A Definitive Timeline of Cole Sprouse and Lili Reinhart’s Relationship, Before (and After) Their Breakup

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From Cosmopolitan

After nearly two years of dating (which is really, like, 10 years in Hollywood), Riverdale costars Cole Sprouse and Lili Reinhart had their first official breakup. But surprise! They got back together soon after…even though they never really confirmed the original dating rumors in the first place by specifically saying, “Hey, look—we are in a relationship with each other!”

And surprise, again! They apparently broke up for the second time “before the pandemic hit,” according to sources. The good news here is that Sprousehart—aka what fans of their relationship refer to their pairing as—is still friends despite the recent split.

While you’re currently trying to remember what the heck those possible cheating rumors were all about (big yikes) and what happened this time, let’s deep-dive and take a look back at their relationship. Enjoy!

February 25, 2017

Cole and Lili start flirting big-time on Twitter. A peach emoji is involved, and I stop writing this timeline to watch Call Me by Your Name.

March 18, 2017

Cole posts this photo of Lili to Instagram, causing Bughead fans to fly into a tailspin over the possibility that they might be in love IRL. The fledgling shipper name known as Sprousehart is birthed.

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July 14, 2017

Fans find a random photo of Lili and Cole at a party and decide that Lili’s hand is most definitely on Cole’s thigh. OMG, WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN.


July 24, 2017

People reports that Cole and Lili are secretly dating after Lili is spotted wearing Cole’s blazer at a Comic Con party. They’re later “seen canoodling, holding hands, and kissing.”

July 28, 2018

Cole and Lili “accidentally” hold hands during an interview with TV Line. It is, unequivocally, the cutest thing of all time:

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Photo credit: TVLine - Giphy

August 4, 2017

Lili wishes Cole a happy birthday, calling him “the man who has showed me more beautiful places in this past year than I have ever seen in my whole life.”

August 11, 2017

Riverdale actor Skeet Ulrich accidentally blows up Lili and Cole’s spot and low-key confirms to ET that they’re dating. “I’m not surprised,” said Skeet, man with a fabulous name. “They have great chemistry and they’ve been at our house with a lot of the Riverdale people and they always enjoy each other’s company. So I wish them the best.”

September 13, 2017

Cole is asked about dating Lili during a Riverdale cover story for Entertainment Weekly, and he doesn’t exactly deny it. “Truthfully, it’s very pleasing that people talk about Lili and I in that way,” he said. “Because it means that we’re resonating so strongly that people really want that to be true.”

October 3, 2017

Lili and Cole appear on The Tonight Show and make every effort to completely ignore each other. They even sit on opposite sides of the couch:

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Photo credit: NBC

But naturally, a fan catches Cole embracing Lili *right* as the show cuts to commercial. We see you!

October 17, 2017

Cole continues to spam our feed with gorgeous photos he took of Lili (by “spam,” we definitely mean bless).

October 18, 2017

Lili opens up about filming kissing scenes with Cole, telling ET, “I feel like it’s very comfortable at this point. I mean, it’s The CW, you’re not going to get too crazy. It’s just like kissing and hugging. I think we’re all so comfortable with one another that it’s not even really a thing....If we have a kissing scene, it’s fine. We don’t really think twice about it. When new characters have to kiss, it’s a little different and you’re like, ‘Oh, okay! What’s this?’”

November 22, 2017

Cole refuses to comment on speculation that he’s dating Lili and has a pretty good reason: “Whether you dismiss those rumors or whether you encourage those rumors, it’s giving people who are, in my opinion, a bit entitled to your personal life more power,” he told People. “And you have to have spaces for reverence in the industry. The more you let people in on that, the more people feel entitled to it and the more it becomes problematic with whoever you end up being with in the future, so I take that very seriously. So I just never talk about it because it’s not anyone’s right to know.”

January 3, 2018

Cole and Lili spend New Year’s Eve in Hawaii together, and fans share some photos on social:

January 10, 2018

Lili refuses to address rumors about her relationship, telling V Magazine, “People are just dying to know information about if I’m in a relationship or not. I understand the interest, but it’s called a private life for a reason. And it’s not something that I owe the world. People are going to say anything and everything. They’re going to say that I love KJ, they’re gonna say that I love Cami, and they’re gonna say that I love Cole: It’s inevitable. But I’m not at a point in my life where I’m ready to openly confirm, deny, or talk about a relationship that I’m in, because I think it’s brutal to have a relationship in the spotlight where I can be scrutinized by anyone and everyone.”

March 25, 2018

Cole and Lili hit up PaleyFest L.A., and a fan in the crowd yells, “Lili, I’m coming for your man!” Her response is everything.

