All The Bachelorette Couples Who Are Still Together—Including Charity & Dotun

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Since The Bachelorette premiered more a decade ago, there have been almost two dozen women who have looked for love. But “which Bachelorette couples are still together?” is the real question.

The Bachelorette premiered in January 2003 as a spin-off of The Bachelor with Trista Rehn as Bachelor Nation’s first female lead. Trista was the runner-up on The Bachelor Season 1 with Alex Michel, and it’s a good thing that Alex didn’t pick her. During The Bachelorette Season 1, Trista met her current husband, Ryan Sutter. They got engaged in the finale and married on Bachelor Nation’s first televised wedding special. Since then, Trista and Ryan have welcomed two children and become one of Bachelor Nation’s most successful couples.

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Two decades after The Bachelorette Season 1, and have been more than a dozen women who have given out roses. While some have been success stories (such as Season 13 Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay and Season 9 Bachelorette Desiree Hartsock), there have been many Bachelorettes whose relationships just didn’t work out. (Season 15 Bachelorette Hannah Brown ended her engagement to her winner, Jed Wyatt, before her finale even aired.)

So which Bachelorette couples are still together? Ahead, we looked back at every couple from The Bachelorette to see who’s still together and who’s broken up since filming ended.

Which Bachelorette Couples Are Still Together?

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Read on to see which Bachelorette couples are still together and where all of Bachelor Nation’s female leads are now.

The Bachelorette Season 1: Are Trista and Ryan Still Together?

Relationship status: Still together

Trista Rehn was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 1 in 2003, which Ryan Sutter was a contestant on and won. Trista gave her final rose to Ryan over her runner-up, Charlie Maher, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Ryan proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 1, Trista was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 1 with Alex Michel, where she was the runner-up.

Trista and Ryan married on December 6, 2003. Their wedding aired in a three-episode TV special titled Trista & Ryan’s Wedding, which was viewed by more than 26 million households. Trista and Ryan welcomed their first child, a son named Maxwell Alston, on July 26, 2007. Their second child, a daughter named Blakesley Grace, was born on April 3, 2009.

In an interview with Us Weekly in 2023, Trista revealed the secret to her and Ryan’s long-lasting marriage. “I feel like when we first got married, the advice that I was giving —at least the people who were coming off of the show — was really focus on your relationship. Enjoy all the things that are coming your way — all the fun invites that you’re getting — [but remember] it’s about your relationship,” she said. “So put that first and we did that in moving to Vail (Colorado) and really prioritizing him and me.”

She continued, “We prioritized ourselves and our relationship and now I feel like [the advice is] similar. It’s the same. You constantly have to prioritize your relationship, especially when you have kids because they kind of take over, you know, as they should. But your relationship with your significant other, I feel like is the foundation of your family and should be the most important. … Have fun together, enjoy life together, make time for each other.”

She also looked back on her two-plus decades in Bachelor Nation. “It was a little shocking, thinking that it’s 20 years because we’re just living life, you know?” she said. “And it is kind of crazy to think that that’s how we met it. You have to remind yourself sometimes because we are just a normal couple. 20 years ago, it feels a little like [a long time ago and like yesterday]. I feel like I met him yesterday, but at the same time I look at my kids who are taller than me now and think, ‘Yeah, that didn’t happen yesterday.’”

The Bachelorette Season 2: Are Meredith & Ian Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Meredith Phillips was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 2 in 2004, which Ian McKee was a contestant on and won. Meredith gave her final rose to Ian over her runner-up, Matthew Hickl, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Ian proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 2, Meredith was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 4 with Bob Guinney, where she came in fourth place.

Meredith and Ian broke up in February 2005 a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 2. ”Our relationship began with great expectations for a happy ending, but unfortunately things didn’t work out as we had hoped,” they said in a statement to Extra at the time. ”What we experienced together was incredible and we are both sad to see it end. We thank you for your support.”

In an interview with People in 2013, Meredith revealed that she struggled with alcohol abuse after her season of The Bachelorette. “My lowest point was when I realized my mother was in a hospital bed dying of cancer and I was at her house, drinking myself to death,” she said. “I just didn’t care.” She continued, “For years I’d wake up every day feeling like I was hit by a truck. But I realized I was going to kill myself. There wasn’t another path for me other than to stop.”

The Bachelorette Season 3: Are Jen and Jerry Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Jen Schefft was the lead for The Bachelorette Season 3 in 2005, which Jerry Farris was a contestant on and won. Jen gave her final rose to Jerry over her runner-up, John Paul Merritt, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Jerry proposed to Jen, but she rejected his proposal. Before The Bachelorette Season 3, Jen was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 3 with Andrew Firestone, where she was the winner and got engaged. Jen and Andrew broke up less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelor Season 3, and Jen went on to become the Season 3 Bachelorette.

