These Vibrators Might Make You Never Want A Significant Other Again
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You heard it here first, folks: Masturbating is pretty much essential to your mental and physical health—I'm talking pain relief and better sleep here. And when you bring a vibrator into the mix, you're signing up for all those good-for-you benefits and toe-curling orgasms on demand.
"Vibrators can help your body learn to respond to a variety of sensations," says certified sex therapist Kat Van Kirk, resident relationship and sex expert at Adam & Eve. "It also creates more variety in your sexual repertoire and can spice up your long-term sexual relationships."
Another perk: "One of the top benefits of using a vibrator is that you get to know your own pleasure zones," says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of OrganicLoven.com. "If you don't know what pleases you, it will be a challenge to explain it to your lovers."
That said, shopping for the vibrator that'll make you go ooh and ahh isn't exactly easy. In fact, considering all the bells and whistles and hefty price tags some of the latest vibes boast, it can be pretty freakin' hard. How are you supposed to know where to even start?!
Well, with this handy-dandy vibrator guide:
Consider "what type of experience you want this tool to help you unlock," says Alexandra Fine, CEO and cofounder of Dame Products, and a certified sexologist. If clitoral stimulation is your focus, a vibe that mimics the feeling of oral sex could be your non-stop ticket to O-town. If penetration's more your thing, you'll want a bigger vibrator with internal stimulation features.
"Be open to trying a variety of vibrators, if your budget allows," says Janet Brito, founder of the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health and The Sexual Health School and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. "If you need to save on cost, choose ABS plastic or a nonporous type to avoid infections." Vibes made of the jelly-like materials tend to be porous and hold onto bacteria (yuck).
Look for cordless or USB rechargeable options, so you don’t have to worry about a power outage, advises Brito. (After all, what else are you gonna do while waiting for the lights to come back on?) Just make sure to charge it first!
"Get a waterproof vibrator, so you can use it in the shower or while you take a relaxing bath," says Brito. Sure, you might not need splash protection 24/7, but when you're looking to get ~wet and wild~, you'll be glad you have it.
Double, triple check that the vibrator is body-safe and is made of toxic-free materials.
Think about your lifestyle. Do you have roommates? Opt for a quiet vibrator that will keep your private time, ahem, private. Travel a ton? Look for a travel-sized toy with a lock setting, says Brito, so your carry-on doesn't accidentally start buzzing in the security line.
Lube it up—it's your vibrator's best accessory. A water-based lube is not only your best bet for keeping silicone toys in pristine condition, says Brito, but also ensures you get the most bang for your buck (literally).
Post-purchase, wash your toy and hands before plunging into self-pleasure. Simply use warm water and soap, suggests Brito.
Ahead, sex experts share their picks for the 27 best vibrators for women in 2021, whatever your ~vibe~ (lol, get it?). With the guesswork out of the way, you can spend less time researching which one to get and more time time getting it on.
1. NEA 2 Personal Massager (+ Pleasure Kit)
This pleasure kit is perfect for self-pleasure beginners because it has literally everything you need for an arousing time! Not only does this vibe come in a versatile shape—perfect for testing out in every nook and cranny to see what works best—but it also has eight powerful vibration settings, is 100-percent waterproof, USB rechargeable, and made of ABS plastic, says Brito. Plus, the complementary arousal oil is a blend of curated botanical aphrodisiacs that help arouse the body, increase lubrication, and make sex and self-pleasure feel next level.
2. Cervix Serpent
If you're interested in some vaginal self-massage, Brito recommends this glass wand made for internal stimulation. It can also help those who experience vaginal pain, tension, or numbness during sex or self-pleasure. While the toy is a bit of an investment, the bedroom benefits are oh so worth it.
3. Sway
"This toy is one of my personal favorites when it comes to multiple orgasms and a pleasure-filled sexual experience," Joanne Encarcion, sex and relationship coach says. "It's great for those who are wanting to play with G-spot stimulation and a little perineum (the area between the genitals and anus) play. The warming technology is great to keep you in the mood for as long as you desire." (Pssst... it's also waterproof 😏).
4. Ose 2
The Ose 2 is built to mimic the best kinds of human touch. It offers G-spot and clitoral stimulation all in one and bound to leave you in blended orgasm bliss. "The clitoral mouth mimics the sensation of stroking and sucking and the G-spot massager gives you stimulation to both pleasure points," Encarcion says.
