Don't Know What to Write in a Wedding Card? Here Are Some Heartfelt Messages to Start With

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After you've toasted the happy couple at their engagement party, bachelor or bachelorette party, and bridal shower, when the wedding day finally arrives the long-awaited event can feel so momentous that it's tough to put into words. At no point is this more clear than when figuring out what to write in a wedding card. Even if your expression of joy feels very specific to the engaged couple, it can be tricky not to sound clichéd or to repeat advice that you've heard countless times before.

However, if you are wondering what to write in a wedding card, it's OK to keep the sentiment focused on the high spirits of the day and your best wishes for their long and happy future together. Keep in mind that even if you are just close to one person in the couple, a wedding card is traditionally addressed to both people, so make sure you are appropriately inclusive.

While it might take a few tries to get the wording and tone just right, the card that accompanies the wedding gift should ultimately be short and sweet. You can use these handy ideas to help you figure out what to write in a wedding card, which you can tweak and personalize for the to-be-wed couple.

"We're so grateful to be able to celebrate this day with you."

Whether you've traveled a long way or no farther than your own neighborhood for the occasion, to be able to witness a union such as theirs is a special privilege.

"Cherish each other in your years to come as much as you do today."

Here's hoping that their honeymoon phase is more like a honeymoon era.

"May this new chapter of your love story be the best one yet."

Forget the standard "happily ever after" — their wedding day is the just the beginning of something new and exciting for both of them.

"Continue to celebrate and uplift each other at every opportunity."

Even when times are tough, their tenderness and encouragement toward each other will help get them through it all.

"I can't imagine two people who are more perfect for each other."

This sentiment is for a couple who are truly best friends.

"May the love you share deepen for all time."

Here's to a 50th-anniversary celebration that's just as epic as their wedding day!

"Sending you our love and blessings for a long and happy life together."

Well-wishes like this one are always appropriate in nearly any wedding card, whether the people getting married are best friends of yours or distant relations.

"We hope you look back on this day as the beginning of an amazing adventure."

The wedding planning alone has been a journey, but it's nothing compared to the excitement that the future holds for them.

"Wishing you a lifetime of health and happiness.”

They have vowed to care for each other "in sickness and in health," and this echoes that powerful promise.

“Congratulations on each of you finding your special person.”

There are an infinite number of circumstances that could result in meeting the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with — and they all aligned just for these two.

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