Jen and Jerry broke up in The Bachelorette Season 3 “After the Final Rose” special after Jerry proposed to her a second time and she rejected him again, telling him that she wanted to be friends. “I think that you know I was so committed to this — I hope that you know that — and I really tried to make it work, but I think we talked a lot, and we saw each other, and I think that we both came to the realization that we were better as friends,” she said at the time.

Jen married her current husband, Joe Waterman, in 2009. They welcomed their first child, a daughter named Mae Elizabeth, in 2010. Their second child, a daughter named Charlotte Grace, was born in 2012.

In an interview with Parade in 2020, Jen responded to claims she “ruined” The Bachelorette after she didn’t accept Jerry’s proposal. “When I turned down Jerry [Ferris]’s proposal on The Bachelorette, people said I ‘ruined’ the show,” she said. “But ultimately, it’s still your life that you have to go live after all is said and done.”

She also explained how she met her current husband. “I was set up on a blind date by one of my friend’s dads with a 24-year-old when I was 31,” she said. “It wasn’t a great date, and he never called me back. But he called about a month later and said that he had another great guy to set me up with! I thought it couldn’t get any worse, so I said, ‘Sure, give him my number.’”

She continued, “At that time, I’d dated some people with fame, or who were interested in my fame. Joe had never seen the show and didn’t care to be in the spotlight. He was a nice, normal, funny, down-to-earth guy…and he was very cute, too.”

 

The Bachelorette Season 4: Are DeAnna and Jesse Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

DeAnna Pappas was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 4 in 2008, which Jesse Mcincsak was a contestant on and won. DeAnna gave Jesse her final rose over her runner-up, Jason Mesnick, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Jesse proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 4, DeAnna was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 11 with Brad Womack, where she was the runner-up as Brad chose no one.

DeAnna and Jesse broke up in 2008 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 4. “It’s our responsibility to tell you we’re not together anymore,” Jesse said in a video on the couple’s website at the time. Jesse explained in the video that DeAnna broke up with him two days before the clip was recorded and that he felt he did everything he could to “try to make this work.” He also recalled how DeAnna broke up with him. “‘I love you, but I’m not in love with you,’” Jesse recalled DeAnna telling him. “She’s a great person but she wasn’t willing to try anymore … That’s a lot to swallow no matter who you are when you’re in love and you put yourself out there.”

DeAnna married her current husband, Stephen Stagliano, in 2011. They welcomed their first child, a daughter named Addison Marie, in 2014. Their second child, a son named Austin Michael, was born in 2016.

The Bachelorette Season 5: Are Jillian and Ed Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Jillian Harris was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 5 in 2009, which Ed Swiderski was a contestant on and won. Jillian gave Ed her final rose over her runner-up, Kiptyn Locke, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Ed proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 5, Jillian was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 13 with Jason Mesnick, where she came in third.

Jillian and Ed broke up in 2010 a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 5. “It was the last thing I wanted to do,” Jillian told Us Weekly at the time, adding that she “fought very hard” for their relationship. “It’s terrible to leave because the other person doesn’t know what they want.” Jillian also responded to photos of Ed flirting with several women in Chicago soon after their split, calling the time after their breakup a “really sad summer.” “He’s not a bad guy,” Jillian said. “He’s just not quite ready to grow up.”

Jillian got engaged to her current fiance, Justin Pasutto, in 2016. They welcomed their first child, a daughter named Annie, in 2018. Their second child, a son named Leo George, was born in 2020.

The Bachelorette Season 6: Are Ali and Roberto Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Ali Fedotowsky was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 6 in 2010, which Roberto Martinez was a contestant on and won. Ali gave her final rose to Roberto over her runner-up, Chris Lambton, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Roberto proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 6, Ali was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 14 with Jake Pavelka, whree she came in fourth place.

Ali and Roberto broke up in 2011 a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 4. “I wouldn’t be being truthful if I said this came out of nowhere,” Ali told People at the time. “We definitely had been having problems. But I had always believed that we could work it out.” She told the magazine that their issues started when they both moved to San Diego, California, where Roberto started his own insurance office as Ali struggles get her career going as a news correspondent and host for the Style Network. “We were trying to establish ourselves individually,” she said. “But a relationship should be solid regardless of circumstances.”

She continued, “I helped him build his business, and I’d bring him lunch all of the time. I was so supportive of him.” She added, “A lot of times what I wanted to do and what he wanted to do didn’t match up. One of us was always compromising with the other, or we both ended up not doing what we wanted and staying home.” Ali also told People that another major breaking point in her relationship with Roberto was when she had to undergo knee surgery in July 2011. It really affected us,” she said. “I couldn’t really be active like I wanted to be. I hit a low.” She continued, “He would rather be alone on weekends. He’s more introverted. I love being around people and sharing stories and going out to dinner.”

