it. These 40 brilliant quotes about being single show that sometimes, what you need is to just choose yourself. Everyone from the deepest thinkers to relationship experts to single-themselves celebrities say it's true, too. So, whether you've just gotten over a breakup, are getting out of a divorce, haven't found the right person, or plan on being single forever, these wise words about solitude are there to back you up. Because, as the experts say, the longest relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself — so make sure you know how awesome you are, independent of anyone else.