20 Messages People With a Mental Condition Needed to Hear at Their Lowest Moments

They’re moments we might want to forget — the ones that show us the scary truth of how bad things can get. When you live with a mental illness, these moments can be breaking points or breakthroughs — perhaps halting recovery or making you realize how badly you need help. Regardless, we push through them — learn from them — and hopefully grow stronger each time we face them.

We asked our readers who live with a mental illness what’s something they needed to hear at their lowest point.

We hope these messages find you when you need them most:

1. “You are worth more than your darkness.” — Krystin Louise

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2. “This is temporary.” — Rebecca Chamaa

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3. “You are not alone. You are worthy of life.” — Katie Keepman

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4. “I know you’re in there somewhere.” — Valerie Miles

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5. “Don’t beat yourself up so much.” — Anne Barrymore

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6. “You’re a strong person.” — Jade Ellis Shellam

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7. “You won’t always feel this way.” — Pat Shaw

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8. “You matter.”Andrea Graham

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9. “I’m proud of you.”Nikki White

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10. “It’s the depression talking…not you.” — Krystal Roberson-Mc Murtry

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11. “Your feelings are always valid.” Amanda Schulte

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12. “You are not a waste of space.”Sarah Mayfield

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13. “Do whatever you need to take care of yourself.”Brenda Ann

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14. “It’s not your fault.” Valerie Stipcak

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15. “You are not your anxiety.”Kirsty Flynn

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16. “We will go through this together.” — Alexandra Vardaki

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17. “Someone understands.” Patti Dorris

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18. “You’re not a failure.”Kayla Lynn Malisiak

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19. “You have an illness. You are sick. It’s not really you.”Aubrie McShane

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20. “There is nothing wrong with asking for help.” Jenalyn Cloward Barton

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By Sarah Schuster

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