Ali also revealed to People that she kept the $50,000 Neil Lane engagement ring Roberto proposed to her with on The Bachelorette Season 6. “And we both deserved more,” she said. “I just knew that we needed to go separate ways. Something inside both of us said we still had more figuring out to do. We take marriage very seriously. It’s not something we were going to do and just hope it works out.” She continued, “I found real, true love, and I’m grateful that I had that experience. There’s no hate. I still love him, and I always will. But what matters is how we feel, and we both knew it wasn’t right. All of my things are going to be in storage until I figure out what to do. I literally don’t even know where I want to live, never mind what I want to do.”

Ali married her current husband, Kevin Manno, in 2017. They welcomed their first child, a daughter named Molly, in 2016. Their second child, a son named Riley, was born in 2018.

The Bachelorette Season 7: Are Ashley and JP Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Ashley Hebert was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 7 in 2011, which JP Rosenbaum was a contestant on and won. Ashley gave her final rose to JP over her runner-up, Ben Flajnik, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where JP proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 7, Ashley was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 15 with Brad Womack, where she came in third place.

Ashley and JP married on December 1, 2012. Their wedding aired in a TV special titled The Bachelorette: Ashley and JP’s Wedding that same month. They welcomed their first child, a son named Fordham Rhys, in 2014. Their second child, a daughter named Essex Reese, was born in 2016.

Ashley and JP broke up in 2020 nine years after they met on The Bachelorette Season 7. “It is with a heavy heart that I share with you that, after months of separation, Jp and I have amicably decided to go our separate ways,” she wrote in an Instagram post at the time. “We created the most beautiful children and shared memories that will never be forgotten. Our differences have taken a toll on our relationship and after years of attempting to repair the damage, we’ve decided that it is in our family’s best interest to create new and separate lives for our children.”

She continued, “Please respect our privacy as we move forward with the newness of our lives. Our ultimate focus is to create stable and healthy lives for our children. Thank you for your love and support throughout the years. Wishing you all love, happiness, and good health. ❤️”

In his own Instagram statement, JP acknowledged that he understood why his and Ashley’s split would be a “shock” to fans. “I have written and rewritten this post dozens of times and each time I feel the same level of disbelief and extreme sadness,” he wrote. “While I realize that this will come as a complete shock to everyone, I can assure you that this is something that has been developing in our relationship for quite a while. It is with a heavy heart that I share with you that after months of separation, Ashley and I have amicably decided to live our lives apart from one another.”

He continued, “Please please please know that there is no one to blame, that there’s no event that triggered this decision, that no one is the victim, and that we’ve done absolutely everything we possibly can to try to salvage this marriage.”

He explained that he and Ashley broke up after realizing they were both “two very different people.” “I think we’ve both come to realize that we are just two very different people, with very different personalities and perspectives, who just don’t see eye to eye on a lot life fundamentals, those which are the building blocks for a happy and healthy marriage,” he wrote. “We have created the most beautiful, sweet and loving children, and have created so many unforgettable memories that we’ll always cherish. Our differences, however, have taken a toll on our relationship and after years of attempting to repair the damage, we’ve decided that it is in our family’s best interest live our lives apart.”

He added that he and Ashley planned to co-parent their children “to the best of our ability and to maintain stable and healthy lives for Fordy & Essie.” He concluded, “From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all your love and support throughout the years. It has really meant a lot to us! Wishing you all love, happiness, and good health. ❤️”

The Bachelorette Season 8: Are Emily and Jef Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Emily Maynard was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 8 in 2012, which Jef Holm was a contestant on and won. Emily gave her final rose to Jef over her runner-up, Arie Luyendyk Jr., at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Jef proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 8, Emily was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 15 with Brad Womack, where she was the winner and got engaged. Emily and Brad broke up less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelor Season 15, and Emily went on to become the Season 8 Bachelorette.

Emily and Jef broke up in 2012 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 8. “I am sorry to tell you that Jef and I have, indeed, parted ways,” Emily said in a statement to People at the time. “It was a very difficult and heartbreaking decision.” She continued, “As you know, at first I wasn’t sure that I should even be The Bachelorette, but I am a hopeless romantic and I do believe in the show. I have no regrets because I did find love and shared an incredible journey with a really special person – and you know what, we tried our best because the love between us was so real.

She went on to write, “I have nothing but respect and love for Jef and his family, but ultimately we are just at different points in our lives. I’ve learned so much and I’m grateful for all of the support I’ve received. I’m excited and hopeful for the next chapter in my life with my daughter, Ricki. I do hope that you will respect our privacy and allow us the time we need to heal.”

Jef also released his own statement to People. “Meeting Emily on The Bachelorette was an incredible experience, we’ve had quite the journey. I’ve never loved someone so much in my whole life, Emily is the best person and mom I have ever met. She opened up her world to me and I fell in love with her, [her daughter] Ricki, her family and the Hendricks,” he said. “She has a great group of people who surround her. What we shared was completely genuine and real and it breaks my heart but we have decided to break up.”