April 3, 2018

Lili and Cole are spotted kissing in Paris while at Rivercon, a French festival celebrating all things Riverdale! For people who live life according to the motto “pics or it didn’t happen,” this is HUGE.

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Photo credit: BACKGRID

April 5, 2018

After their trip to Paris, the pair was hounded by paparazzi at the airport. TMZ posted footage of Lili and Cole unamused by all the questions and pestering. When questioned about their relationship, Lili ends up responding to the paparazzo, saying, “It’s an obvious answer.” TMZ took this to be confirmation from Lili that, obviously, the relationship is official.

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April 17, 2018

Cole and Lili skip Coachella for a trip to Mexico, where they stay at a resort called Cuixmala, and Cole takes a million stunning photos of his definitely/maybe girlfriend.

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May 7, 2018

Cole and Lili make their debut at the 2018 Met Gala, and honestly, I’m not even mad at it. Confirming their relationship in ~style~.

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July 2, 2018

In an interview with Harper’s Bazaar, Lili has a lot to say about her relationship with Cole...mostly about how she’s uncomfortable with talking to press about what goes on between them. “I’m not okay talking about my relationship,” Lili said. “I’m not going to tell you my love story. That’s just not appropriate right now.” Well, okay then!

August 4, 2018

Lili wishes Cole a happy 26th birthday, and at this point, it’s pretty darn obvious they’re dating. She posts a pic of him to her Instagram with a super-gushy caption to go along with it. Warning: Lili’s message is SO sweet it might give you a cavity. “It seems as if the world would still be a stranger to me, if not for you,” she wrote. “I’m so thankful that our paths intertwined to form this beautiful adventure,” ending the caption with, “Happy birthday, my love.” MY! LOVE!!! If that’s not dating, then I don’t know what is.

August 6, 2018

Skeet and Mädchen Amick (FP Jones and Alice Cooper from Riverdale) speak with Entertainment Tonight and gave some preeetty juicy tidbits about Lili and Cole’s relationship on- and off-set.

“It’s great. I mean, they didn’t talk about [their relationship] the entire time, until just recently,” Mädchen tells Entertainment Tonight. “So it’s nice that they’re able to now, like, be public with it, so it’s not so under wraps. Behind the scenes, they’re so sweet with each other and they’re both just exceptional people.”

Sounds like a relationship confirmation, right? Well, not exactly. While the interview seemed like an entire Sprousehart parade, Skeet ended it by saying, “Their friendship is beautiful.” I’m sorry, what? Maybe he’s just trolling?!

August 30, 2018

Lili and Cole take a trip together to the City of Love (aka Paris), as couples tend to do when they’re in a relationship. But you know, still no official confirmations!

September 13, 2018

Cole wishes Lili a happy birthday this time and posts a topless photo of her, but it didn’t stop there. The cherry on top? Cole calling Lili his “little muse.”

October 13, 2018

Lili, behind the camera this time, posts a shirtless photo of Cole on the beach. Clearly in the mood to troll, Cole decides to comment on the picture, asking, “Are you guys dating?” LOL.

November 22, 2018

Cole heads to the Reinharts’ house for Thanksgiving. Talk about taking the next step in their relationship(?)! It’s a huge family affair, and there are pics to prove it.

March 7, 2019

Finally—some PDA! At the premiere for Cole’s movie Five Feet Apart, Cole and Lili walk the red carpet together and treat fans of their relationship to some good old-fashioned PDA. There’s kissing, ear whispers, loving gazes—you name it! It’s all very couple-y.

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Photo credit: Getty Images
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Photo credit: Getty Images

March 15, 2019

Surprise! Cole finally throws Sprousehart shippers a bone. In an interview with Glamour, Cole spills the beans on the most romantic date he’s ever taken Lili on. “I took my [Lili] on a date where we drove to this location deep into Canada, and I surprised her with a big hot-air balloon adventure, which was quite a bit of fun,” he says. “I like traveling quite a bit. I like road-tripping. Those grand experiences always end up yielding the greatest memories—and the greatest romances.” WOW, I’m trying really hard not to be jealous, but let’s be honest. This is just too f*cking romantic.

May 5, 2019

Cole and Lili attend their second Met Gala looking whimsical AF—perfect, considering the year’s theme is “Camp: Notes on Fashion.”