5. Nirvana By Bellesa
This wand boasts its ability to combine luxury with affordability, making it ideal for beginners. Made of trusty silicone (which isn't porous, cleans easily, and won't hold onto any bacteria that could transfer into your bod) and rechargeable for easy use, the Nirvana is the new go-to vibe. Encarcion claims this is one of the best wands she has ever owned. Plus, she says it's a really great bath buddy.
6. Le Wand Point
Sex experts love this vibe for its sleek, yet intense design. It fits comfortably into your hand but also works completely *hands-free* with its perfectly designed weight and shape. Just rest it where you want, and let it go to work. Bonuses? It's waterproof and has easy-to-control vibration modes, per Encarcion. You'll def wanna get this one in rose gold.
7. Soraya Wave
Let's be real–you deserve some luxury during "me" time. The Soraya Wave is the extravagant cousin to the traditional rabbit vibrator, according to Encarcion. "What I love about this toy is its ergonomics. It's skillfully designed to hit just the right angle for every body type," Encarcion says. If you need even more reason to invest in this vibe, you should know it's whisper-quiet and features a flexible body that feels like it was made just for you.
8. Dame Zee
Dame's vibrator, Zee, launched last November. Instead of silicone, it's made from a type of silky-smooth plastic called ABS (which, fun fact, Legos are also made from), then coated with a soft-touch spray. Why, you ask? Because this thinner material makes room for Zee's super-powerful motor.
9. SKYN Vibes Massager
If you're looking for affordable options, you def need to check out the Vibes Massager by SKYN. It comes highly recommended by certified sex coach and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: a guide to sex, love, and life Gigi Engle, who says it's "super bendy and easy to maneuver." The best part? It's versatile. "What’s great is that you can use it for dual stimulation of the clit and G-spot," she adds. Don't want penetration? Just use it on your clit, vulva, or nipples.
10. Femme Funn Ultra Bullet
"I always recommend a bullet vibrator to start with, preferably one that can offer both external and internal stimulation," Sparks says. And this is the one she suggests the most. "It offers 20 vibration modes, so it’s perfect for the beginner, as well as a seasoned lover of bullet vibrators. It can be used both internally and externally, plus it's waterproof, USB rechargeable, and small enough for travel." Bzzz!
11. Bam Bullet
Just here to put yet another bullet vibrator on your radar. The VeDo Bam Bullet has 10 different vibration patterns and is made of soft silicone. While it might be little, this one packs quite the punch. Like Sparks, Engle says bullet vibrators are "the best place to start," since they focus on the glans (a.k.a. your clit's head), which is "where the vast majority of women discover their potential for orgasm and pleasure." Sold.
12. Romp Wave Lay-on Mint
Sparks is a big fan of the Romp line. Everything is under $50 (!!), but the quality is comparable to expensive brands, she says. This bb has six vibration modes and packs a lot of power for its small size.
13. We-Vibe Unite
Looking for a toy that you can use with your S.O., too? We-Vibe Unite is perfect for slipping in between you and your partner. It stays put while it pulses, allowing you the freedom to caress yourself elsewhere or keep grinding along with its vibrations. Like to take your time during sex? That's totally fine because this thing can go for up to 60 minutes straight. (Do people actually last that long? Asking for a friend.)
14. Le Wand Vibrator
Le Wand is a freakin' classic, which is why so many sexperts recommend it as one of the best vibrators for women. So it's not the most discreet-looking toy—who cares? In fact, it's on the bigger side for a reason. This vibe is meant to be used all around your clitoris for earth-shattering orgasms, or you can angle part of its head to reach inside you for some internal-type pleasure. It's got 20 vibration patterns, 10 different speeds (um, r u serious?!), and it's USB rechargeable. Look, it's called "the wand" for a reason. It's magic.
15. Tiger Vibe G5
Want internal pleasure? Want to reach what your fingers can't? If so, then the Tiger Vibe G5 might be your perfect match. Shaped like a penis and with a special ringed handle for optimal movement, this vibe is meant for insertion and can reach all the way up to your G-spot. It's 100-percent waterproof (perf for taking into baths and showers), and it's got a rechargeable battery (major key).
16. Pom
This tiny vibe fits right in the palm of your hand and bends at your will. It has a super-powerful motor and comes in two colors (cute!). Fine recommends humping the toy between your legs or sliding it in your panties. "It's my personal fave," she adds.
17. The Fin
This water-resistant finger vibe is pretty much perf for both solo masturbation and partnered sex. The band wraps around your fingers, making it easy to lose yourself in the sensation without losing grip on the toy. The Fin is "a great choose-your-own-adventure toy, since it can easily be integrated into whatever you’re already doing with your hands," says Fine. Major bonus: It's got a magnetic USB charger and is made of medical-grade silicone.
