Austin Butler Makes Rare Comment About His Romance With Kaia Gerber

Austin Butler Makes Rare Comment About His Romance With Kaia Gerber
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Elvis star Austin Butler was first romantically linked to Kaia Gerber in late 2021, but they've gotten a lot of attention lately as Butler's award wining performance in the rock star's biopic has increased his visibility.

Part of people's interest is the couple's previous amours. Gerber dated Euphoria star Jacob Elordi for a year before they split in September of 2020; she's also been linked to Pete Davidson. Her relationship with Elordi ended about a month before she was connected to Butler. The 21-year-old has a busy life as an actress and model, taking after her mother, supermodel Cindy Crawford, which has made certain relationships difficult.

In an interview about her romantic past with Vogue, Gerber said, “I found myself in situations where I was, like, I actually don’t have the life experience that I need to handle this. You know, I was doing fashion month, but I was so young I had kissed, like, only one person. I had never had a high school sweetheart or anything.”

She added that she ended up dating “older people,” because that's who she was surrounded by in the world of fashion. Davidson was 26 when he dated 18-year-old Gerber in 2020.

“I got put in situations where one day I’d wake up and be like, How did I get here? I have no idea what I’m doing, and I need help,” she explained. “And being able to ask for that help was amazing. That’s what real growing up means, not being afraid to ask.”

Butler was in a relationship with ex-girlfriend Vanessa Hudgens for nine years, and they were officially reported as being over in January 2020. The 31-year-old actor has said Hudgens had a big impact on his career, encouraging him to go for the Elvis Presley role—though the distance while he was filming was apparently a major hinder in their relationship. The two's romance ended while he was working on the project.

“I was actually driving up through Griffith Park and Elvis’s ‘Blue Christmas’ came on,” the 31-year-old actor told Vogue in April 2022. “I was singing along with it when my friend had kind of an epiphany: ‘You need to play Elvis.’”

The friend in that story was apparently Hudgens.

Here's the complete timeline of Butler and Gerber's romance.

December 2021

The first rumors that the couple were together began when they were seen attending a yoga class together in December 2021. A source told Us Weekly at the time, “They are low-key dating. It’s still very new.

He was also seen on December 8 at Celine's fashion show, where Gerber was walking the runway at the Wiltern Theatre in Los Angeles. He was photographed with some of Gerber's family, including Cindy Crawford and Rande Gerber.

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A source told People that they were spending a lot of time together before the holidays, adding, “She seems really happy. All of her friends think he's really cute.”

February 2022

The pair spent Valentine's Day together in London.

March 2022

The new couple loves traveling together and headed to Paris just after Paris Fashion Week, according to The Daily Mail. Later, they made their first public appearance at a big event, attending the W magazines pre-Oscars party in Los Angeles. They did not walk the red carpet together, but were seen together on their way out.

April 2022

Gerber and Butler were photographed holding hands on a date in Malibu at a farmer's market, the most couple-y activity imaginable.

May 2022

They finally made their red carpet debut at the Metropolitan Museum of Art for its 2022 Met Gala. The theme for the night was the Gilded Age, and Gerber wore a metallic gown by Alexander McQueen, and Butler wore a black Prada suit. They look totally enamored with one another all night.

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Later that month, Gerber attended the 2022 Cannes Film Festival premiere of Elvis.

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They were then photographed smooching backstage.

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Also in May, Butler was asked about his relationship in a GQ interview, and replied, “I don't think there's anything I want to share about that. But thank you for providing the space.”

July 2022

Gerber's tattoo of the words “I know” on her wrist seemingly gave away that she made a guest appearance in Butler's photoshoot for VMAN 49's Fall-Winter 2022 issue. In the black-and-white photos, her arms are draped around his neck, though he hides the rest of her from the camera lens.

August 2022

More people began to notice the stark 10-year age gap between Butler and Gerber. A 2007 photo of Gerber with his former flame, Vanessa Hudgens, went viral. It depicted them meeting during a High School Musical 2 red carpet event, Hudgens a young adult and Gerber a child.

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December 2022

Butler and Gerber enjoyed a pre-New Year’s getaway in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, with her parents—Rande Gerber and Crawford—and her brother, Presley Gerber. Earlier in the month, it was reported that Kaia supported Butler when he made his Saturday Night Live hosting debut.

January 2023

Butler won in the Best Performance by an Actor in a Motion Picture – Drama at the 2023 Golden Globes, and Gerber was there for his big win. However, his official date of the night was his older sister Ashley.

“I'm going to bring my sister,” he told Entertainment Tonight. The decision was “hard, [but] she's my one and only sister, so it'll be nice to be with her.”

Before the event, Gerber and Butler enjoyed the W and Louis Vuitton's pre-Golden Globes dinner together, and an insider at the event told Page Six that the couple was “cuddled up in the corner.” The two were also seen “making out” backstage at the Golden Globes, per Page Six.

Around this time, Butler's accent was noted by fans as being completely different than his voice pre-Elvis. This is where he told the infamous story about Hudgens encouraging him to go for the role while at The Hollywood Reporters roundtable.