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July 22, 2019

Nope, I’m not crying! I just have the dissolution of Sprousehart in my eye 😭. After nearly two years of dating, Us Weekly has reported that Cole and Lili have broken up. Although the two played nice during their Comic Con panel the weekend before the news hit headlines, they were barely seen together at the post-event party. After the panel, Lili posts a pic to Instagram that now looks suuuper shady:

“Please don’t put me between these two ever again.” Um...awkward!

An E! News source adds that Lili and Cole have likely been broken up for a while now. “Lili and Cole broke up earlier this summer,” the source said. “The two are not living together this season.”

Although the news seems pretty sudden, there might be some hope that Sprousehart will get back together eventually. “Right now, it’s unclear where things stand, but it seems [like] they could be heading back in the direction of getting together,” the source added.

July 25, 2019

Things start getting hellllla awkward for Lili and Cole, because literally three days after the Sprousehart breakup news hits the internet, Lili and Cole’s joint interview with W magazine breaks. And if that weren’t already awkward enough, Lili and Cole both agreed to do the interview separately. Uh, maybe that was the first sign of trouble in paradise?

Lili says the major reason they wanted to be interviewed apart from each other is because they’re consistently grouped together, likely because of Riverdale and their TV ship, Bughead. Lili says:

“We’re not fighting with the idea that people group us together, but we are paired up a lot. We’re acknowledging that we’re in a relationship, but it’s a small part of who we are as people. We want our own separate identities.”

Cole basically says the same thing in fewer words. “Lili is an incredibly talented individual who speaks for herself and deserves her own voice box in every single way,” he said. “That alone is justification enough for me to do it like this.”

Lili also talks about why she and Cole prefer to keep their relationship on the DL:

“At first, I didn’t want things private. Now that I’m X amount of years in, I do appreciate the privacy we have, that he’s encouraged me to take. No one knows how long we’ve been together, and no one will until we’re ready to say it. No one knows how we fell in love, except for our close friends and us. It’s really special.”

A couple hours or so pass since the W magazine interview went up, and Lili and Cole fully unleash how they feel about the whole thing. And boy, it is super messy! You might want to grab some popcorn real quick. Got it? Good.

On Instagram, both Lili and Cole post the magazine cover to their respective accounts with scathing commentary attached to it. Lili writes, “BREAKING: A reliable source has confirmed that none of you know shit.” Cole, literally at the same time, posts the same pic and writes, “UNPRECEDENTED: Cole Sprouse and Lili Reinhart consume the flesh of ‘reliable sources’ to fuel their bacchanalian sex cult.” Did you have to google what “bacchanalian” means? Yeah, same.

August 7, 2019

Lili and Cole address the breakup rumors...again. You know, for a former couple that just had a breakup, they’re still super chatty about one another! Variety posts an Instagram picture of Cole from its Power of Young Hollywood issue. Although it’s not at all related to their alleged breakup, Lili posts a very trolly comment under the photo anyway, writing, “Sources say he’s single now—is he available?” LOL. Lili removes the comment later on, but the internet is forever.

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The night before, Cole speaks to Entertainment Tonight about their breakup and stresses the importance of poking fun at the rumors and trolling the media. Cole says he’s “incredibly” annoyed by the breakup reports and adds, “No, I don’t care. That’s the nature of our industry.” He also says, “I think you have to poke fun of it a little bit. It’s kind of something you sign up for, but as long as you can keep it light and fun, it’s all good.” Sure, Cole! Suuure.

September 9, 2019

After what seems like ages, we finally have some kind of clarity on where things stand with Lili and Cole—bless!!! While promoting Hustlers at the Toronto International Film Festival, Lili does an interview with Coveteur and low-key spills the beans on whether Cole is her BF. She talks about her talent for doing special-effects makeup and what her dress-up plans are for Halloween and says Cole will be dressing up with her. Because yes, he is her boyfriend!!!

Here’s what Lili said:

“I am [good at special-effects makeup]! Oh my god, I haven’t done that in a really long time, actually. I kind of went from special-effects makeup to face painting. So I’ve done a lot in the past. Now I don’t really have the time, which sounds so stupid, but I really don’t. It takes a lot of time to do those things. I think I’m leaning in toward a character for Halloween. I think I’m going to do it with my boyfriend, Cole. I don’t want to spoil it if it’s not going to happen, but it’s a TV duo.”

So, you guys...it’s official. Sprousehart is BACK ON. What a blessed day it is!

September 13, 2019

Lili and Cole spent Friday the 13th celebrating Lili’s birthday. And what better way to celebrate than by posting a bunch of make-out pics on Instagram?

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Photo credit: Cole Sprouse - Instagram

“Lil @LiliReinhart was born on a Friday the 13th and haven’t I just been so lucky ever since?” Cole wrote. Awwwww.

