Paris Hilton and Carter Reum’s Relationship Timeline Is the Sweetest…and the Most Extra, Obvi

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Heiress-slash-DJ-slash reality TV star-slash serial catchphrase creator Paris Hilton and entrepreneur Carter Reum knew each another for 15 years before they reconnected in late 2019 and dove headfirst into a ~whirlwind romance~. Fast-forward to 2023, and the pair recently celebrated their one-year wedding anniversary and welcomed their first bb, whose Insta debut casually broke the Internet. From gushing birthday tributes to OTT getaways together, Paris has shared glimpses of their sweet relationship timeline on social media. And now we're sharing all of our findings with you—you're welcome!

November 2019

Though the actual origin story between Paris and Carter is unknown, we *do* know they happened to reconnect in 2019 thanks to Carter's sister, Halle Hammond, who invited them both over for Thanksgiving. “I've known him for 15 years,” Hilton revealed to People later on in September 2020. “Then [Halle] invited us to Thanksgiving and we just had this incredible chemistry. We had our first date and haven't spent a night apart since. It's pretty amazing.” S'cute!

January 5, 2020

Ah, their first public appearance! Paris and Carter's new romance ~officially~ went public after they were spotted kissing at a Golden Globes after-party which, 'kay, iconic! “They are dating and happy,” a source told People at the time, while another insider dished to Entertainment Tonight that the two had been seeing each other for a few weeks and were “enjoying each other's company.”

April 29, 2020

The DJ finally confirmed the romance rumors by way of the cutest pic of herself and Carter sharing a kiss on Instagram.

“Happy Anniversary my love. My favorite thing to do is make memories with you. Your kisses are magical.⚡️ I love being yours and knowing you're mine. 😍😍,” she wrote in the tribute, which garnered tons of support from her family, friends, and fans alike. “So sweet!!!! Love this.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️,” the reality TV star's mom Kathy Hilton said, while another Insta user commented, “My love in love 😍.”

September 3, 2020

The heiress opened up about how COVID brought her and Carter closer together since it was truly “the first time I've actually been forced not to travel and stay home.”

“The silver lining is that I get to be with my pets and my boyfriend. We have gotten so close. The amount of time we've had together is what would normally take five years!” Paris added before musing, “I just always wanted what my mom and dad have. They're best friends, he's so loyal. I was always looking for that, but I was looking in the wrong places.”

December 5, 2020

Paris shared a video montage of her and Carter in honor of their one-year dating anniversary. And ofc, the vid was set to the tune of her 2006 track “Heartbeat.”

February 9, 2021

Carter proved to be the ultimate partner as he stood alongside Paris while she testified to the Utah Senate Judiciary, Law Enforcement, and Criminal Justice Committee regarding the physical and psychological abuse she endured as a teenager.

“Talking about something so personal was and is still terrifying,” Paris reportedly told the committee. “But I can not go to sleep at night knowing that there are children that are experiencing the same abuse that I and so many others went through, and neither should you.”

At the time, a source also disclosed to People that Paris “is so grateful that Carter joined her on the trip to Utah. She was so nervous to get up there and say her testimonial, but having him by her side made her feel much more comfortable.”

February 13, 2021

During a vacay on a private island for Paris's 40th birthday, Carter proposed!!! “This past year with COVID has accelerated so many things. As someone who traveled constantly, I had a chance to stay home and reevaluate what was important to me. My relationship and the time I spent with Carter was a gift,” Paris dished to People once news of the engagement broke. “I'm excited for our next chapter.”

Carter added, “I have gotten the unique opportunity to get to know the real Paris on a daily basis just the two of us during these past 15 months and I couldn't be more excited and lucky to have her as my future wife and partner. She shines with her kindness, work ethic, authenticity and her voice in making the world a better place and she will do the same as a future mother and wife.”

March 1, 2021

During an On Air with Ryan Seacrest appearance, the DJ spilled all the deets on her truly massive (read: expensive) diamond ring, which was “inspired by the Grand Palais in Paris.” Carter designed the stunning 💍 with jeweler Jean Dousset, who just so happens to be the great-great-grandson of renowned French jeweler Louis Cartier.

“It's called The Paris. I'm so obsessed with it…it has like 15 diamonds going around and then inside it has a 'P' with a sapphire,” said Paris.

