Groom stirs drama by rejecting family's ‘selfish’ wedding request: ‘It’s your day too’

A man is upset his brother-in-law (BIL) asked to propose at his wedding. The groom-to-be went on Reddit’s “Am I the A******” forum to see if he was wrong for putting his foot down. The user’s fiancée always wants to please her brother so when he made the strange request, she quickly agreed. “I was at work and she told me after I came home. I said I don’t think I’m okay with that because this should be our day and I don’t want any spotlight to be taken away from her” . “I’m getting calls from her family that it’s none of my business if my fiancée wants to let BIL propose on our wedding because she is the bride and she gets the say. Reddit users believed the groom-to-be should have an equal say in the wedding. “He [BIL] can’t respect your choice because he’s selfish,” one user commented. “There are two people getting married and they should both have an equal say,” someone added