He continued, “Emily will always have a special place in my heart. I don’t regret a single second I spent with her or Ricki. They both have been a huge part of my life. Who knows what tomorrow will bring but we are moving on to the next chapter of our lives. Emily and I are great friends and I hope we can continue to be friends forever. Everyone wants a salacious story to break, but the truth is we are just two people who fell in love and tried our hardest to make it work. I will always love her.”

Emily married her current husband, Tyler Johnson, in 2014. They welcomed their first child together, a son named Jennings, in 2015. Their second child together, a son named Gatlin, was born in 2017. Their third child together, a son named Gibson, was born in 2016. Their fourth child, a daughter named Nola Belle, was born in 2020. Their fifth child together, a son named Jones, was born in 2022. Emily also has a daughter named Ricki, who was born in 2005 before her relationship with Tyler. Emily shared Ricki with her late fiance, NASCAR driver Ricky Hendrick, who died in 2004.

The Bachelorette Season 9: Are Desiree and Chris Still Together?

Relationship status: Still together

Desiree Hartsock was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 9 in 2013, which Chris Siegfried was a contestant on and won. Desiree gave her final rose to Chris over her runner-up, Drew Kenney, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Chris proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 9, Desiree was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 17 with Sean Lowe, where she came in fourth place.

Desiree and Chris married on January 18, 2015. They welcomed their first child, a son named Asher Wrigley, in 2016. Their second child, a son named Zander Cruz, was born in 2019.

In an interview with Us Weekly in 2021, Desiree revealed what viewers don’t know about rose ceremonies on The Bachelorette. “They’re very, very long. By that point most people are, like, 10 drinks in. You are just tired,” she said, noting that rose ceremonies are “way worse” than what viewers see on TV. “You are exhausted. They pause so long after each rose to pan one people’s faces, so yeah, they are going to get you looking super stressed out, but you are really tired.”

She also told the magazine about how she remembered her contestants’ names. “Everyone, including [the] cameraman, [has] a card with photos of the people with their names on it,” she said. “It was almost, like, a game for myself to see how many I could remember. I think the most I remembered was six at a time. You grab as many names as you remember and then you go out.”

The Bachelorette Season 10: Are Andi and Josh Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Andi Dorfman was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 10 in 2014, which Josh Murray was a contestant on and won. Andy gave her final rose to Josh over her runner-up, Nick Viall, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Josh proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 10, Andy was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 18 with Juan Pablo Galavis, where she came in third place.

Andi and Josh broke up in 2015 a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 10. “I don’t generally think of myself as a weak person, but it rocked me. It was heartbreak,” Andi told Nightline in 2016. She also told the program about the moment she and Josh finished filming The Bachelorette Season 10. “I was so comfortable with Josh at that point… It felt like we were there and that everyone else were strangers. But I will say I remember after they yelled, ‘Cut’ … they gave us our cell phones, and the first thing I did was get his number. And I said, ‘Wow, I’m getting my fiancé’s number for the first time.’ … So, things like that are kind of funny,” she said.

She explained that she and Josh broke up because of the “change” she saw in herself around him. “I started to change. I think I blame myself for not standing up for my independence. But [there were] little things, like not being able to see my friends as often or feeling like my whereabouts were kind of always in question,” she said. “I had never felt worse about myself. … I didn’t like who I was. I didn’t like how I felt on a daily basis.”

She also told Nightline about the depression she experienced after her breakup with Josh. “I literally slept until noon every day at which point I would watch TV,” she said. “I’d loaf around [in] yoga pants and [a] smelly t-shirt. I’d drink wine. I was just a loser, in a sense.”

Andi also recalled returning to the home she and Josh shared for the first time after their split. “That, I think, will never escape me — just that feeling of having a home that you shared with someone and just everything be piled up and that feeling of just being disposable,” she said before revealing that she threw everything that reminded her of Josh into the fireplace and set them on fire. “Was it the most mature approach? No, but that’s the point. I think that on TV I always felt this need to be my best, and I wasn’t at my best when I was going through a breakup and that’s just the truth,. Sometimes you have to embrace weakness. You have to recognize that you’re not going to be at your best every single day.”

Andy also told Nightline that she doubted whether her relationship with Josh was real. “I almost don’t want to know whether [what we had] was real because I know what I felt during those eight weeks,” she said. “The day I got engaged was, to this day, the happiest day of my life. I want to deny it in a sense because it didn’t work out, but if I’m being truthful about it, that was the happiest day of my life.”

In his own statement to Nightline, Josh criticized Andi for writing about their breakup in her book, It’s Not Okay. “How is one supposed to comment on a fictional novel? I choose to go through life building others up, not tearing them down. I wish her nothing but the best in her new career,” he said.

