Meggie Kempner’s Gorgeous Garden Wedding in Beverly Hills

Meggie Kempner, Granddaughter of the Legendary New York Socialite, Marries Ian McLean in an Intimate Garden in Beverly Hills

Ian and I kicked off the wedding weekend with a rehearsal dinner and welcome party at the Los Angeles Country Club. I wore a custom dress by designer and friend Johanna Ortiz. Ian wore a blue deconstructed Neapolitan sport coat and ecru pants by Cesare Attolini.
Ian and I kicked off the wedding weekend with a rehearsal dinner and welcome party at the Los Angeles Country Club. I wore a custom dress by designer and friend Johanna Ortiz. Ian wore a blue deconstructed Neapolitan sport coat and ecru pants by Cesare Attolini.
Photo: Donna Newman
For the rehearsal dinner, I wore a custom dress by designer and friend Johanna Ortiz. Johanna created the design of this dress with the Beverly Hills setting in mind, and it worked so perfectly. I love how playful and feminine her designs are—they make for the most fun evenings!
We lined the lawn with hundreds of votive candles. After dinner, when the sun had gone down, the flickering lights illuminated the lawn.
We lined the lawn with hundreds of votive candles. After dinner, when the sun had gone down, the flickering lights illuminated the lawn.
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My mother-in-law, Lindsay, worked with Moon Canyon florists to create these gorgeous centerpieces that were inspired by the design on our save the date.
The green and white of our wedding ceremony program was a continuation of the theme that we carried out throughout all of the wedding decor. We were inspired by all of the lush greenery in the garden where our ceremony took place.
The green and white of our wedding ceremony program was a continuation of the theme that we carried out throughout all of the wedding decor. We were inspired by all of the lush greenery in the garden where our ceremony took place.
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My beautiful dress and shoes. I had the pleasure of working with the talented designers at Oscar de la Renta, Fernando Garcia and Laura Kim, who made this one-of-a-kind strapless beaded beauty and blush shoes for my big day.
My beautiful dress and shoes. I had the pleasure of working with the talented designers at Oscar de la Renta, Fernando Garcia and Laura Kim, who made this one-of-a-kind strapless beaded beauty and blush shoes for my big day.
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Our wedding bands were designed by Betteridge in Greenwich, Connecticut. Ian also designed my engagement ring with them. They are the best!
My mom and sister were by my side throughout this entire process. The day of the wedding, they kept me calm and continuously made me laugh, so I didn’t have any time to be nervous. Here they are helping me into my dress.
My mom and sister were by my side throughout this entire process. The day of the wedding, they kept me calm and continuously made me laugh, so I didn’t have any time to be nervous. Here they are helping me into my dress.
Photo: Donna Newman
During one of my fittings at the Oscar de la Renta showroom, I saw a sample of these shoes from one of their upcoming ready-to-wear collections in black. I loved the simple yet elegant silhouette of the shoe. So, the designers made the shoe in a light blush satin to pair with my dress.
My makeup artist, Liza Zaretsky, and my hairstylist, Calista Sanderson, did such a fabulous job. My makeup was natural with a rose-color lip and my hair was pulled back into a traditional low chignon.
My makeup artist, Liza Zaretsky, and my hairstylist, Calista Sanderson, did such a fabulous job. My makeup was natural with a rose-color lip and my hair was pulled back into a traditional low chignon.
Photo: Donna Newman
Ian and his groomsmen started their day by the pool and then moved into his room to get ready for the ceremony. Ian wore a midnight blue tuxedo by Ralph Lauren.
Ian and his groomsmen started their day by the pool and then moved into his room to get ready for the ceremony. Ian wore a midnight blue tuxedo by Ralph Lauren.
Photo: Donna Newman
My beautiful bridesmaids in their floral dresses right before the ceremony. I love how all of their dresses were different yet looked so nice together.
My beautiful bridesmaids in their floral dresses right before the ceremony. I love how all of their dresses were different yet looked so nice together.
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My dad and I knew the moment when we first saw each other would be pretty emotional, so we made sure to have tissues handy. I was so excited to see him and couldn’t wait to show him my dress. How sharp does he look in his tuxedo?
My dad and I knew the moment when we first saw each other would be pretty emotional, so we made sure to have tissues handy. I was so excited to see him and couldn’t wait to show him my dress. How sharp does he look in his tuxedo?
Photo: Donna Newman
Sharing this moment with my father was so special. I know we will both cherish this memory forever.
Sharing this moment with my father was so special. I know we will both cherish this memory forever.
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Off to see my groom!
Off to see my groom!
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My maid of honor, sister, and best friend, Nina. I think Nina was made for this role, she couldn’t have been more helpful and supportive throughout the entire weekend. She also brought the house down with her toast that night.
My maid of honor, sister, and best friend, Nina. I think Nina was made for this role, she couldn’t have been more helpful and supportive throughout the entire weekend. She also brought the house down with her toast that night.
