Don't Be Basic: These 20 Birthday Gifts for Her Are Guaranteed to Standout from the Rest

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Unlike major holidays like Christmas and Valentine’s Day, her birthday is the one day of the year that’s dedicated to her. From spending the day surrounded by loved ones to treating herself to a luxury good to taking advantage of birthday freebies, there are lots of ways for her to commemorate another trip around the sun. If you’re looking to make it even better, there’s no better way to add to the celebration than to surprise her with a special gift.

While we know there’s no one-size-fits-all birthday gift, we gathered birthday gifts for her to help you give the absolute best. From your mom to your sister to your best friend, we added gifts that’ll impress every lady in your life. We included a pair of comfy pajamas perfect for lounging around, self-care gifts for when she finally has a moment to herself, and multiple jewelry options that make great personalized gifts. Whether you choose to send fresh flowers her way or help her relax after a long day with a heated massager, you’re guaranteed to get a memorable birthday gift for her.

Gisele Two-Piece Pajama Set

She’ll sleep in absolute luxury with this Eberjey pajama set. Made of 95% modal jersey, this set is buttery soft, cool to the touch, and won’t shrink.

“My wife and mother both received these pajamas as a gift and reported that they couldn’t be happier. My mom actually said they are the most luxurious thing she owns,” shares this 5-star Amazon reviewer.

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Heated Eye Massager

Between her phone, computer, and television, her eyes could use a break. This eye massager features built-in heating pads that heat to a comfortable temperature between 104°F-107°F, built-in speakers to enjoy Bluetooth music, adjustable compression, and five different modes to help her eyes relax. Plus, it has a foldable, portable design, so she can take it wherever she goes.

“What do you get for the person that has everything? Well, I ordered these for my mom’s 87th birthday, and she's been thrilled with them! They allow her to relax and take the strain off her eyes whenever she needs a break,” explains this 5-star Amazon reviewer.

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Shower Steamers Aromatherapy

When she can’t make it to the spa, this birthday gift for her is a must. This pack includes six individually-wrapped shower steamers, each made with natural essential oils for a relaxing experience.

As this 5-star Amazon reviewer raves, “I am in love with these. I’ve never written a review before, but I got these last month for my birthday and have the 2-pack in my shopping cart. The orange is by far my favorite! I told my girlfriends to jump on these! Love them!”

From aunts to new moms, I’ve given a set of shower steamers many times to the women in my life, and it’s always a hit. My recipients often share that they love the scents and the convenience of a spa-like shower at home.

The Bucket List: 1000 Adventures Big & Small (Bucket Lists)

If she’s planning on filling her upcoming year with adventures abroad, this birthday gift will give her major travel inspiration. From monuments to museums to mountains, it features a country-by-country index, once-in-a-lifetime activities, and over 300 photos to fuel her wanderlust.

As this 5-star Amazon reviewer exclaims, “This was a gift for my daughter, and she loved it! The cover and illustrations are beautiful!”

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Pearl Drop Hoop Earrings

Treat her like the queen you know she is with these drop earrings. Monica Vinader is a popular British jewelry brand amongst the royal family. Each 18-karat-gold vermeil earring features a freshwater baroque pearl for a timeless look.

As this 5-star reviewer shares, “These MV pearl earrings are so beautiful, and due to the size (on the dainty size) and being lightweight, they are great for everyday wear.”

Shiatsu Massager with Heat

Whether she’s had a long day or wants a moment to herself, this birthday gift for her will help ease tension and stress. This portable heated massager has eight kneading nodes, three speed settings, and an auto-shut-off feature to turn it off after 15 minutes.

Consider adding two to your cart as this 5-star Amazon reviewer says, “Bought this for my mom’s birthday since she is working from home now. She said it works great and helps her out a lot after a long day at work. Now I just need to buy myself one!”

Birthdate Candle

Made of an all-natural soy and coconut wax blend, this hand-poured birthdate candle features a detailed character reading on the back to guide your recipient on her path. It also has a custom scent to match her inner spirit.

As this happy 5-star reviewer shares, “I love my birthday candle. Mine smells great, and the one I bought my bestie (how could I not?) smells even better! The perfect birthday (or any time of year) gift for the guy or gal who has everything!”

The Leather Carabiner Mini Crossbody Bag

Equal parts stylish and practical, this crossbody bag will be the one birthday gift for her that’ll easily become her new go-to accessory. Made of Italian leather, it features slide pockets on the inside and outside for her valuables as well as a removable, adjustable strap.

“This little crossbody fits my huge iPhone 14 pro max, my pens, my lip balm, and a couple of other small items. So far, I’ve used it for a night out and graduation. It went well with a formal-ish dress,” shares this 5-star reviewer.

