Are Alex & Kat Still Together From The Ultimatum? The Rumor He Slept With [Spoiler]

Jason Pham
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Warning: The Ultimatum Season 2 spoilers ahead. Ever since their drama (and love square) with Roxanne and Antonio, fans have wanted to know if Alex and Kat are still together from The Ultimatum Season 2 and where they are now after filming ended.

Alex Chapman and Kat Shelton were one of five original couples on The Ultimatum Season 2. The Ultimatum—also known as The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On—is Netflix’s reality TV dating series following a group of couples on the verge of marriage. One member of the couple—the Ultimatum Giver—is ready to get engaged and married, while the other member—the Ultimatum Receiver—isn’t as sure.

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During The Ultimatum, the couples break up and recouple with new partners from the same group. They then move into an apartment with their new partner and date them in a trial marriage for three weeks. After the trial marriage is over, the cast members reunite with their original partners and move in with them for another three weeks. At the end of the series, the couples must decide if they want to get engaged and married or break up forever.

The series—which was created by Chris Cohen, the same creator behind Love Is Blind, The Perfect Match and Married at First Sight—is hosted by Nick and Vanessa Lachey, who gave an ultimatum to her own husband before they got engaged. “This reminds me of when we were dating, I swore I wouldn’t be a girl who gave an ultimatum and I did,” Vanessa said in the premiere of The Ultimatum Season 1. Nick added, “And let’s be honest, I had my own, what I thought were very valid reasons for not being ready to move forward.”

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Since its premiere, The Ultimatum has led to one spin-off on Netflix, The Ultimatum: Queer Love, as well as an international version in France. In an interview with The Hollywood Reporter in 2021, Coelen opened up about about how the couples he chose on The Ultimatum. “You want to put groups of people together who have something in common and who would have a genuine interest in one another,” he said. “This was a particular group of people who were all interested in the topic; there’s not a single person there who said, ‘I’m not interested in getting married.’ And then you have to think about, as a group of people, you want them to be able to support one another and to explore the idea of potentially being with one another.”

But back to Alex and Kat. So… are Alex and Kat still together from The Ultimatum Season 2 and where are they now? Read on for what we know about if Alex and Kat are still together after The Ultimatum Season 2 and what happened to them.

1. Are Alex and Kat Still Together From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Relationship status: Still together

Are Alex and Kat still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? Alex Chapman and Kat Shelton were two of five original couples on Season 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Alex, a 32-year-old software salesman, was the Ultimatum Receiver, while Kat, a 28-year-old travel nurse, was the Ultimatum Giver.

At the Choice, Alex and Kat both recoupled with new partners. Alex recoupled with Roxanne Kaiser, whose original partner was Antonio Mattei, while Kat recoupled with Antonio. Alex and Kat reunited at The Changeover. Both Alex and Kat seemed to be done with their trial marriages. Kat’s relationship with Antonio never seemed to become romantic, while Alex’s relationship with Roxanne ended after he lied to her parents about opening the door for him and claimed to Antonio that Roxanne didn’t respect him.

So are Alex and Kat still together from The Ultimatum Season 2? The answer is yes. Alex and Kat were one of four couples who got engaged in The Ultimatum Season 2 finale, along with Roxanne and Antonio; Ryann and James; and Riah and Trey. They confirmed they were still together during The Ultimatum Season 2 reunion, where they also revealed their wedding date. “The plan is May 10, next year,” Alex told co-hosts Nick and Vanessa Lachey. He also showed his and Kat’s “save the date” magnets, which they hadn’t sent out yet. “It feels really different than dating,” Kat said. “Actually, Alex is, I think now, more ready to settle down than I am.”

Kat also confirmed that she and Alex were thinking about buying a house and starting a family. “Yeah, I’m excited. It feels a (little like) baby fever,” Alex said, explaining explained that his brother also recently had a child, which allowed him to be an uncle for the first time. When Alex’s ex, Roxanne, noted that he had also talked about children with her, Kat defended Alex and explained that Alex had talked to her about kids before The Ultimatum but it wasn’t a serious converstion until after filming ended. “We had talked about all of that before,” Kat said. “But it’s a difference of talking about it and being, like, this is happening. I’m ready for this, like, right now versus a joke of, ‘Let’s have 12 kids.’”