Andi married her current husband, Blaine Hart, in 2023.

The Bachelorette Season 11: Are Kaitlyn and Shawn Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Kaitlyn Bristowe was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 11 in 2015, which Shawn Booth was a contestant on and won. Kaitlyn gave her final rose to Shawn over her runner-up, Nick Viall, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Shawn proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 11, Kaitlyn was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 19 with Chris Soles, where she came in third place. On Night One of The Bachelorette Season 11, the contestants had to choose between Kaitlyn and Britt Nilsson, who came in sixth place on The Bachelor Season 19, to become their permanent Bachelorette. Kaitlyn received the most votes, and Britt was sent home.

Kaitlyn and Shawn broke up in 2018 three years after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 11. “After three incredible years, we have decided to go our separate ways. This difficult decision comes after thoughtful, respectful consideration. Even though we are parting as a couple, we’re very much committed to remaining friends and we will continue to support each other. Due to the nature of how we met, our relationship has always been very public, and we have enjoyed sharing it with all of you, but we ask that you respect our decision and our privacy at this time,” they wrote in a statement at the time.

Kaitlyn started dating Jason Tartick, a contestant from The Bachelorette Season 14 with Becca Kufrin, in 2019. They got engaged in 2021 and broke up in 2023. “After sharing the news with family and close friends first, and taking the time to properly process it ourselves, we are saddened with heavy hearts to share that we have decided to end our engagement,” they wrote in a statement at the time. “We are thankful for all of you who gave us the time and space to process this life-altering decision as there are many emotions and changes to navigate.”

The statement continued, “Our dogs Ramen & Pinot will continue to be cared for together as brothers. While their humans are no longer romantically involved, we will love and take care of them together. Continuing our friendship is incredibly important to both of us. We feel grateful to be ending our engagement with love and respect for each other. It’s heartbreaking and sad to say goodbye, but our care and admiration for one another will never die.”

They concluded their statement, “We are beyond thankful for the memories made together, and for your support of us and the boys throughout the years. Moving forward we will always have that level of support for each other. We don’t know what the future holds so please try to hold space for us in your hearts. Kaitlyn and Jason.”

Kaitlyn and Season 16 Bachelorette Tayshia Adams hosted The Bachelorette Seasons 17 and 18 after the franchise’s former host, Chris Harrison, was fired in 2021.

The Bachelorette Season 12: Are JoJo and Jordan Still Together?

Relationship status: Still together

Joelle “JoJo” Fletcher was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 13 in 2016, where Jordan Rodgers was a contestant on and won. JoJo gave her final rose to Jordan over her runner-up, Robby Hayes, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Jordan proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 12, JoJo was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 20 with Ben Higgins, where she was the runner-up. Cailia Quinn, who came in third place on The Bachelor Season 20, was originally chosen as the Season 12 Bachelorette, however, she was replaced by JoJo after Ben chose Lauren Bushnell at his Final Rose Ceremony and ABC saw how fans reacted to JoJo’s elimination.

JoJo and Jordan married in 2022 six years after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 12. “I think one thing that we’ve always recognized and don’t shy away from is you’re always going to have to put in the work. You’re always going to have to compromise. It’s always going to be discovering and learning and compromising with your partner,” JoJo told People in 2023 about her marriage with Jordan. She continued, “We obviously took a long time before we got married. We celebrated our six-year engagement anniversary on the Thursday before our wedding.”

She also revealed the secret to her and Jordan’s long-lasting relationship. “In conflict or in a conversation, if you can’t resolve — and you’re realizing you can’t resolve — take five [minutes],” JoJo said. “It’s the easiest thing you can recognize it — sometimes all you need is five minutes to just come back down and realize, ‘Hey, what we’re arguing about is so silly. We’re on the same team here.’” Jordan added, “When you’re not communicating right, it just escalates. You’re missing each other, ‘Wait, no, but you didn’t hear this.’”

The Bachelorette Season 13: Are Rachel and Bryan Still Together?

Relationship status: Still together

Rachel Lindsay was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 13 in 2017, which Bryan Abasolo was a contestant on and won. Rachel gave her final rose to Bryan over her runner-up, Peter Krause, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Bryan proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 13, Rachel was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 21 with Nick Viall, where she came in third place. As the Season 13 Bachelorette, Rachel made history as Bachelor Nation’s first Black lead.

Rachel and Bryan married in 2019 two years after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 13. “The secret is not being performative,” Rachel told Good Morning America in 2022 about the secret to her and Bryan’s long-lasting relationship. “You come off the show … and a lot of times you feel like you have to perform for the audience, or you have to perform for social media.”

She continued, “For Bryan and I, we immediately left the show and immersed ourselves in each other’s realities. He moved to Dallas for me. We connected with our family, our friends. We built that circle of trust of people who know us and who love us. That established a really strong foundation for us at the very beginning.” She added, “We just need to be there for each other and to understand each other, because no one knows the relationship like we do.”