November 10, 2019

Cole attends the People’s Choice Awards alone, but Lili’s cheering on her mans from the comfort of her home when he accepts the award for Drama Movie Star of 2019.

To celebrate, Lili writes, “Congrats to my people’s choice best baby,” on a picture of Cole onstage at the show.

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January 6, 2020

People think that something miiight be going on between Cole and Lily-Rose Depp because they were spotted together at the 2020 Golden Globes after-party, but don’t worry—it’s all hearsay! “Cole and Lily-Rose Depp are friends,” a source tells E!, adding that “there hasn’t been any on-set tension, fights, or issues [between Cole and Lili] since their reconciliation at the beginning of Riverdale’s production season.”

February 5, 2020

Lili and Cole unfollow each other on Instagram, which admittedly looks kinda sus. The good news is that it was a mistake. According to Lili, it was just a glitch in the system, and they both are following each other again.

April 20, 2020

Literally did not see this coming at all, but rumors about Cole cheating on Lili with Kaia Gerber start to surface. Cole, however, is not having it at ALL and took to Instagram to say just how untrue the whole story is. Feel free to read his fiery, SAT-vocabulary-filled rant below:

“I tolerate a lot of rumors and slander from people online claiming to be my fans. Fans who feel entitled to my privacy precisely because I never indulge them. But attacking my friends, baseless accusations, leaking my address, and sending death threats are all qualities of insanity and fanaticism.

“When I first stepped into a public relationship, this was one of the foreseeable consequences. And while I truly never intended to indulge any part of my private life to the ravenous horde, it’s clear my restraint in updating them has allowed them to push their own agenda onto my habits and lifestyle.

“So in conclusion—please eat my delectable plump ass. (Making me post a goddamn white font Insta Story like a divorced mother of three.)”

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May 25, 2020

Almost a year after the initial breakup rumors, sources are once again reporting that Cole and Lili split before coronavirus forced us all inside. A Page Six source said, “Cole and Lili split before the pandemic hit and have been quarantining separately. They remain good friends.”

May 26, 2020

More details about the split emerge, and it becomes apparent that distance played a major role. According to one E! source:

“Distance is never good for their relationship. They decided not to quarantine together and knew off the bat that it wasn’t going to work. They both know their communication is better when they are together in person, and it just wasn’t working.”

June 3, 2020

Lili casually comes out as bisexual while promoting a LGTBQ+ Black Lives Matter protest.

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August 6, 2020

For the first time, Lili talks in depth about her sexuality, and tells Flaunt Magazine that she's always known that she likes men and women.

“I knew full well that I was attracted to women from a young age,” she says. “I felt that since I’ve exclusively been in heteronormative relationships, it would be too easy for any outsider, especially the media, to vilify me and accuse me of faking it to get attention. That’s not something I wanted to deal with.”

Lili sexuality wasn't all that surprising to those in her inner circle, though: “To my close friends, and those in my life, my bisexuality has been no secret,” meaning that Cole obviously is one of those people!

August 18, 2020

Wowowow so ahead of the release of her poetry book (out September 29, have you pre-ordered your copy yet?), Lili does a massive interview with Refinery 29 and people think her quotes are all about Cole.

Lili says she felt like she was in “black tunnel [that] was never going to end. I couldn't see the light. I was like, I feel like I'm dying. It was fucking rough, and there's no other way through it than just through it. I've seen a lot of people when it comes to heartache and grief and breakups, and they try to get that void filled with sex, with coke, with food, with drinking, [but] the void is still there. I took the road less traveled and just dealt with my shit. I had to face my own pain head-on.”

"The last couple of months have probably [been] the most emotional few months of my entire life," she continued. "And my therapist [told] me, ‘Your body's going through withdrawal from love. You're used to having this exchange of happy chemicals between you and the person that you're with.’ In moments of my life, I have dropped every ounce of pride that I had just to be like, Love me. Please take the pain away for a day, a second, an hour, just so I can feel that fix again."

Worth noting: Lili made a point to say the poetry in her book is *not* about her previous relationship with Cole, despite what fans might speculate. “I felt the need to write that because I was scared—and I am scared—that people are going to try and create their own idea of what my love life looked or looks like...I'm not saying, My boyfriend fucked another woman. I'm saying, I felt betrayed.”

August 19, 2020

In a major plot twist, Cole posts a pic of Lili on Instagram and *finally* confirms their break up. And in an even bigger twist, Cole says a bunch of sweet things about her, too.

Hmm. Wonder what'll happen when everyone can be around each other again!

Stay tuned for more updates, y’all.

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