A Reddit user sparked an intense discussion after sharing the unusual request her friend made ahead of her wedding.
The user, who writes under the account IGuessImAFlowerGirl, shared the conflict
to Reddit’s r/relationships forum.
IGuessImAFlowerGirl said she wasn't expecting to be a bridesmaid, but she was shocked when the bride asked her, instead, to be the flower girl in her wedding.
"I'm in shock," IGuessImAFlowerGirl wrote. "Basically she wants me to act like a bridesmaid, but not be one".
"I don't want to be a flower girl at all,
but I don't want to ruin her day".
Most commenters told her
to speak up about the unusual request.
Of course, some took on
an entirely different perspective.
"Flower girl isn't a role just for children, I've also seen dogs and cats do it," one user wrote