The Bachelorette Season 14: Are Becca and Garrett Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Becca Kufrin was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 14 in 2018, which Garrett Yrigoyen was a contestant on and won. Becca gave her final rose to Garrett over her runner-up, Blake Horstmann, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Garrett proposed to Becca and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 14, Becca was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 22 with Arie Luyendyk Jr., where she was the winner and got engaged. Becca and Arie broke up less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelor Season 22 after Arie got back together with his runner-up, Lauren Burnham, and Becca went on to become the Season 14 Bachelorette.

Becca and Garrett broke up in 2020 two years after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 14. Their split came after Garrett’s controversial comments on Instagram about Black Lives Matter. “I don’t think it’s going to come as a shock to anyone, but Garrett and I have decided to end our engagement,” Becca said on an episode of her podcast, “Bachelor Happy Hour,” at the time. “After many conversations, we came to this decision. It wasn’t something that we just arrived at one night. It wasn’t based solely off of one Instagram post or somebody else’s opinions or comments. There’s much more to it. To any relationship, there’s a lot of layers, and it’s not for me to divulge details. It’s no one’s business other than what I’m telling you right now.”

Becca was a contestant on Bachelor in Paradise Season 7, where she met Thomas Jacobs, a contestant from The Bachelorette Season 17 with Katie Thurston. Becca and Thomas broke up in Week 6 of Bachelor in Paradise Season 7. They announced at the “After the Final Rose” special they had gotten back together. Becca and Thomas got engaged in 2022. They announced they were expecting their first child together in 2023.

The Bachelorette Season 15: Are Hannah and Jed Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Hannah Brown was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 15 in 2019, where Jed Wyatt was a contestant on and won. Hannah B. gave her final rose to Jed over her runner-up, Tyler Cameron, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Jed proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 15, Hannah B. was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 23 with Colton Underwood, where she came in fifth place.

Hannah B. and Jed broke up in 2019 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 15. Their split came after reports that Jed had a girlfriend he hadn’t broken up with yet before Hannah B.’s season. Their breakup was filmed for The Bachelorette Season 15’s “After the Final Rose” special. “I feel like this experience has been taken away from me,” Hannah B. said during the special. “I have been mad as hell and just questioning what happened but I’ve gotten a lot stronger through it. The engagement is over. We are not together. That is not what I said yes to.”

Hannah B. started dating her current boyfriend, Adam Woolard, in 2021.

The Bachelorette Season 16: Are Clare and Dale Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Clare Crawley was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 16 in 2020, where Dale Moss was a contestant on and won. Clare left The Bachelorette Season 16 in the middle of filming to be with Dale, and was replaced by Tayshia Adams, a contestant from The Bachelor Season 23 with Colton Underwood. Clare gave Dale her final rose at their Final Rose Ceremony, where Dale proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 16, Clare was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 18 with Juan Pablo Galavis, where she was the runner-up. She was also a contestant on Seasons 1 and 2 of Bachelor in Paradise, and Season 1 of Bachelor Winter Games.

Clare and Dale broke up in 2020 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 16. “wanted to share with you all that Clare and I have decided to go our separate ways,” Dale wrote in an Instagram post at the time at the time. “we appreciate the love and support we’ve received from so many people, but this is the healthiest decision for both of us at this time.” Clare slammed him in her own Instagram post for making a “mutual” statement on her behalf. “I was made aware of a ‘mutual’ statement at the same time you all were, so I’ve needed some time to really digest this,” she wrote. “Speaking for myself, my intentions with this relationship always have been very clear, so the truth is I am crushed. This was not what I expected or hoped for and am still trying to process this.” Their breakup also came amid rumors that Dale cheated on Clare. In July 2021, Clare and Dale confirmed that they got back together and were still engaged. Clare and Dale broke up for a second and last time in September 2021.

Clare married her current husband, Ryan Dawkins, in 2023.

The Bachelorette Season 16: Are Tayshia and Zac Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Tayshia Adams was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 16 in 2020, where Zac Clark was a contestant on and won. Tayshia replaced Clare Crawley, a contestant from The Bachelor Season 18 with Juan Paul Galavis, as the Season 16 Bachelorette after Clare, the former Season 16 Bachelorette, left in the middle of filming to be with her winner, Dale Moss. Tayshia gave Zac her final rose over her runner-up, Ben Smith, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Zac proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 16, Tayshia was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 23 with Colton Underwood, where she was the runner-up. She was also a contestant on Bachelor in Paradise Season 6.

“We have so many similarities regarding our goals in life,” Tayshia told People after her and Zac’s engagement aired on The Bachelorette Season 16. “I’ve never been in a relationship like this before. Our communication is phenomenal and I feel really safe with Zac. It just feels so right. And I can’t wait to experience life with him by my side.”

