The 42 Best Gifts to Give (and Get) in a Long-Distance Relationship

Finding the perfect gift to give is already hard enough. Tack on something like a long-distance relationship and you have got yourself a task. You want something thoughtful (duh), but the gift giving becomes a whole lot more special if it can acknowledge and diminish some of the space between you. If you can't constantly splurge on a whole bunch of plane tickets, there are some surprisingly creative ways to at least allude to closeness.

The good news is that we did the heavy lifting for you, curating the best long-distance gifts for anniversaries, Valentine's Day, birthdays, or any special occasion. These LDR-appropriate gifts include the full range of gift ideas, including tech gifts, personalized gifts, and even long-distance bracelets that actually look stylish. Whether you're going for something straight romance, something quirky, or something that can keep them cozy while you're apart, we've got you covered.

In a long distance relationship for the foreseeable future? Bookmark this now. You'll need it again. Here are 35 of the best gifts to give to a far away partner.

Brook & York

brookandyork.com

$68.00

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Some long-distance relationship bracelets are incredibly cheesy, but not this one. Send this sleek cuff to your partner with your coordinates so they can always feel close to you, no matter the distance.

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CaliGirlCustoms

etsy.com

$28.00

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If there’s one item we tend to carry at all times (besides our smartphones), it’s a set of keys. Add a daily reminder of your love to you and your partner’s keys with this kind-of-cheesy-but-still-cute gift idea.

PhoneSoap

amazon.com

$119.95

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When you’re in a long-distance relationship, you’re always on your phone, but when you think about all the germs they carry, it can be a bit of a buzzkill. Thankfully, that’s where the PhoneSoap Pro comes in. This cool tech gift will disinfect their phone in just five minutes.

palomarweb.com

99.00

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This radio lets you tune into the local stations in major cities, making it a perfect gift for someone who's away from their urban home.

Peonyandlaces

etsy.com

$16.00

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There’s nothing better than a romantic handwritten note, even if you no Lord Byron. Whenever your partner is need of of some affection or words of encouragement, they can open one of these envelopes and know you’re always there for them.

uncommongoods.com

$75.00

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Roku

amazon.com

$46.99

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$15.00

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Greenpan

verishop.com

$299.99

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Cooking together via Facetime is highly underrated. Gift your partner a full set of kitchenware to help get the ball rolling.

bookshop.org

$45.95

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And you know what helps with cooking? A very good cookbook. Kenji Lopez-Alt's Food Lab gets cooking down to its most fundamental science. Good for food nerds.

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You don’t need an anniversary or special occasion to send gifts to your long-distance partner, but dealing with shipping can make it a serious pain you only want to deal with a handful of times a year. Goody, a new gifting app, makes it easy to send gifts to anyone, anytime, and you don’t even need to know their address—the recipient will receive the gift notification straight to their phone. With top gift brands like Le Labo, Milk Bar, and UrbanStems on the app, you only need to go to one place to find the perfect present for your significant other.

cuyana.com

$115.00

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Presumably the laptop gets a lot of use during a modern long-distance relationship, and a proper cover is required to keep it in tip-top shape. This one is sleek and opens up into its own desk pad.

EleniPalCeramics

etsy.com

$28.00

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The sweetest thing we can think of for a long distance love is finding a way to feel connected. Share a morning coffee once in a while; a handmade ceramic mug will make it feel all the more special.

uncommongoods.com

$99.00

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Yes, this long distance frame is the modern take on old-school friendship bracelets. Pair it with a frame for you (or a pairing light). When one of you touches theirs, the other lights up, too.

usgs.gov

$80.00

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You might not be able to go on adventures together, but you could make some pseudo trips together. Help them get out in nature, or save it until you can both go together.

potterybarn.com

$38.99

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Lean into anything cozy for thoughtful long distance gifts. You're skipping out on a bunch of feel-good (and feel-safe) hormones. The most material thing you can substitute that with is a very comfy blanket.

strava.com

$59.99

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For couples surviving the distance, modes of connection are necessary. For the fitness couples, connecting on the Strava app—and tracking each other's miles—is a fun way to stay connected.

yeiou

etsy.com

$500.00

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Etsy is chock full of thoughtful homemade gifts, and this custom portrait especially stands out. You send the seller photos of the special house you have in mind, and crafts a paper structure of it.