Photo: Donna Newman
The original five Kempners. We are a very close-knit family, and I think the wedding brought us even closer. My parents, Cynthia and Jamie, have been married for over 30 years and have taught us through example what a loving marriage looks like. Chris, Nina, and I are so lucky.
I couldn’t imagine my wedding party without these guys. David Ryan; my brother, Chris; Hunter Ryan; and Alex Hammerschlag are some of my closest friends, so they had to be bridesmen. David (left), had a vision for their look based on an inspiration image he loved. Together, we worked with Gucci to create these custom tuxedos. The white dinner jackets looked so nice next to the bridesmaids’ dresses.
All of the flowers at the wedding were white and ivory mixed with greenery. My bouquet was a mixture of peonies, cherry blossom branches, ranunculus, flannel flower, and a hint of ferns.
All of the flowers at the wedding were white and ivory mixed with greenery. My bouquet was a mixture of peonies, cherry blossom branches, ranunculus, flannel flower, and a hint of ferns.
Photo: Donna Newman
My adorable flower girls, Rose, Joan, and Coco, in their adorable Brock Collection x Maisonette dresses.
My adorable flower girls, Rose, Joan, and Coco, in their adorable Brock Collection x Maisonette dresses.
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After a scenic stroll through the gardens, I finally reached the end to see Ian for the first time. I couldn’t wait to see him!
After a scenic stroll through the gardens, I finally reached the end to see Ian for the first time. I couldn’t wait to see him!
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The beautiful garden where our ceremony took place. We wanted it to feel natural and emphasize all of the greenery. We built the wood plank aisle and brought in wooden chairs to keep with the organic feel. The temperature was perfect and the light was beautiful.
The beautiful garden where our ceremony took place. We wanted it to feel natural and emphasize all of the greenery. We built the wood plank aisle and brought in wooden chairs to keep with the organic feel. The temperature was perfect and the light was beautiful.
Photo: Donna Newman
The string quartet set the mood for guests as they entered the garden. They played contemporary songs before the ceremony and then we had more traditional music during the ceremony. Our families and bridal party entered to “Hallelujah” and my dad walked me down the aisle to Pachelbel’s “Canon in D.” After the ceremony, we all recessed to “This Must Be the Place” by the Talking Heads.
Ian and I were so grateful that all of our family and friends traveled to L.A. to be with us for our big day. We were so lucky to be surrounded by our favorite people on the best day of our lives.
Ian and I were so grateful that all of our family and friends traveled to L.A. to be with us for our big day. We were so lucky to be surrounded by our favorite people on the best day of our lives.
Photo: Donna Newman
My flower girls making their big entrance.
My flower girls making their big entrance.
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Ian’s best friend, Parry Sorensen, escorted my best friend, Alexandra Michler, into the ceremony.
Ian’s best friend, Parry Sorensen, escorted my best friend, Alexandra Michler, into the ceremony.
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I love this picture of my dad and I right before we took our walk down the aisle. My dad was suggesting that we take a moment to pause at the top of the aisle and take it all in, so we would remember it for the rest of our lives. I am so glad we did.
I love this picture of my dad and I right before we took our walk down the aisle. My dad was suggesting that we take a moment to pause at the top of the aisle and take it all in, so we would remember it for the rest of our lives. I am so glad we did.
Photo: Donna Newman
My beautiful mother, Cynthia, just after my brother, Chris, walked her down the aisle. My mom helped me plan every detail of the wedding. The two of us had so much fun throughout the process.
My beautiful mother, Cynthia, just after my brother, Chris, walked her down the aisle. My mom helped me plan every detail of the wedding. The two of us had so much fun throughout the process.
Photo: Donna Newman
Walking down the aisle with my father was a dream. The wood aisle was edged with gatherings of ferns, foliage, and growing white and ivory flowers.
Walking down the aisle with my father was a dream. The wood aisle was edged with gatherings of ferns, foliage, and growing white and ivory flowers.
Photo: Donna Newman
During the ceremony, we had two very special people recite readings. Ian’s cousin, Isabel Boswell Phillips, read Ever to Be Near Ye!, by Robert Burns, and my best friend, Alexandra Michler, read Love, by Roy Croft.
During the ceremony, we had two very special people recite readings. Ian’s cousin, Isabel Boswell Phillips, read Ever to Be Near Ye!, by Robert Burns, and my best friend, Alexandra Michler, read Love, by Roy Croft.
Photo: Donna Newman
Here we are under our beautiful arbor as our reverend, Lee Lakso, announced us husband and wife.
Here we are under our beautiful arbor as our reverend, Lee Lakso, announced us husband and wife.
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The first kiss as Mr. and Mrs. McLean!
The first kiss as Mr. and Mrs. McLean!
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One of our flower girls was my cousin, Miss Coco Fletcher, here with her father, Tim. Coco is acting shy in this picture, but she is the coolest California girl I know!
One of our flower girls was my cousin, Miss Coco Fletcher, here with her father, Tim. Coco is acting shy in this picture, but she is the coolest California girl I know!
