When my younger sister went to Europe this summer, I was admittedly a bit worried. Between stories from my own family, friends, and even Asian American women on TikTok, I'd heard enough stories about racist experiences in Europe (and it's not limited to East Asian women, let alone Asians).
However, it's pretty normalized and not often talked about — especially considering how glamorized European travel often is. So, in an effort to center Asian American experiences and raise awareness, I asked Asian Americans to share their experiences of racism while abroad. Here are some of their stories:
Note: These stories are naturally limited to the responses we received by readers and are not reflective of the experience of all Asian Americans (a diverse identity that encompasses more than 20 ethnicities).
1."In 2016, my sister and I saw the first showing of Cursed Child in London. Afterward, we tried to get Pizza Express nearby. The waiter was from Italy and acted like he was too busy to seat us; however, he was only refilling some waters and chatting with his coworkers. After waiting for 20 minutes, we realized he had no intention of seating us and left. This was the most blatant form of racism I experienced in a long time, and I still think about it to this day.
2."When I was young, I travelled a lot. Once, at a hotel, they wouldn't give my family a room despite having a reservation. They told us we were at the 'other' location. When I later backpacked through Europe myself, the same thing happened: The hotel staff said they were full and wouldn't allow me to stay, but their website showed they had rooms available."
3."The racism was different than in the US because it was much more overt. While out at a bar in Portugal this past summer, this guy yelled, 'Samurai!' at me. He then made a karate chop motion and tried to grab the mask off my face.
4."I studied abroad in Florence for a year, and while most of my experiences with locals were lovely, I was often asked, 'Where are you from?' When I'd answer, 'California,' they'd say, 'No, where are you really from?' When I'd repeat, 'California,' they'd ask, 'Where are your parents from?' I'd tell them, 'China,' and they'd then nod along and say, 'Ah,' as if they'd known all along.
5."When I was in the UK, my boyfriend and I were taking the Tube, and some French guys, about my age, were speaking loudly in French, insulting every person in the carriage. There were Black people, people wearing hijabs, a person with a caretaker — these guys mocked the color of their skin, the way they dressed, and their religion, and made assumptions all while laughing hysterically. It was infuriating. Then, they got to me, an Asian girl. They started going on about my 'yellow' skin color and my accent (lol, what accent?) before calling me some seriously racist names in French. Well, the joke was on them, because I'm a francophone. I blasted them right back in French until they were tomato red. They stopped immediately. I swear they stopped breathing.
6."When I was in Venice with my grandma, she wanted to buy a souvenir shirt for my cousin. Almost immediately, the shop keeper started mocking her and saying things like, 'Ching ching, chong chong.' I didn't want to make a scene, but I was livid. This woman has been nothing but loving and kind to everyone. My mother and grandfather joined us shortly at the shop, and the shopkeeper blew up, screaming, 'Four people at this shop, and all you will buy is one T-shirt!' He then ripped the T-shirt out of my grandmother's hands. We were in the store for, at most, 10 minutes, and the store was completely empty. My mother ripped him a new one and stormed out.
7."I've traveled extensively in Europe, especially as I'm married to a German woman. In France, while I was with a travel group of all Asians, waiters on the street would mimic karate moves at us as our group passed by. At the base of the Eiffel Tower, a French teenager shouted 'konnichiwa' to me in a crowd. He instantly regretted this when I displayed the fullness of my New York upbringing inches from his face. Seeing him cower away in fear was very gratifying. The first time I met my wife's German grandparents, they had no qualms — while talking amongst themselves — using words like 'ching chong' in reference to me. They said it openly in front of me, as if I wouldn't mind. My wife was horrified and corrected them, but for a brief moment, I was going to kick some old German ass and enjoy doing it.
8."I found that the racism I experienced in Europe was based more on plain ignorance than willful racism, though it definitely depended on the city. When I worked as a language assistant in a small French town, many students would ask me if I was adopted. I thought it was a curious question as I've never been asked that before, but then, I realized the only three Asian students in school were all adopted, so they genuinely thought that Asian Americans must've been adopted as well. In Marseilles, an elderly couple approached me in a park to chit-chat, and the husband asked where I was from. When I said the US, he went, 'Americans don't look like this, though,' and proceeded to do the slanty-eyed face with his fingers. His wife then dragged him away. Another time, while on a wine tour in Bordeaux, the owner casually mentioned that he doesn't sell his wine to Chinese buyers as they just buy in bulk without appreciating the wine.
9."Before traveling to Ireland, everyone was telling me how friendly Irish people are. Needless to say, my sister, cousin, and I (we are Chinese American) were extremely excited to meet the locals. One night, we were staying in a major city and walking back from a pub when two drunk men across the street started to try and get our attention. When we finally looked over, they repeatedly screamed, 'KONNICHIWA!' at us while laughing and waving. My cousin tossed back a 'fuck you' and flipped them the bird. I'm generally a non-confrontational person (as I never know if the other party will start being aggressive toward me or not), so I just ignored them and kept walking.
10."My mother and I were at a McDonald's in France and asked an employee if there was a restroom we could use. I spoke French so she'd understand us. The employee heard my question, turned her back to us, and then walked away as if we didn't exist."
11."I've traveled to 23 countries, and I'm not sure why, but the most racism I've experienced has been from British tourists. I have many examples, but these stood out: A teenage British boy in my tour group wanted his granny to take his picture and said, 'Shall I do Asian eyes?' He then looked at me and a couple behind me, the only Asians in the group. Another time, in Portugal, this older British couple in my tour group made constant, micro-aggressive comments about a young Asian couple taking pictures of the winery we were touring. Of course, they never made a comment about other white couples in the group doing the same thing. In Thailand, a group of young British women mocked our Thai tour guide's accent in front of the whole group and talked loudly anytime he said something to the group. It got so bad I finally shushed them, and they were so shocked that I stood up to them. They then proceeded to be rude to me throughout the rest of the trip.
12."Once, I was in Barcelona with my girlfriend, who is of European descent and from Spain, to meet her parents. I'm Japanese and was raised in the US. The trip was mostly fantastic, except for a few things. First off, I could not hail a taxi for the life of me. They would not stop for me, but they would stop for her. We actually tested this several times. I'd stand on a corner and hail a taxi, and none would stop. She'd stand a block away, and taxis would stop for her. Now, maybe you're thinking this was because she's an attractive female, but both male and female cab drivers would pass me by and stop for her. She'd then make the taxi wait while I walked to join her. Sometimes, the driver would apologize and say that they didn't realize we're together or didn't see me. Other times, people talked down about me and made interesting comments, not realizing that I understand Spanish — but that's a whole other story in itself.
13."Once, I was taking the train from Barcelona to Murcia to meet a friend. I wanted to make sure I got on the right train, so I asked an old lady, in Spanish, if she could tell me where to go for help. She responded to me in Spanish, 'Go away, don't talk to me, stupid Asian.' I was shocked and sad, as I was traveling alone and feeling pretty overwhelmed already. When I told the front desk at the hotel about it, they said that, sadly, they weren't surprised, and that racism against Asians was relatively common in the area. However, I do want to note that I didn't experience any issues once I found the help area of the train station. I think with locals, you just have to be more careful.
"I hadn't experienced a situation like that since I was really little, and it was when another kid was picking on me. He called me Chinese in a negative tone, though I'm not Chinese (not that it mattered to him)."