The scents you should never wear to a dinner party - and the 9 perfumes you can't go wrong with

A gathering with friends and family isn't just an opportunity to prove your hosting prowess but also to leave a good-smelling impression on your inner circle, which is where the best dinner party perfumes come in...

When selecting from the best perfumes for women, often having an occasion in mind - like a wedding or holiday - can prove helpful. Scents are often used to create memories or ambience but of course, you don't always need to be venturing outdoors to warrant a spritz of your favourite floral fragrances. That being said though, there are some notes that don't belong at an intimate gathering - namely ones that are overpowering and headache-inducing.

So, to ensure you leave your guests wanting more, rather than getting a nose-full (so to speak), we've enlisted the expertise of  Michelle Feeney, founder of Floral Street, Mona Kattan, co-founder of Huda Beauty and Kayali and Ciello Tuazon, Senior Director of Global Product Innovation at MALIN+GOETZ, to bring us the best elegant scents for your next soirée and the notes to avoid...

4 perfume notes to avoid for intimate settings

When it comes to selecting your signature hosting perfume for a close-knit gathering or dinner setting, heady and intensive scents are a big no-no. You want your guest to be charmed, not overpowered and there are a few notes, in particular, that we recommend avoiding...

• Patchouli

• Oud

• Tuberose

• Vanilla (we love vanilla scents but if the percentage is high, it can be very sickly)

Base notes are the aromas that tend to last the longest, so it's best to avoid fragrances with really strong, lasting notes for a more low-key event. Instead, aim for subtle but luxe notes of musk, warm woods, delicate florals and sparkling citruses. woman&home's Digital Beauty Editor, Aleesha Badkar also recommends perfumes with saffron, which adds an earthy but sweet aroma. Plus she adds, "It's quite a rare and expensive note" - which is exactly what we're going for with these dinner party signatures.

9 chic and festive dinner party perfumes to impress

Of course, when it comes to selecting the perfect dinner party scent, personal preference is a big factor. However, there are a few perfume notes that are akin to sophistication. So with that in mind, here are nine fragrances that smell like luxury, bottled - plus recommendations straight from the experts themselves...

Diptyque Do Son EDP

RRP: £148 for 75ml | Notes: Tuberose, pink peppercorn and orange leaves

Our w&h beauty writer Amelia Yeomans adores Diptyque's Do Son: "There's not a time I wear this when I don't get a compliment, so it's a great conversation starter for a dinner party setting. It is strong and noticeable without being at all powdery or too perfume-y and it's very distinctive, so I've had several people ask which scent I'm wearing and where to get it. It also comes in a hair mist version and a solid perfume which are more affordable than the EDP, so if a friend or loved one compliments you, it's a no-brainer Christmas gift!"

Why it's dinner party approved: It's a proven compliment-bringer.

Maison Margiela Replica By The Fireplace EDT

RRP: £115 for 100ml | Notes: clove, pink pepper, orange flower petals, chestnut and Gaiac wood oil

W&h beauty writer, Naomi Jamieson cannot stop singing this perfume's praises: "As the name suggests, By the Fireplace is truly reminiscent of smoking embers but with a spicy and aromatic kick. While it might seem rich upon first sniff, it melts into the skin beautifully, to create a subtle but distinctive musk.  Every time I wear it I feel so chic and expensive and it never fails to earn me compliments."

Why it's dinner party approved: It literally smells like a winter evening - snuggled up in front of a glowing fire with a glass of merlot in hand.

Maison Francis Kurkdjian Baccarat Rouge 540 EDP

RRP: £235 for 70ml | Notes: amber, jasmine, saffron, ambergris and cedarwood.

This scent is w&h beauty editor Aleesha Badkar's signature, especially for this time of year: "I love this for special occasions, so for dinner parties it is a must-have. I wear this whenever I want to smell elegant, expensive and a little sexy thanks to the sharp and slightly sweet cedar and saffron blend."

Why it's dinner party approved: It's luxe and elegant, which is everything you want for an occasion.

Glossier You EDP

RRP: £57 for 50ml | Notes: Iris, pink pepper, ambrox and ambrette seeds

Glossier You is said to smell different on everyone, making it a true signature and with its warm and slightly spicy blend of iris, pink pepper and ambrette seeds, it sets the perfect tone for an intimate gathering. Plus, if you're looking for an even cheaper alternative, Zara's Perfume in Rose shares a similar blend of notes.

Why it's dinner party approved: It offers a mysterious and truly signature feel that's perfect for leaving a lasting impression...