Tayshia and Zac broke up in 2021 a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 16. “Tayshia Adams and Zac Clark are no longer a couple,” a rep for Tayshia told People at the time. The confirmation came after a source told Life & Style that Tayshia and Zac had decided to take “time apart.” “They’re definitely taking some time apart to figure things out,” the insider said at the time. “It doesn’t look good.” The news also came after Tayshia was seen without her engagement ring on the most recent two episodes of her podcast, “Bachelor Happy Hour.” Around that time, Tayshia also tweeted a cryptic tweet that fans believe to have been about Zac. “Trust the process,” she wrote.

Tayshia started dating Summer House alum, Luke Gulbranson, in 2023. Tayshia and Season 10 Bachelorette Kaitlyn Bristowe hosted The Bachelorette Seasons 17 and 18 after the franchise’s former host, Chris Harrison, was fired in 2021.

The Bachelorette Season 17: Are Katie and Blake Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Katie Thurston was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 17 in 2021, where Blake Moynes was a contestant on and won. Blake, a contestant from The Bachelorette Season 16 with Clare Crawley and Tayshia Adams, joined Katie’s season in Week 3. Katie gave Blake her final rose over her runner-up, Justin Glaze, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Blake proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 17, Katie was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 25 with Matt James, where she came in 11th place.

“We’re opposite in the kinds of movies we like — I like scary, he doesn’t,” Katie told People after her and Blake’s engagement aired. “And we talked about our love languages — I’m words of affirmation and he’s physical touch, let’s be honest!”

Katie and Blake broke up in 2021 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 17. “It is with mutual love and respect that we have decided to go our separate ways. We are so grateful for the moments we shared together and the entire journey that has unfolded this year, but we ultimately have concluded that we are not compatible as life partners, and it is the most caring choice for both of us to move forward independently. We ask for kindness and privacy as we both navigate this transition. Both of us will forever want the best for one another and ask you to please support us in our decision,” they wrote in an Instagram statement at the time.

Katie dated John Hersey, a contestant from The Bachelorette Season 17 who was sent home in Week 2, from 2021 to 2022. “Statement: No, we aren’t together,” Katie wrote in an Instagram Story in June 2022, confirming that she and John had broken up. Katie was one of three leads on Season 3 of The CW’s FBOY Island in 2023.

The Bachelorette Season 18: Are Michelle and Nayte Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Michelle Young was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 18 in 2021, where Nayte Olukoya was a contestant on and won. Michelle gave Nayte her final rose over her runner-up, Brandon Jones, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Nayte proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 18, Michelle was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 25 with Matt James, where she was the runner-up.

Michelle and Nayte broke up in 2022 a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 18. “I’m struggling to say that Nayte and I will be going our separate ways,” Michelle wrote on her Instagram Story at the time. “but I stand with him in knowing the heaviness that is present in both of our hearts as this relationship has been very real for us.” She continued, “To you, Nayte, you quickly became my best friend and the love I have for you is incredibly strong. I will never stop wanting to see you succeed.”

She added, “I will always acknowledge and appreciate the adventures, support, and growth both Nayte and this experience have brought me. At the same time, I’m deeply hurting and will need time and space to work through this heartbreak.”

Nayte also released his own statement after his breakup with Michelle. “When we both started this journey, we were looking for our Soulmates. Our forever. Our best friends,” he wrote. “However, as we grow and learn, we also realize that sometimes somebody that you hold dear to your heart isn’t somebody that you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with.”

He continued, “Hearts are heavy, emotions are high, and we are dealing with this the best way we can… We genuinely fell in love, and we genuinely became each other’s best friends. Michelle and I will always cheer each other on, but moving forward, we will be cheering from a distance.”

The Bachelorette Season 19: Are Rachel and Tino Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Rachel Recchia was one of two leads on The Bachelorette Season 19 in 2022, where Tino Franco was a contestant on and won. Rachel gave Tino her final rose over her runner-up, Aven Jones, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Tino proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 19, Rachel was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 26 with Clayton Echard, where she was the runner-up alongside Gabby Windey, who was also a lead on The Bachelorette Season 19.

Rachel and Tino broke up in 2022 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 19. Their split came after Rachel accused Tino of cheating on her by kissing another woman after The Bachelorette Season 19 finale filmed. “He’s never been like, ‘What I did was horrible, I messed up, I’m so sorry.’ It’s never been like that. It was just, ‘I love you so much, I really see you as my future, and I want us to work on this.’ That’s like if we just had a random fight,” Rachel said during the “After the Final Rose” special.

During thespecial, Tino confessed he “kissed” a woman he met before The Bachelorette Season 19 started filming. “The moment I did [it], I knew I belonged with you,” he told Rachel. Tino then accused Rachel of refusing to go to therapy and wanting to give her engagement ring back. Tino also claimed he didn’t want to “circle back on past stuff,” which is when Rachel accused him of doing more than kissing the other woman, which he denied.