On the celeb's own podcast This is Paris, her sister Nicky Hilton recalled that Carter had asked for her blessing the morning of the proposal. “So, we were at lunch and you got up from the table to go and use the bathroom, and he got up and came and sat next to me and said, 'I have two quick questions,'” Nicky began. “Number one: Will you give me your blessing to marry Paris?” she said, adding that Paris's now-husband also asked if it was possible to have the Hilton family celebrate the engagement on the beach afterwards. “I quickly said yes to both and we got dressed and we were down hiding in the beach,” Nicky gushed.

October 8, 2021

The duo celebrated their joint bachelor and bachelorette party in style with a star-studded celebration in Las Vegas that began at Area 15 and ended at Zouk Nightclub.

November 11, 2021

Paris and Carter tied the knot in a spectacular ceremony and reception at the heiress's late grandfather's former Bel Air home, and she had not one, not two, but three outfit changes (!!), which consisted of two Oscar de la Renta dresses and one Galia Lahav number. Just a few of the lucky attendees? Kim Kardashian, Ashlee Simpson, Nicole Richie, Paris's aunts, Kim and Kyle Richards, Kim Petras (who performed during the ceremony), and Demi Lovato.

Paris also opened up about the significance of getting married on November 11, aka “11:11.”

“11:11 has always been my favorite time of day...It's my reminder to make a wish and be open to miracles. This date is special to Carter and I—it represents our love story, which both of us knew was meant to be,” she recounted to Vogue. Plus, it also served as an homage to the celeb's new media business. “On top of wedding planning, I launched my new media company, 11:11 Media, this year and am in the process of filming and producing a TV show with Peacock called Paris in Love...Thankfully, my mom and groom had a lot of opinions on the planning, so I let them take the reins,” she said.

November 12, 2021

The wedding party continued with a neon carnival-themed party at the Santa Monica Pier the following day.

November 22, 2021

The couple embarked on their “honeymoon world tour”—a phrase that I will fully be adopting from here on out—with a trip to Bora Bora.

January 24, 2022

Paris dished on her hopes of becoming a mother on an episode of Daily Pop and said that it was “definitely one of my top priorities.”

“I cannot wait,” the businesswoman added, confessing she could even see herself becoming a mom to “two or three” kids. “I would want twins first. I don't know it's hard to say. I always wish I had an older brother because I feel like if I did then he would protect me and things like that in school.”

January 27, 2022

During an appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Paris revealed that she'd already given some thought to her future daughter's name 👀. “The girl is gonna be named London Marilyn Hilton Reum,” she said. “Marilyn after my grandmother and London because it's my favorite city and I think Paris and London sound cute together.”

November 5, 2022

The duo looked amazing as they walked the red carpet at the Los Angeles County Museum of Art's 11th annual gala. “Lovely night in LA at@LACMA with my love. 💫,” Paris captioned a carousel alongside her beau (who just so happens to be a LACMA trustee).

November 11, 2022

The couple rang in the one-year celebration of their wedding with a party in Santa Monica, California that doubled as the launch of Paris's global media company, 11:11 Media.

P.S. Someone pls point me to the dupe version of this iconic “sliving” jumpsuit 😗.

December 7, 2022

Paris opened up about the process of undergoing IVF while attending The Hollywood Reporter's Women in Entertainment Gala. “I was like, 'This is perfect timing. Usually, I'm on a plane 250 days out of the year, and let's just get all of the eggs stocked and ready,' and we have tons of them just waiting,” she said before hinting that 2023 could be the year she and Carter expand their family.

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“We really wanted to enjoy our first year of marriage together as a couple, you know, before bringing kids into the mix,” she added, which is truly *chef's kiss* timing since a little over a month later....

January 24, 2023

Paris and Carter welcomed a baby via surrogate!!!

People later confirmed that the bb is a boy, with the heiress telling the magazine, “It's always been my dream to be a mother and I'm so happy that Carter and I found each other.” She added, “We are so excited to start our family together and our hearts are exploding with love for our baby boy.”

February 17, 2023

Carter threw the ultimate surprise bday bash for Paris at their home in Beverly Hills. And in case you were in the mood to snoop, we can confirm that the guest list included tons of famous faces including Noah Centineo, Rebel Wilson, Sia and Kimora Lee Simmons.

“Thank you my love for surprising me with such a beautiful evening.🥹 Loved having such an intimate low key birthday this year with close friends and family🥰 Such a special night, feeling so incredibly happy and blessed.💖🥹✨ #BirthdayPrincess 👑 #Sliving,” Paris gushed.

August 6, 2023

Paris dropped a cute video of Carter moments and called him her "one in a million." Truly awwww.

Welp, guess there’s nothing left to do but follow Paris on Insta to get all the cute 'ship updates—byeeeeee!

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