LGBTQ People Shared Their Favorite "Mom, How Did You Not Know?!" Pictures, And They're Equal Parts Hilarious And Heartwarming
Every Pride we ask LGBTQ members of the BuzzFeed Community to send us pictures of their younger not-so-straight selves. Because *most people* love these posts, I asked again and you delivered with more great pics. Enjoy and happy Pride!
1."Supporting my first pop diva with a fresh coat of lip balm💋" —javieravila
2."Gays can never pose normal, it’s not in our DNA." —gabriellastra
Editor's note: Is that a grave!?!
3."Dancing > football." —eds22
4."So excited for my rainbow suspenders! Rainbow. Suspenders." —jbuffett76
5."My sister holding a Barbie, my brother holding a G.I. Joe, and me holding...a remote-control rat." — cactipoke
6."Serving face, stunting pretty. I'm the bitch from the 'happiest place in the world.'" —cagedbird
7."It is truly a mystery that my mother was surprised when I came out… I had those cargo pants in three different colors and LOVED them. —jmjustrun
8."Doing the most always 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈" —emmaroseharrell
9."A very on-brand picture of me when I was 7." —timothygonzales
10."So many contrasting energies... dino pjs + bridal Barbie." —cgpappas12
11."My mini lezzie self was all business in the front and party in the back! And no butch would be complete without a workout panda shirt!" —amandab225
12."There was never a question." —rickyw4779a636b
13."If that’s not a tiny lesbian then I don’t know what is!" —aleamato111
14."I've got mother's purse, heels, and keys — ready to hit the grocery store." —okn0tok
15."'90s baby bi wearing a flipped up purple bucket hat, a white T-shirt under a striped mock turtleneck, and all of that under Winnie the Pooh overall shorts." —shaylariday74
16."I’ll just leave this here." —jeremyb17
17."The hand says it all lol." —gabriellastra
18."Catch a big fish ✅ Bevel like Rockette ✅" —rjp1981
19."I was a pre-teen person in Texas the 1970s, this is how we actually dressed. But that sassy hip sling says it all." —wonkobox
20."Not pictured: Navy blue camo cargo shorts." —acmielke
21."My mom loves to send me this one at least once a year lol." —brantleyw
22."What can I say? I always loved an open toe." —rdsalt
23."Ken might have brought me out of the closet, but Barbie taught me how to slay!" —mikemontiel
24."Absolute gay main character lmao." —stellarstella64
25."I clearly knew from a young age I wanted my milkshake to bring everyone to the yard. Not just boys 😂" —phoenixrose12
26."The leather. The look. The lean. Clearly a budding bisexual in the making 👏" —jordanb4ca1e7ae3
27.“I’m just a Tomboy, I don’t like girls!” —amart91
28."The pose, the pink rope, and the Guess overalls. I don’t know how my family didn’t expect a gay boy." —nickanick88
29."This was in fifth grade when I forgot it was picture day. This is the gayest photo I have of myself to date and I’m 36 now lol."—maryzaroura
30."A young queer can always recognize the gay icon greatness of queen Tina Turner 🌈" —briannamyoung01
31."The coordinated outfit, the pose, the cat, I was a fabulous child." —samuelgrillo
32."I mean, is an explanation really necessary? I feel like this picture pretty much speaks for itself (and dates itself)." —padawanryan
33."The fact that my parents didn’t see my escape from the closet coming blows my mind." —glitterybubble50
34."I was very excited to sit on Smurfette’s lap..." —jamiev424c94b8b
35."Featuring me AND my little brother, who is also gay!" —alexg69
36."10 months old and I already knew that a lace front was the way to go." —andyd
37."Strike a pose, there's nothing to it." —Andres Zapata, Facebook
38."I had a Spice Girls picture book and copied Baby Spice’s poses in every photo I took in the '90s. ✌"—jonob93
39."Just your average cowboy." —jarrettsavant
40."My four older brothers and I all picked out our own Easter outfits that year. I call this picture, 'Blue, Blue, Brown, Brown, Gay.'" —seejordan
