The Right Time to Get a New Dog
By Amy Sinatra Ayres
Photo by zolakoma/Flickr
The Thompson family fell in love with their rescue puppy, Baxter, as soon as they met him. But adopting Baxter was no easy decision: After losing the second of their two German Shepherds, it took the family four years to get to a point where they could imagine getting another dog.
Sally, a black and tan Shepherd they’d had since puppyhood, died at age 13; she had nerve degeneration in her hind legs that progressed quickly. Tai, a white Shepherd they’d adopted not long after getting Sally, had passed away a year earlier, at 12, after a more prolonged decline caused by dementia.
For Jane Thompson, it was the emotional part of losing Sally - to whom she felt more connected - that made it tough to think about moving on. “Whatever pet we get, it’s not going to be Sally,” she remembers thinking. “What I really want is her.”
Her husband, Billy, was “down and out,” she says. Although he’d always had a dog, he was worn out from the walks in the heat, rain and snow; the shedding that comes with two Shepherds; and coping with the dogs’ declining health, especially with two young children.
It looked like the Thompsons were done with dogs.
But four years after Sally’s death, the Thompsons started to reconsider. They always knew they wanted their children to grow up with pets - and they knew that their 5-year-old daughter, an animal lover, would adore having a dog. One night in February, they took a look at the website for their local shelter. Two days later, they brought 9-month-old Baxter, a Doberman mix, home.
"I think we were more ready than we realized we were," Jane Thompson says.
When you lose a dog, the first question many people ask you is, “When are you getting another one?” But deciding to get a new pet can take awhile - and the right time is different for everyone.