Rachel told People after The Bachelorette Season 19 finale that she had no plans to get back together with Tino after he cheated on her. “I obviously still believe in love and I really know it’ll come along when it’s ready,” Rachel said. “I am looking forward to this time to myself and to be able to reflect on everything and move forward.” Rachel also told People that the main reason she ended her engagement with Tino wasn’t the infidelity but his dishonesty around it. “When I did sit down with him, I didn’t see much of him owning up to his actions or feeling sorry,” Rachel said. “I was still hitting lie after lie. And I just don’t know if I can continue a relationship when I don’t feel like there’s trust. I know that isn’t what I deserve.”

The Bachelorette Season 19: Are Gabby and Erich Still Together?

Relationship status: Not still together

Gabby Windey was one of two leads on The Bachelorette Season 19 in 2022, where Erich Schwer was a contestant on and won. Gabby gave her final rose to Erich over her runner-up, Jason Alabaster, at the Final Rose Ceremony, where Erich proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 19, Gabby was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 26 with Clayton Echard, where she was the runner-up alongside Rachel Recchia, who was also a lead of The Bachelorette Season 19.

Gabby and Erich broke up in 2022 less than a year after their engagement on The Bachelorette Season 19. A source told E! News at the time that Gabby was the one who broke up with Erich because they “weren’t on the same page.” “She felt they weren’t aligned and weren’t on the same page,” the insider said. “Gabby was hoping they could give each other space and work it out but ultimately decided they didn’t have a future.”

On an episode of Dancing With the Stars 31, which Gabby was a contestant on, in November 2022, Gabby confirmed her breakup with Erich and revealed that the two broke up because of a difference in their “common goals” and how they “approach life.” Gabby also hinted that she broke up with Erich because of the “blame” he would put on her during their relationship. “For me, [love] holds a special place because I did just go through a break up,” she said. “The end of our relationship happened because we weren’t completely in step and in sync with each other on our common goals or just the way we approach life. We weren’t each other’s best match.” She continued, “But I’m just so grateful that my dad and my stepmom encompass so many fundamentals and values that I look for in a relationship: never placing blame or you did this or that. OK, someone left the microwave dirty. But, like, it doesn’t matter. … I want to channel that kind of everlasting love in this dance.”

Gabby started dating her current girlfriend, Robby Hoffman, in 2023. “I always just want to live my truth, and my story,” she said on The View at the time. “And I have been seeing someone for a couple months, and I’ve been keeping it a little more private because it is a bigger story and a bigger conversation, because I’m dating a girl!” She continued, “Knowing how people cared, I just want to be honest. I don’t want to live and not be living my full truth. I don’t want to do it to myself or my girlfriend or other people who really care about me and feel like they know me.”

Gabby explained on The View that she wanted to announce her girlfriend and sexuality on the talk show because her “story has been told for [her] so many times being on TV with editing and production.” “Obviously, I was on dating shows dating men and a Broncos cheerleader, so it was like my whole world was male-gaze. [So] it took me a while to stop questioning and just start trusting and I’m fully trusted and I’m here,” she said. “I think that’s really the big takeaway is, like, maybe it’s not so much — like obviously it’s about sexuality, but it’s also the person I met. She is so special. She makes me feel so safe, so loved.” Gabby also described her relationship with Robby as “a love that I always wanted going on these dating shows.”

The Bachelorette Season 20: Are Charity and Dotun Still Together?

Relationship status: Still together

Charity Lawson was the lead of The Bachelorette Season 20, where Dotun Olubeko was a contestant on and won. Charity gave Dotun her final rose over her runner-up, Joey Graziadei, at the the Final Rose Ceremony, where Dotun proposed to her and the two got engaged. Before The Bachelorette Season 20, Charity was a contestant on The Bachelor Season 27 with Zach Shallcross, where she came in fourth place.

Reality Steve confirmed Charity and Dotun were still together in a blog post in July 2023. “She got engaged to Dotun in Fiji and they’ve been together ever since,” he wrote. Charity and Dotun also confirmed they were still together during The Bachelorette Season 20 “After the Final Rose” special. “We’ve anticipated this moment. Just to be free and in public, to live lives normally. This is everything,” Charity said. “She continued, You made me feel alive. You made me believe in love again. You made me feel so valued and so seen. I see you as my husband. I see you as my future. I see it so clear and I don’t have any doubts. I love you so much.”

Dotun added, “She’s everything to me.” He also told host Jesse Palmer that he’s “never been so sure” of anything in his life than he was in his relationship with Charity. Charity and Dotun also confirmed at the time that they’ve started wedding planning, but hadn’t chosen a date yet as they “enjoy this season of life.” Charity also called Dotun her “future baby daddy” but confirmed that they weren’t planning on having children any time soon.

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