AESOP

nordstrom.com

$55.00

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You might not be sharing the same home but that doesn't mean you can't find some similarities. Gift them (and yourself) the same glorious room spray. When one of you visits the other, you'll already feel at home.

1800flowers.com

$109.99

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While there might not be as much life in their place without you, you can at least add some color. A palm floor plant is no partner but it sure is cool decor.

beistravel.com

$198.00

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When they do get to come visit you—or when you finally take that trip you've been planning—don't let the lugging derail the adventure. Beis's rollers are simple, chic, and expertly roomy.

6X6DSGNS

etsy.com

$750.00

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Dating an old-school music nerd? This beautiful record storage will surprise the heck out of them. It's furniture, organization, and display all in one.

LE LABO

nordstrom.com

$75.00

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Candles can be overdone, but not when that candle is truly something special. Le Labo's classic Santal 26 is a perennial favorite.

purple.com

$109.00

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Pillows are often overlooked in the setup of a comfy home, especially if it's somewhere that feels transient. Don't let this fool you. One very good pillow will make every night in that bed better.

milkbarstore.com

$90.00

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Milk Bar gifts are great for someone missing the East Coast. Or just someone who likes very good desserts. The Sweet Spot package has cookies, birthday cake balls, and pie.

Logitech

bestbuy.com

$124.99

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Because Facetime is already the go-to date of the decade, you might as well embrace it. A better quality camera makes for a more enjoyable video chat. Or...whatever you're doing.

Nova

casper.com

$1696.00

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Two homes might mean two aesthetics, but no one should be suffering on a lumpy mattress. The Casper Nova is top-notch–and you'll get to enjoy it on your visits, too.

bombas.com

$45.60

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Listen, sometimes socks are a very good gift, especially for people who never want to invest in them. And, especially when they are as good as Bombas are.

Lelo

lelo.com

$229.00

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For when that high-quality webcam isn't enough, a set of toys for you to share as you wish.

Jackbox Games

amazon.com

$29.99

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Or if you'd rather games that are a bit more PG, we love Jackbox. The Party Pack has a whole bunch of games you can sign into and play together, distance between you be damned. (Also recommend this for any holiday firsts—Valentine's, birthday, etc. It's thoughtful but low-key.)

Bose

amazon.com

$379.00

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Facetiming and phone calls are essential to long distance survival, and a good pair of noise cancelling headphones makes communication infinitely easier. They are also very good for drowning out annoying travel noises while on the go.

Yogasleep

verishop.com

$30.00

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Also good for keeping calm, a sound machine that they can bring wherever they go. This is especially good if their current place is noisy—or if yours is.

Marshall

verishop.com

$249.00

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A very good (and very pretty) speaker is basically the modern equivalent of burning your love a CD. Only, you know, way better and with infinite possibilities.

publicrec.com

$98.00

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If your guy is coming and going to see you a lot, get him a pair of pants he can do some comfortably in. Public Rec's joggers are slim, good-looking, and very comfy. Also good for work-from-home outfits.

Lululemon

lululemon.com

$108.00

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Like socks, we should not be overlooking the power of a good underwear gift. Lululemon's motion boxers are truly made to move with you and not get stuck (or get things stuck). Just as good for working out as they are for long drives.

UGG

nordstrom.com

$98.00

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Speaking of travel, there's basically no mode that couldn't be better served with a super soft Ugg travel set. Just save the eye mask for when you're riding shotgun, please.

moma.org

$110.00

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Long distance relationships can get even more complicated by differing timezones. This speaker that doubles as a lantern (!!) is a fun gift for someone who's always talking to you past their bedtime.

Parachute Home

parachutehome.com

$19.00

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Surviving long distance takes trust, communication, and the knowledge that when you get to their place to shower, you will be able to do so comfortably and with fresh towels.

moma.org

$68.00

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If you usually send your partner a bouquet of flowers for their birthday, add on a cool vase with it. It'll make the gift a whole lot more special.

Nintendo

walmart.com

$399.00

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They have been waiting to play Animal Crossing. Now is the time! Also helpful if one partner plays a lot of games and the other doesn't. Finding a few to play together can make for a very fun long-distance date.

Nintendo

walmart.com

$49.93

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And, you know, get them the game, too. It makes for a much more well-rounded gifting experience. No time to waste when we've got games to game.