In an interview with Us Weekly in August 2023, Antonio, who was Roxanne’s original partner, explained why he thought Alex and Roxanne slept together during their trial marriage. “He was speaking into existence all my deepest insecurities. I mean, Roxanne is just this crazy successful woman, and my history has not been the same,” Antonio said of when Alex claimed that Roxanne told him that she thought Antonio was weak. “I’ve always kind of grappled with that. Like, ‘God, does she really want to be with me? Is she settling for me? What is it?’ And then for him to say [that], it hurt. It really hurt.”

He continued, “So Alex heard all the ugly things about my relationship with Roxanne. So for him to have that opinion, I get it. … I just don’t know that I would’ve felt that I had the same authority he did to speak on the situation.”

Antonio also explained that he thought Alex and Roxanne slept together after Alex told him that he should sleep in the same bed as Kat during their trial marriage. “My first thought [when Alex said that] was that Roxanne and him slept together, and so he wanted Kat to sleep with me so she couldn’t be mad at him,” Antonio said. “That’s really where I initially started out and pretty much the opinion that I held until, you know, [I] found out that that wasn’t the case.”

Before they confirmed they were still together, Alex and Kat hinted at their relationship status on their social media. Both Alex and Kat still follow each other on Instagram. The Ultimatum Season 2 is believed to have filmed from September 2022 to December 2022 based on the social media hiatuses of the cast members. Both Alex and Kat still have photos from before they filmed The Ultimatum Season 2 still up on their Instagrams. In June 2022, Kat posted an Instagram photo of her and Alex on a hike with the caption, “NC summers.” She also posted a photo the month before in May 2022 of them at a wedding. Alex, for his part, posted an Instagram photo of him and Kat on a hike with friends in September 2022. “Trippy weekend,” he captioned the post. Though these posts were shared before The Ultimatum Season 2 started filming, they seemed to be clues that Alex and Kat were still together given that they still had them up on their Instagrams.

Read Alex and Kat’s about page on Netflix’s site ahead:

“Consider Kat and Alex a dating app success story, but will they go from Hinge to hitched? After he relentlessly pursued her online, the two hit it off IRL and eventually chose to make things official. When Kat decided to take her nursing career on the road, Alex joined her on the journey. Since then, the two have leaned into a sense of adventure, traveling around the country together and embracing life’s many twists and turns.

While the couple is aligned over their love of outdoor activities, they couldn’t be more different when it comes to communication. Kat is conflict avoidant, preferring to defer to Alex instead of making her own decisions. He, meanwhile, wants to be challenged by a partner who feels like his equal and isn’t afraid to speak their mind. Kat’s heard his concerns, so for once she’s putting her foot down about marriage and giving Alex the ultimatum. Kat ‘can’t imagine her life without’ Alex, but his ‘logical and practical’ mindset has kept him from taking the plunge.”

2. Who’s Alex From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Who’s Alex from The Ultimatum Season 2? Alex Chapman is 32-year-old software salesman from the Charlotte, North Carolina, area. His Instagram handle is @ajchapman20.

Alex was the Ultimatum Receiver. His original partner was Kat Shelton, while his new partner was Roxanne Kaiser. Alex is a writer for the marketing blog Sparkinator. According to his biography, Alex graduated from Northern Illinois University in 2013 with a degree in Marketing and Business Administration. His biography also lists watching Netflix as a hobby. “Graduated with a Marketing and Business Administration degree from Northern Illinois in 2013 before I moved to the sunshine state. From before I can remember I have had a passion for marketing, sales, growing small businesses, and helping others succeed,” the biography reads. “Now I am hungry as ever and passionately apply systems for web marketing technologies to solve business challenges. I became a Hubspot expert for that very reason! Now I help businesses successfully. If you want to catch me on the personal side you find me endurance training or binge watching Netflix (there is no in between).”

3. Who Is Kat From The Ultimatum Season 2?

Who is Kat from The Ultimatum Season 2? Kat Shelton is a 28-year-old travel nurse from the Charlotte, North Carolina, area. Her Instagram handle is @kathrynshelton.

Kat was the Ultimatum Giver. Her original partner was Alex Chapman, while her new partner was Antonio Mattei. Kat lists her job in her Instagram biography as a registered travel nurse. In May 2019, she shared an Instagram photo of her graduating from nursing school at Queens University of Charlotte. “Happy I graduated nursing school so I can go play cards,” she captioned the post.

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