OPINION: Editor James Bennett's column: Have you called your mama? I sure wish I could call mine on Mother's Day

James Bennett, The Anniston Star, Ala.
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May 9—Paul "Bear" Bryant recorded a television commercial for South Central Bell in the 1970s that I always remember on Mother's Day.

The late Alabama football coach says at the end, "Have you called your mama today? I sure wish I could call mine."

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James Bennett is Executive Editor. Contact him at 256-235-3540 or jbennett@annistonstar.com.