Photo: Donna Newman
During cocktail hour, Ian and I went back into the garden for a few moments alone to enjoy the beautiful setting. Then, we joined our guests to celebrate.
During cocktail hour, Ian and I went back into the garden for a few moments alone to enjoy the beautiful setting. Then, we joined our guests to celebrate.
Photo: Donna Newman
An intimate moment captured during photos by our photographer, Donna Newman. Ian and I hadn’t seen each other since Friday night after the rehearsal dinner, since we spent the night before our wedding apart. All of our nerves melted away once we were together.
An intimate moment captured during photos by our photographer, Donna Newman. Ian and I hadn’t seen each other since Friday night after the rehearsal dinner, since we spent the night before our wedding apart. All of our nerves melted away once we were together.
Photo: Donna Newman
Ian and I in front of the iconic Beverly Hills Hotel channeling a Slim Aarons photograph.
Ian and I in front of the iconic Beverly Hills Hotel channeling a Slim Aarons photograph.
Photo: Donna Newman
The ballroom looked magnificent. The delicate ceiling treatment, the hand-painted stage backdrop, and deep emerald velvet tablecloths really pulled the entire room together.
The ballroom looked magnificent. The delicate ceiling treatment, the hand-painted stage backdrop, and deep emerald velvet tablecloths really pulled the entire room together.
Photo: Donna Newman
The Velvet Garden created a truly magical environment using various forms of verdant ferns, petite garden greens, blooming camellias, garden roses, peonies, ranunculus, sweet pea, and hellebores.
The Velvet Garden created a truly magical environment using various forms of verdant ferns, petite garden greens, blooming camellias, garden roses, peonies, ranunculus, sweet pea, and hellebores.
Photo: Donna Newman
We created all of our paper items with our planners and East Six from scratch to make sure everything felt cohesive . . . the save the dates, invitations, the wedding monogram stamps, and illustrated menus.
We created all of our paper items with our planners and East Six from scratch to make sure everything felt cohesive . . . the save the dates, invitations, the wedding monogram stamps, and illustrated menus.
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We loved the idea of embroidering our monogram on white hemstitch napkins that we could keep in our apartment in New York City for future dinner parties!
We loved the idea of embroidering our monogram on white hemstitch napkins that we could keep in our apartment in New York City for future dinner parties!
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Ian and I shared our first dance to John Mayer’s cover of “XO” by Beyoncé.
Ian and I shared our first dance to John Mayer’s cover of “XO” by Beyoncé.
Photo: Donna Newman
Toward the end of the night, Ian and I went up to a hidden balcony above the ballroom and got to look down and take in this beautiful setting. It was a special moment for the two of us. I may have also thrown my bouquet from up there.
Toward the end of the night, Ian and I went up to a hidden balcony above the ballroom and got to look down and take in this beautiful setting. It was a special moment for the two of us. I may have also thrown my bouquet from up there.
Photo: Donna Newman
Following dinner, the two of us snuck away to change. I changed into a long-sleeved ivory beaded Naeem Khan dress. I wanted my next dress to be completely different from my wedding gown and the white and silver beading on this gown felt perfect for dancing. Ian changed into a white dinner jacket by Ralph Lauren. I loved that we were both in white.
Our cake was inspired by vintage botanical prints—The Butter End did such a beautiful job creating our very own original design. We couldn’t decide on a flavor, so we had alternating layers of vanilla and carrot cake (my favorite)!
Our cake was almost too pretty to eat! We couldn’t decide on one flavor, so we had alternating layers of vanilla cake and carrot cake. It was absolutely delicious!
Our cake was almost too pretty to eat! We couldn’t decide on one flavor, so we had alternating layers of vanilla cake and carrot cake. It was absolutely delicious!
Photo: Donna Newman
We wanted the after-party to feel like more of a lounge. We brought in an emerald green circular dance floor, low pink modular couches, and had the “Megs Ian Love” neon sign hanging above the DJ booth.
We wanted the after-party to feel like more of a lounge. We brought in an emerald green circular dance floor, low pink modular couches, and had the “Megs Ian Love” neon sign hanging above the DJ booth.
Photo: Donna Newman
The neon sign with our hashtag, #megsianlove, was such a fun addition to the after-party lounge.
The neon sign with our hashtag, #megsianlove, was such a fun addition to the after-party lounge.
Photo: Donna Newman
A few of my beautiful bridesmaids dancing their way into the after-party.
A few of my beautiful bridesmaids dancing their way into the after-party.
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I’m not sure I ever stopped dancing that night. I guess this action shot is proof.
I’m not sure I ever stopped dancing that night. I guess this action shot is proof.
Photo: Donna Newman
My final look of the evening was a white Victoria Beckham dress with lavender tweed Chanel shoes. The perfect after-party look.
My final look of the evening was a white Victoria Beckham dress with lavender tweed Chanel shoes. The perfect after-party look.
Photo: Donna Newman
A fabulous end to a fabulous night!
A fabulous end to a fabulous night!
Photo: Donna Newman