“The month before I heard that Baz [Luhrmann] was making the movie, I was going to look at Christmas lights with a friend,” he said. “And there was an Elvis Christmas song on the radio and I was singing along and my friend looked over at me and goes, ‘You’ve got to play Elvis.’ I said, ‘Oh, that’s such a long shot.’”

“A couple of weeks later, I was playing the piano,” he continued. “I never really sang for any of my friends or anything. That same friend was there and I was playing the piano. She said, ‘I’m serious. You gotta figure out how you can get the rights to a script.’ Then my agent called and said, ‘So Baz Luhrmann is making an Elvis film.’”

Hudgens essentially told the same story on Live With Kelly and Ryan in 2019, when the two were still together.

“Last December, we were driving along and we were listening to Christmas music, and then an Elvis Presley Christmas song came on,” Hudgens said. “He had just dyed his hair dark. He’s a natural blonde...and I was looking at him and he was singing along and I was like, ‘Babe, you need to play Elvis.’ Then in January, he was sitting at the piano. And he’s playing and he’s singing and I’m like, ‘I don’t know how, but you need to figure out how you can play Elvis. Like, I don’t know how we get rights or what we do, but you need to play him.”

Hudgens is currently dating basketball star Cole Tucker, and most people assumed she wasn't particularly salty about Butler's success or his new relationship. But then Instagram user Ryan Scott cracked a joke about Butler's Presley new lilt, insinuating he's putting it on to warm up award show voters.

“He went to the Lady Gaga school of campaign acting,” Scott wrote, along with a tweet from Page Six about Butler's vocal coach gave about his accent.

Hudgens quickly liked the post, then commented, “Crying.”

Presumably, she means crying-laughing.

February 2023

While Gerber and Butler didn't walk any award show red carpets together that month, the two did attend parties together. Page Six reported that the two was seen “making out all night” at W magazine’s annual Best Performances party on February 24. They posed together inside and at the event's photo call, matching in black.

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March 2023

In late March, Butler and Gerber were seen in Los Cabos, Mexico, taking a romantic break together after a long Oscar season. Butler lost the Best Actor Academy Award to Brendan Fraser for his performance in The Whale.

The couple were seen out on their resort's loungers in their bathing suits before leaning in to enjoy a little PDA. The couple kissed passionately before turning to read and relax. Gerber was wearing a brown two-piece and Butler was topless and wearing bathing shorts and black sunglasses. Later the couple took a golf cart out to dinner.

April 2023

On April 26, Austin Butler and Kaia Gerber were on the red carpet for the TIME100 Gala, looking glamorous and in love. Gerber was wearing a grey turtleneck Khaite gown with a flaring pleated skirt. Butler was in a classic black suit and tie. The actor made the list this year for his performance in Elvis as the titular rock star.

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The couple held hands and looked at each other affectionately as they posed for pictures before entering the ceremony.

August 2023

On Saturday, August 19, Gerber and Butler were seen leaving a private party in Malibu and sharing a sweet embrace. They hugged as they walked off with friends, then held hands. Gerber wore a brown and green patterned skirt and green sweater, with black sunglasses, leaving her brown hair down and straight. Butler was clad in a blue button down shirt, jeans, and brown leather shoes.

The couple was later photographed on August 28, holding hands while going out for dinner at Funke in Beverly Hills. Gerber wore flare jeans and a tan vest, while Butler was in a leather jacket, black T-shirt, and dark denim.

September 2023

A source spoke to Us Weekly about how Gerber and Butler’s relationship was going, giving the most detail about them in months.

“Kaia can’t believe she and Austin have been dating for nearly two years,” the source said. “They’ve both been so busy with their careers that the time has flown by.”

Despite their “packed schedules,” the source said, “they spend as much time together as they can. Although Austin and Kaia are both in the public eye, they’re really down to earth and have a very secure relationship, so they never let jealousy or anything like that get in the way.”

The source added that they have plans to spend the holidays together, and Butler gets along with her parents. “Kaia loves that her family gets along so well with Austin,” the insider said. “He’s joined them on several vacations and he’s definitely a part of the family.”

December 2023

Gerber and Butler ended their year with a vacation together in Mexico. The couple was photographed in Cabo San Lucas on Christmas. Gerber was in a swimsuit, while Butler wore navy swimming trunks.

February 2024

Gerber was featured on the March cover of British Vogue. Her boyfriend couldn't help gushing about it when he spoke with Entertainment Tonight while walking the red carpet at the London premiere of Dune: Part Two.

“It was legendary,” he said of his girlfriend's accomplishment. “It was amazing. I loved getting to see that. What an exciting cover. I loved it.”

Though not long, the comment was special for how rare it is. In fact, just a few days earlier on February 13, Gerber commented in an interview with WSJ Magazine on why they maintain so much privacy around their relationship, saying, “Honestly, I feel like so few things in my life are private, and that is one of the things that I try to keep as sacred as possible.”

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