This Mom Told Her 11-Year-Old Daughter That She's "Too Old To Cuddle," And It's Starting Conversations About The Importance Of Parental Affection
There is a section on Reddit called "Am I the Asshole?" which is where people second-guess how they've handled certain situations and ask users their opinion on whether or not they were — you guessed it — assholes.
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So, today's dilemma comes from Reddit user u/Abject_Ad_4249, who is 37 years old. She and her 38-year-old husband have an 11-year-old daughter who "is very small for her age and gets treated like a younger child sometimes."
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In the thread, u/Abject_Ad_4249 explains how her daughter loves to hop on her and her husband's lap and cuddle but that she has been feeling like her daughter is too old for that.
So, when her daughter recently tried to hop in her lap and cuddle, she told her to get off. "She got really upset, got off me, went to her room, and slammed the door. She hasn't tried to get in my lap since then and things are tense between us. She doesn't talk to me unless she has to and when I hugged her goodnight last night she didn't hug me back," u/Abject_Ad_4249 shared in the thread.
"I feel really guilty because I obviously hurt her feelings but I feel like she might be too old for sitting on my lap. Am I the Asshole?"
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Right away, it was apparent that people thought this was an asshole move by the mom.
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