Custom Birthstone Bracelet

Add some sparkle to your recipient's wrist with this custom birthstone bracelet. You simply choose the birthstone and the finish — silver, gold, or rose gold. You can also add her initial to the pendant for a beautiful personalized gift she'll wear every day.

As this 5-star reviewer shares, “I bought this for my best friend’s birthday, and she just loved it!”

Tea World Tour Gifts

This tea subscription will have your recipient sipping on teas from around the world from the comfort of her home. Each shipment includes the two single-origin teas delivered at peak fitness for her to enjoy over 30 cups, a postcard from the featured country, and tips for steeping. You can choose from 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscription plans.

As this 5-star reviewer raves, “Atlas Tea is fantastic! I have a passion for tea and traveling the world, and I love that Atlas Tea combines those in the most beautiful way. Not only is the tea absolutely delicious, but the packaging it comes in every month is so detailed and thoughtful. I love the postcards every month too, and learning about the countries! This is my favorite tea subscription I’ve ever used by far!”

Happy Birthday Assorted Roses

Brighten up her day and her home with these assorted roses. This colorful bouquet comes with a pre-inflated “Happy Birthday” balloon to mark the occasion. It’s available in 12 and 24 stems.

As this 5-star reviewer shares, “My good friend was celebrating a birthday in another state (across the country from me). A phone call didn't seem like enough to let her know how much she means to me. I sent her a beautiful bouquet of roses! She enjoyed receiving them on her special day and called me and tearfully expressed how much it was appreciated!”

eGift Card

We’ve all been there: You RSVP'd to the party weeks ago but completely forgot to get her a birthday gift. That’s when this Sephora gift card comes in handy. Even if makeup isn’t her thing, Sephora has skincare, fragrances, and more for her to treat herself to and get a gift she truly wants.

You can also personalize the digital gift card design with a custom photo to make it a special last-minute gift.

Taylor Swift Albums as Books Sweatshirt

This one’s for the Swifties. The thoughtful design on the front features flowers, butterflies, and Taylor Swift’s albums as books. It’s available in different colors and as a sweatshirt or hoodie.

You’ll probably want one, too as this 5-star reviewer says, “Perfect for a Swiftie birthday gift! Great quality, felt super comfortable — I only wish I got one for myself too!”

Signature Cookie Assortment

This birthday gift for her will satisfy any sweet tooth. This assortment of cookies from the popular bakery includes four flavors — chocolate chip walnut, dark chocolate chocolate chip, dark chocolate peanut butter chip, and oatmeal raisin. You can choose from a 4-, 8-, and 12-pack.

One of my best friends moved away from New York City years ago, and these Levain cookies are always a welcomed gift on her birthday.

Meet the Mani System

The Mani System from Olive & June is a birthday gift for her that’ll help her achieve salon-quality nails at home. It includes polishes of your choice, a top coat, a polish remover pot, cuticle serum, a clean-up brush, and other tools to get the perfect manicured nails.

I received this as a gift a couple of years ago and absolutely love it. It’s my go-to for at-home manicures. I’ve added new shades and replaced the tools over time.

As this impressed 5-star reviewer says, “This system has everything you need for your new nails! I have completely dropped salon manicures for the O&J system. I can paint my nails easily, and they look great!”

Printed Robe

Add some whimsy to her every day with this colorful printed robe from Printfresh. It’s made of organic cotton poplin and hand screen-printed by artisans in India. It’s available in other equally fun prints to match her unique style.

As this repeat 5-star reviewer shares, “This robe is so well made and comfortable! I feel so luxurious wearing it. It is thick enough to feel like good coverage while being light enough for warmer days. The print is absolutely adorable — and after one wash, the fabric is even softer with no color transfer. I am so pleased with this purchase and will definitely be purchasing more!”

Undated Daily Planner

This undated daily planner will keep your busy recipient organized at any time of the year. From goal planning to shopping lists, it covers 16 weeks with space for scheduling, notes, and more. Plus, you can add her name to the cover for a personal touch.

Wilder Alphabet Necklace

Make her jewelry collection a bit more personal with this birthday gift for her. Whether she layers it with her other favorite pieces or wears it on its own, this gold-plated initial necklace will stand out.

Gift Subscription

Surprise her with more than just one bottle of vino on her special day with this wine subscription. It’s available as a 6- or 15-bottle subscription. You can choose the type of wine (red, white, or mixed), frequency, and number of shipments to fit her preferences.

New York Times Custom Birthday Book

This birthday gift for her can be enjoyed all year round. The New York Times birthday book is filled with front pages from each year since your recipient’s birth, making for a historical coffee table read.

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