41."Look at that smile and the head tilt. How was my mom shocked when I came out at 29?" —ikbalsutannasution
42."Oh, this? Just a sign I made, printed out, colored IN A RAINBOW and demanded my dad take a picture of me for absolutely no reason other than to proclaim my love for all things Les Mis." —travisgrossi
43."Here's me at age nine as the only girl in football camp with 30 boys 😅 And people were surprised when I turned out to be a lesbian 😅😅" —s46b39a4b5
44."20 years ago and I already was doing the universal bi (peace) sign." —nadine5678
45."1-year-old. #BabyButch #Forever." —kiaraj92
46."The flannel, the sunglasses, my brother’s shoes, and my dad’s hat." —valb4d3667845
47."Future lesbian reporting with my best ‘on my way to steal ya girl’ face.'" —taylorbrookecyr
48."Even at age 3 I couldn’t sit in a chair like a normal person." — Alice
49."As a young girl, I got cast in my school's Christmas play...as one of the Wise Men. Mum unknowingly helped me get into my first drag — even drawing a beard on me.” —lildragjesus
50."The suspenders over the checkered sweatshirt, over the turtleneck, and the teal chunky pants they’re holding up. Plus the side eye practicing my “hey” look. Clearly trans non-binary from birth." —kendallmaye
51."I can literally hear myself in this picture." —raymondcantu1
52."I didn't know I was gay yet, but my mom's shirt sure did." —Jay Jay
53."Striking a pose even when I was supposed to be fishing." —codystretchb
54."I couldn’t quite grasp the whole ‘sitting in chairs correctly’ concept." —lizmenendez
55."More interested in posing with the fish than actually catching them." —jkcy87
56."How did my parents not figure it out for 21 years?" —trashhuman
57."My parents had to know, right?" —mmartinh13
58."As a non-binary person who uses they/them pronouns, this makes perfect sense to me. My bowl cut, rainbow heart shirt, and the pose. Iconic awkward androgyny." —mgtuff99
59."Howdy ladies." —nicolew4fa00946c
60."I'm a gay trans man who loves dresses. I made outfits like this all the time as a kid, which caused my parents not to believe me when I came out six years ago. But now that it's a little more acceptable for people to wear what they like regardless of gender, I can confidently wear what I want and not worry about what others think again :)" —maxymurder
61."If this cross-legged picture with Ball Gown Minnie didn't do it for 'em, I'm not sure what else they were waiting for. This was a complete serve for 4-year-old me." —ColieOlieOleman
62."The Hawaiian shirt and King Princess haircut should have been indicators of my lesbianism early in life!" —izzyrusso
63."Hand on hip, holding up a VHS of the Swan Princess. I loved that film, and was damned proud to have it!" —tellerink
64."I'm FTM. This is me around age 3, dressed as my favorite fictional character at the time: Max, King of the Wild Things." —pariss4ba788046
65."Kindergarten was my first day in drag!" —johncampa
66."Mom wanted pretty dress, I wanted mud puddles." —humanrhapsody
67."A baby gay with legs for days." —lummis7
68."Have you ever seen a more fabulous Batman?! I basically came out with the strength of the bat signal." —jmehock
69."The sass alone should’ve been a giveaway, but I went to Catholic school, thankfully I had two amazing parents who recognized it before I did and were very supportive when I figured it out." —rickyw
70."Here I am on Christmas morning with Cool Shavin' Ken. It should come as no surprise that my Barbies all ended up with shaved heads." —katiem124
71."Let's just say it didn't really come as a shock to anybody when I turned out to be a gay trans man." —19gbiggs99
72."Short spikey hair (modeled after my favorite wrestler back in the day) and I compromised with the pink sweatshirt to make my mother happy, but come on, I’m not fooling anyone here: GAYYYY!!" —sydneyp123
73."I meeeean…" —caseymaine
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