Interior designer Meggie Kempner—the granddaughter of couture collector and society doyenne Nan Kempner, a woman who famously ruled the social scene in New York City in the 1950s and ’60s—was introduced to financier Ian McLean by a mutual friend in Palm Beach, Florida, over Presidents’ Day weekend in 2013. Ian was there on a boys’ golfing trip, and she was visiting the Sunshine State with a group of girlfriends. “We all met for drinks at the Tapestry Bar at the Breakers and then had dinner at Renato’s,” Meggie remembers. “We really hit it off that night!”

After that memorable meal, the two returned to New York City and went to Marc Forgione in Tribeca for their first date. “It was his favorite restaurant, but I’d never been,” Meggie recalls. “We had such a fun, delicious dinner, and then we went next door to Weather Up for a nightcap.”

Fast-forward to 2017, when Ian told Meggie he’d made a reservation for dinner at Marc Forgione. “This didn’t seem out of the ordinary, because by now it had become a favorite restaurant for both of us,” Meggie admits. “Anyway, we were on our way there when he asked if I wanted to hop out and walk since there was a bit of traffic. He led me into Duane Park, the quaint, flower-lined green space near the restaurant, and got down on one knee and proposed. Somehow we had the park to ourselves and sat there for a few minutes just enjoying the excitement.”

After the surprise had sunken in, they headed over to Marc Forgione, where Ian had requested the table where they’d had their first date. “That night, we celebrated, just the two of us,” says Meggie. “We even went next door for a cocktail at Weather Up, just as we had done on our first date.” The next morning, they met Meggie’s parents for brunch at Le Bilboquet, and that evening, Ian had planned a celebratory dinner with a few of their closest friends at the Waverly Inn.

Meggie and Ian grew up in totally different places—she’s from Connecticut, and he calls Ohio home. But it was really important to both of them that their friends and family from various parts of the world be able to spend an entire weekend together and really get to know one another at their wedding. After some back-and-forth about where to have it, they ended up choosing Los Angeles, because they’d spent a lot of time there as a couple and both have extended family in the area. “The Beverly Hills Hotel is one of our favorite places in the world, so we landed on that pretty quickly,” says Meggie. “We saw the gorgeous garden where our ceremony would take place and knew instantly. We also loved the idea of our guests being able to enjoy themselves by the pool all weekend!”

