My daughter refuses to change the date of her wedding, which I can't safely attend

A mother wrote to Group Chat about her daughter’s wedding in Lake Como, Italy, amidst the global coronavirus pandemic.“My daughter is planning on having her wedding ... even though ... her father and I are on the highly susceptible list,” she added .“What am I to think? How should I respond? This is heartbreaking. We only have one daughter,” she asked.Here’s what a few ITK writers thought about the issue.Jamé Jackson said: “Focus more on your health and safety right now, because you can do a celebration anytime”.Alex Lasker said: “Is one day of ... celebration worth the risk of ... potentially missing out on the rest of your life? Absolutely not”.Morgan Greenwald said: “if you tell your daughter you won’t be attending, this may help her understand the severity of the situation”