The internet is torn over whether “Cat Person,” a short story about a 20-year-old’s one-night stand, is good or not
In a world where something new goes viral every day, captivating anyone with a smart phone and dominating our feeds, it can sometimes feel impossible to keep up. Usually it’s a video or a meme, sometimes it’s a tweet or a Facebook post, but it’s usually always short, easily digestible, and forgotten about faster than you can say “covfefe.”
Enter “Cat Person,” a short story written by Kristen Roupenian, a Ph.D. Candidate at Harvard University, published last week in The New Yorker. Roupenian’s work of fiction stands at just over 7,000 words, making it a solid read in our 280-character world, but it has managed to spark an intense social media debate about gender discourse and the politics of consent and sexual encounters.
The story follows a 20-year-old woman named Margot who forms a relationship with a 34-year-old man named Robert. The two meet at Margot’s concession stand job one evening during her sophomore year of college. Though Margot and Robert initially meet face-to-face, it’s their communication via text message that largely guides the early ship of their developing relationship.
The story that plays out involves their first “real” date, in which Margot reveals that while she consents to having sex with Robert, she ultimately goes through with it purely to avoid hurting his feelings and creating an uncomfortable situation.
My thoughts on The New Yorker's "Cat Person":
1. Everyone in this story is unlikeable.
2. Not enough emphasis on cats.— Evelina (@EvelinaTwitch) December 11, 2017
In a post-Weinstein (and current #MeToo) world, for many women, the story feels eerily timely and painfully relatable. And as often as new things go viral on the internet, new stories about powerful men using their power to sexually harass and assault their victims become an almost mind-numbingly new norm. But still, this isn’t a story about sexual assault, nor is it a story about sexual harassment (unless, of course, you count the word Robert uses to describe Margot in their final interaction).
Instead, “Cat Person” is about the disturbing reality of gender dynamics in which women (and especially young women) move through the world politely stepping on proverbial eggshells, careful not to make waves or cause unrest, especially when it comes to men.
The saddest thing for me about the Cat Person story is it reminds me of all the times I have broken my own boundaries in order to please him or because I'm afraid of dealing with his hurt feelings
— Felicity Morse (@FelicityMorse) December 11, 2017
There’s no coercion, no assault, and no force used in the interactions depicted in the story, but that doesn’t make this story any less uncomfortable to read. It’s that grimacing, uneasy reaction that is captivating people on social media, with varying arguments centered on one focus: Is “Cat Person” even good?
Naturally, many more women are in the “yes” camp, likely because they see a bit of themselves somewhere in Margot’s thought processes and her experiences. Men, on the other hand, have wildly differing views — and like all viral internet phenomena, there’s already a parody Twitter account sharing men’s reactions to the story.
— Men React to Cat Person (@MenCatPerson) December 11, 2017
“Cat Person” might be an unlikely candidate for a viral social media sensation of the week, but it has certainly struck a nerve, with people using their 140 (or 280) characters to explain their thoughts on these two fictional characters and their disconcerting physical encounter.
There are those who side firmly with the fictional Margot, a young woman whose behavior is believed to be a byproduct of the sexist and misogynistic world she inhabits. Sure, she’s flawed, but who isn’t?
I’m seeing so many takes about Cat Person that revolve around Margot being “selfish” and “vapid”.
1) why are we demanding perfect 20 yr old female protagonists?
2) maybe don’t bemoan the *selfishness* of a young woman who had sex because she felt it would be rude NOT to— Twas the Nat Before Christmas (@NatPurser) December 11, 2017
There are those who sympathize with Robert and bristle at the portrayal of him as an unclean, desperate, social misfit.
Am I the only person to feel sorry for the guy too in #CatPerson ? They’re both trapped in a dysfunctional way of relating to other people sexually that’s partly biologically and partly socially created. The human condition is problematic for everyone.
— Carol Thind (@CarolThind) December 11, 2017
And there are those who believe the hallmark of great fiction is that all characters (much like all real human beings) are imperfect, make poor decisions with good intentions, and often display questionable ethics.
#CatPerson is a very well-written short story with fictional characters. It’s worrying that many don’t realise good literature doesn’t have to be morally flawless.
— Greg Jenner (@greg_jenner) December 11, 2017
A very good thing about Cat Person is the frank internality that presents thoughts—even the problematic, self-contradictory, & immature—without equivocation. We feel relieved when art finds a way of frankly admitting to thoughts we, for fear of judgment, pretend aren't happening.
— BEN KLING INNOCENT !!!!!!!!!! (@benkling) December 11, 2017
There are valid criticisms of the way Robert’s body and appearance is described, spurring debate about anti-fat bias and fatphobia.
"Cat Person" is a very poignant story. It is also completely saturated in anti-fat bias.
If you liked it, if you shared it, please read it again. Look for the ways Robert's body is used throughout as a sign of repulsiveness, a trigger for regret, a harbinger of things to come.— Your Fat Friend (@yrfatfriend) December 11, 2017
The story is also churning more overarching conversations about the ensuing optics when it’s no longer women’s bodies and appearances being picked apart, but men’s.
This is one of the lines that stood out for me the most in #CatPerson.
At first it was jarring, then I realised it was jarring because men's clothing choices and how clothes interact with their bodies/appearance are never ever spoken of like this.
Just women's. All the time. pic.twitter.com/M3sfoJyxIx— you better watch out
(@goulcher) December 11, 2017
And while the author herself had no idea that the story would go viral the way it has, it feels especially poignant that a short story written by a young woman about a young woman remains at the forefront of the ever-changing news cycle, at least for a little while. Of course, you’re entitled to feel however you feel after reading the story (yes, even if you’re dismayed by the total lack of cats in it, or the blatant disrespect to lovers of Red Vines) but we are hopeful that stories told by women about women will continue to fill our cultural narrative, in whatever form they might take.
The “Cat Person” story in the New Yorker is a really good reminder to all men that our busted masculinity can lead us to treat women really poorly without necessarily meaning to or even realising it until years later
— Abraham LinkedIn (@bad_brain_haver) December 10, 2017
We also hope that, much like the continuing conversation surrounding sexual assault and harassment, the conversation around consent, desire, and sexuality continues to include more voices and more opinions, allowing a much-needed shift in whose perspective gets to establish our norms in these areas.
tl;dr: We need sex education that focuses on pleasure, not just on risk. We need to create a culture of enthusiastic consent. And we need to talk about all of the nuances of consent in order to fix our broken culture.
— ella dawson (@brosandprose) December 9, 2017
That’s the kind of stuff that won’t disappear as quickly as your latest Snapchat selfie.