Le Labo Santal 33 EDP

RRP: £168 for 50ml | Notes: Cardamom, iris, violet, ambrox, Australian sandalwood, leather and papyrus

A little goes a long way with this scent, so don't be too generous with your spritzing. However, once applied to the pulse points, Santal 33's rich and hypnotic blend of iris, violet, Australian Sandalwood and leather envelopes you in a cloud of warmth and expense, that lends itself to the nighttime.

Why it's dinner party approved: It's rich and long-lasting, while also being individual and oh-so alluring.

Yves Saint Laurent Libre EDP

RRP: £65 | Notes: tangerine, neroli, lavender, jasmine, Moroccan orange blossom, vanilla and white musk

This scent is a hit amongst the w&h beauty team for its rich and floral appeal. It features a warm blend of lavender, vanilla, jasmine and white musks that are so enticing and yet not overpowering. There's a reason why it's such a cult favourite fragrance, especially for date nights and evening do's.

Why it's dinner party approved: Hints of lavender evoke feelings of comfort, while its citrusy bursts of tangerine are so festive!

Floral Street Ylang Ylang Espresso EDP

RRP: £68 for 50ml | Notes: Tangerine, Sichuan pepper, rose, tiramisu accord, Ylang Ylang and espresso beans

Michelle Feeney recommends this rich, gourmand fragrance: "With its notes of tiramisu and coffee beans, I feel good enough to eat when I’m wearing it. It’s the kind of fragrance that’s ideal for when you’re sitting close to someone, with a good glass of wine in front of you. It's an attractive scent, perfect for after dark."

Why it's dinner party approved: It smells good enough to eat, which will only amplify the mood and anticipation of your guests.

MALIN+GOETZ Leather EDP

RRP: £82 for 50ml | Notes: lotus flower, pepper, clove, green violet, leather, cedar and sandalwood

Ciello Tuazon recommends this scent for an intimate get-together as the woody and leathery notes, "bring familiarity and just the right amount of closeness." If you're already a fan of perfumes like Santal 33, this will make a gorgeous addition to your collection. Plus, it's also available as an affordable perfume oil!

Why it's dinner party approved: It's warm and familiar, creating a sense of comfort.

KAYALI Musk 12 EDP

RRP: £73 | Notes: lotus flower, sheer jasmine, musk, vanilla and creamy sandalwood

Mona Kattan says: "I would opt for scents with musk as it is a great base and is great with layering. Musk 12 is perfect for it. I would also go for Vanilla 28, it’s a very sweet and addictive scent."

Why it's dinner party approved: Musk and vanilla perfumes are universally appealing, so you really can't go wrong - especially in the wintertime.

What makes a chic dinner party perfume?

If you're looking to build a wealth of expensive and long-lasting perfumes, knowing what defines a so-called pricey-smelling scent will help in your search...

Rich, spicy and woody scents, along with delicate floral perfumes, for instance, are often synonymous with expense but often, it's also the feeling your chosen scent creates that's key, as the experts explain.

• A lingering impression: Ciello Tuazon, MALIN+GOETZ Senior Director of Global Product Innovation says that first and foremost, the scent needs to compliment you and the feeling you're looking to emulate for your evening. "It should be unassuming and leave a lingering sillage with room for the imagination, yet have an olfactive signature."

• Warm & complex aromas: Tuazon recommends warm notes of amber and cedarwood, with hints of bright bergamot and pepper, to "bring a complex dynamic."

• Hints of gourmand: If you're not a lover of spicy and woody scents, Kayali's own Mona Kattan recommends something a touch sweeter. "Fragrance is truly personal, but my preference is to go for a slightly fresher note, such as a floral or gourmand-based fragrance. Kattan also recommends scents like Invite Only Amber as "it’s a gourmand, decadent, and delectable juice, you can almost taste the smell!"

• Whatever makes you feel chic: At the end of the day, it's important to remember that perfume relies heavily on personal preferences, as Kattan notes: "To me, perfume is about emotions and creating a feeling. Chic is a mood, so wear a scent that makes you feel sophisticated and elegant."

What are the best festive perfume notes?

If you're looking for an especially festive feel, what with party season now upon us, the experts have also shared their criteria for a positively sparkling scent:

• Leather

• Rum

• Black pepper

• Citrus

• Nuts

• Fruits

• Neroli

Tuazon suggests notes of leather, rum and black pepper, "that spark intrigue and conversation of a place you’ve been to or a grounding memory worth revisiting" - like MALIN+GOETZ's dark rum.

Floral Street's Michelle Feeney on the other hand says to "go for something citrussy, but with a warm, nutty interior to create a festive mood. I love Floral Street Sweet Almond Blossom Eau De Parfum for this, with pomelo, mandarin, tonka bean and vanilla to blend fruity notes with nuttiness." YSL's Libre is also a great option, as it features bursts of tangerine and neroli, with a sweet and creamy vanilla dry down.