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18. My First Jack Rabbit
Remember that vibrator that literally kept Charlotte in bed for days in Sex And The City? Well, that's this guy. Let me introduce you to the My First Jack Rabbit, a tool that stimulates both your G-Spot and clitoris *at the same time*. It's got little orbs that whirl around while it pulses for increased stimulation, too. Engle says that "vibrators are a tool for female sexual liberation," and honestly, the rabbit will make you feel liberated as hell.
19. G Kiss Waterproof Vibrator
As far as vibrators go, the G Kiss is pretty cheap. But don’t mistake the low price point for lack of quality. The toy’s contoured tip vibrates to target your G-spot, while the clitoral stimulator and its pleasure nubs go to work on your clitoris. With three speeds and dual motors, this is a pretty good bang for your buck—literally.
20. Sona Cruise 2
The Lelo Sona Cruise 2 is here to stimulate all your clitoral needs. It mimics the sensation of oral sex, (um, yes plz!), and the harder you push it against your skin, the more it increases the vibration intensity (v special feature, you guys!). It uses sonic waves to deliver vibes to your clit without actually touching it, which is huge for those of you who can't handle a lot of direct clitoral stimulation.
21. Starlet 2
The Womanizer Starlet 2 is Engle's favorite toy for beginners. "You turn it on, put the nozzle over the glans, and bam, you're having an orgasm in just a few minutes," she says. For those of you who've never had an orgasm before, Engle says using the Womanizer is "a fabulous way to find out what they feel like without any guesswork."
22. Jimmyjane Form 2
The Form 2 has powerful vibrating motors in each flexible ear. It's perfect for pinching around your clitoral hood in a way that gives you stimulation without touching the pleasure center directly. And while it's def not for insertion, Fine says that's totally okay.
23. We-Vibe Moxie
Wearable (a.k.a. panty) vibrators are awesome, and this one is no exception: It's mini, contoured, super soft, and quiet. Just slip the mini, contoured vibe into your underwear before dinner, and hand off control to a partner via the remote or mobile app.
24. Vesper Vibrator Necklace
PSA: The Crave Vesper is a freakin' necklace, people! Not only is it sleek and stylish, but it's also made of stainless steel, has four different vibrations, is USB rechargeable, and is free of phthalates, sulfates, parabens, says Brito. The best part about jewelry that doubles as an accessory? "They’re great for an impromptu rendezvous," says Fine. But even though Vesper's surface is smooth, you might want to make it feel even sleeker by pairing it with water-based lube for optimal stimulation.
25. We-Vibe Tango
The Tango comes highly recommended from Engle. She says its strength comes from its simplicity, since it's "a small bullet vibrator with a ton of speeds and rhythms." TBH, it's also ideal because of how quiet it is when you turn it on.
26. Enby
Enby is considered the first gender-neutral vibrator because of its innovative multi-body design. Rub the flexible silicone tip around your clitoris or flip the toy around so that the triangular base sits at your perineum. Or you can place yourself on top and use a humping rhythm to experience a wave of stimulation with each stroke.
27. MysteryVibe Crescendo
The Crescendo is super special because the shaft bends however the eff you please. You might curve it into a V-shape and use it for both penetrative stimulation and clitoral stimulation at once. Looking to try anal but getting some first-time nerves? This vibrator is slender and gentle enough that you can insert without it feeling too intense (but make sure you use it with water-based lube!).
28. Rabbit Bullet Vibe
The Je Joue Rabbit Bullet Vibe combines the size and power of a bullet with the huggable "ears" of a rabbit vibrator. You can use it to envelope the hood of your clit or massage your vulva with the bullet's base. Because the Rabbit Bullet is so dynamic, it's sure to bring you all the orgasmic exploration you need. Bonus: "They tend to be quieter than larger vibrators," says sex expert Jess O’Reilly, author of The New Sex Bible and host of the @SexWithDrJess podcast. So if you've got roommates, this one's for you.
29. Kandi Kisses
Yep, that's Kandi as in singer Kandi Burruss, and trust, this pretty li'l lipstick vibe will not disappoint. Better yet, leave it on your dresser and your roommate will be none the wiser. So smart!
30. Charged Vooom Bullet
Brito loves this travel-sized vibe for stashing in a suitcase or even a carry-on bag. Powered by deep, rumbling Vooom technology with 10 vibration options, solo travel has never been so sexy.
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