Here’s how people really react when a friend’s spouse tries to make a move on them
Bethany Biron
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Here’s how people really react when a friend’s spouse tries to make a move on them
When your best friend gets married, things inevitably get complicated. Though you may be over the moon for them, the nature of your relationship is bound to change as priorities shift and married life sets in. But things get extra complicated when his or her spouse makes a move on you.
There could be long harbored feelings on both sides, or it could be a completely unwanted gesture, but regardless it is deeply uncomfortable.
Whatever happened to loyalty and to “death do us part” from the spouse?
How do you handle this type of confession and move forward in a way that doesn’t compromise your relationship with your best friend? While it might sound easy to merely rebuff and pretend it never happened, it’s not always so cut and dry. Do you tell your friend? Do you act on your feelings?
Below are 21 confessions from people who have grappled with what to do in this friend’s spouse situation, courtesy of Whisper.
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My best friend's husband made a sexual comment to me one day. Do I tell her that's why I refuse to be around him?
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My best friend's husband said he had feelings for me when he was drunk. I have no interest whatsoever, and he apologized the next day and hasn't spoken of it since....I never told her.
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My best friend's husband told me he really likes me....the problem is I like him too but I'm not gonna tell him or anybody, it's my best friend!
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My best friend's husband tried to hook up with me at a party last night. She was standing with me at the time, along with my husband.
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My best friend's husband confessed he has feelings for me. And now I feel like the shittiest friend and person
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My best friend's husband completely hit on me last night. I let it continue.
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My friend's wife keeps hitting on me everytime I am around them. It's really awkward to be honest.
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my best friend's wife gives the most intense hugs. she squeezes me against her body and even presses her hips against mine. it feels deliciously porno.
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My best friend's wife flirts with me and teases me and I like it
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My best friend's husband is a cheater. He tries to hit on me every time we are alone. I hate his guts!!!
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my best friend's wife always hits on me and offers to sleep with me... I kinda want to take her up on her offer
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My best friend's husband just admitted to liking me more than he should. I don't know what to do... I'm so confused
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My friend's husband has an obvious thing for me. Super uncomfortable...
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My best friends wife just hit on me and he's deployed over seas. Not sure how to deal with this
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My friend's wife just hit on me. I normally would not cross that line, but OMG she's so smoking hot.
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My friend's wife hit on me and I never told him. Rejected her but can't stop fantasizing.
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My best friend's husband hit on me and tho she said she didn't blame me, shut me out of her life.
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My friend's husband looks down my top everytime we have a conversation...
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My friend's husband drunkenly groped my ass at our New Years Eve party a couple years ago. I can't tell her for the fear she will hate me
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My friend's husband sent me a naked vid of himself "on accident". I didn't watch it but I feel like my friend should know this guy has always done sleazy shit like that...
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My friend's wife flirts with me all the time. In truth, I wouldn't mind a threesome. But it'll never happen. She's so hot though!!!
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