Once they’d booked their venue, it was easier for Meggie to envision what type of dress might work. “I didn’t want anything super-traditional. I had seen a dress that I loved in the Oscar de la Renta Spring collection, and I really liked the idea of wearing Oscar, because my grandmother, Nan, was very close friends with him. She had taken me to see him when I was selecting my debutante dress, so it felt right.”

Meggie reached out to the designers, Fernando Garcia and Laura Kim, and they agreed to make her a gown based off of the original that she had fallen in love with. “We worked together to create the most magical dress. I loved the airiness and slight sheerness through the leg,” says the bride. “The veil, with its cascading leaves, tied the whole look together perfectly.” For jewelry, Meggie wore diamond earrings from Betteridge, where the couple’s wedding bands and the bride’s engagement ring are also from, and a sapphire and diamond pinkie ring, which Ian had given her for Christmas, as her something blue. On her other hand, as her something borrowed, she wore a diamond ring that her grandmother had passed down to her mother. “It was originally a pair of earrings, but after losing one, my grandmother transformed it into a steel ring with a gold bezel. It’s so different and has always been my favorite piece of jewelry,” Meggie notes. She wore her hair in a low chignon and kept her makeup natural, with a rose lip.

On the day of the wedding, the weather couldn’t have been any better—the sun was shining and the temperature was just right. A string quartet set the mood as guests arrived and took their seats in a palm tree–lined garden. “We wanted it to look very green and natural, like you had stumbled into somebody’s personal garden,” says Meggie. The couple’s wedding planner, Stefanie Cove, used wooden chairs and created a plank aisle so that the entire design scheme looked organic within the space. The arbor Meggie and Ian were married under was a mixture of garden roses, Queen Anne’s lace, and snowball viburnum. Heirloom roses lay atop, as if it had all been growing there for years. Meggie and Ian wrote their own vows. “We were both a little nervous reciting them in front of everyone, but it honestly felt like it was just the two of us,” Meggie remembers.

Following the ceremony, there were cocktails and hors d’oeuvres outside, before guests moved into the crystal ballroom, where the tables were set with dark green velvet tablecloths and lined with a lush, low meandering garden of verdant foliage with ivory and white blooming flowers. Each arrangement was a little bit different from the next. Meanwhile, the ceiling was lined with smilax and Italian ruscus greenery.

Dinner began with a market garden salad topped with Pecorino, toasted hazelnuts, and a truffle vinaigrette, followed by a choice of dover sole meunière or slow-roasted lamb for the entrée. “Since my family has an obsession with ordering side dishes at every restaurant we go to, we had three different vegetable sides served to every table—brussels sprouts with pancetta, cauliflower gremolata, and twice-baked potatoes,” Meggie says, laughing. Dessert was wedding cake and an assortment of cookies, brownies, and other delicious bites. “We also had beautiful white chocolate bark infused with lavender florals on each table as part of the decor, but also to give guests something sweet to nibble on throughout dinner,” Meggie notes. “I learned this from my grandmother, who always had beautiful chocolates on her tables at her famous dinner parties.”

Meggie’s sister, father, brother, and Ian all gave unforgettable toasts during dinner. Then, after a quick change into a long-sleeved ivory beaded Naeem Khan dress, perfect for twirling, she and Ian, who switched into a white Ralph Lauren dinner jacket, hit the dance floor. “Our band, Ground Control, must have been good, because they managed to get everyone on the dance floor—even my grandfather!” says Meggie. Toward the end of the reception, the newlyweds stole away for a moment, heading upstairs to a hidden balcony overlooking the ballroom. “It was such a special moment to look out at our guests and just take it all in,” Meggie remembers.

Post-reception, dancing continued in a lounge with music by DJ Sam French. There was a neon sign with the couple’s wedding hashtag “#megsianlove,” long pink couches, and an emerald green circular dance floor. Meggie changed one last time into a white Victoria Beckham dress with a sexy criss-cross back and lavender tweed Chanel shoes, and the party began anew.

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