GROTON, Conn. (AP) — A former submarine commander who faked his death to end an extramarital affair apologized Friday to the Navy, the sailors who served under him and his wife as he asked a panel of officers to allow him to stay in the service.
A lieutenant acting as a prosecutor countered that there's no place in the Navy for a man with the character of Cmdr. Michael P. Ward II.
Ward, a married 43-year-old, sent his mistress in Virginia an email in July posing as a fictitious co-worker named Bob and saying Ward had died unexpectedly, a Navy investigation found. Ward was relieved of his duties aboard the USS Pittsburgh in August, a week after he'd taken command, and has received a letter of reprimand for adultery and other military violations.
At the end of a daylong hearing of testimony from Ward's former superior officers, colleagues and shipmates, Ward himself, in his dress blues, acknowledged to the panel that he had had an affair and sent the bogus email to the woman in an effort to end it.
"The reason I did it was to sever the relationship," he said, "but the choice was ridiculous."
He said he accepted full responsibility for his actions and would regret them all his life, adding that he was grateful to his wife for standing by him.
"I want to apologize directly to my wife for the hurt and harm and humiliation I have caused her," he said as she sat in the front row, her eyes red.
The three-officer panel began deliberating after the hearing about whether to allow Ward to stay in the Navy and, if so, at what rank. A demotion could cost him up to $750,000 in retirement benefits.
The government argued that Ward discredited the Navy and that his removal put a strain on the fleet because officers had to be shuffled around to cover his removal.
"Commander Ward's actions show a complete lack of honesty, character and integrity," said Navy Lt. Griffin Farris, acting as prosecutor at the hearing.
Still, the Navy shouldn't throw away his talent and training, said high-ranking officers whom Ward has served under. They said he made an awful mistake and that he was a fast-rising, hard-working officer. He was honest with his chain of command from the beginning, his lawyer added.
"This man probably would have been an admiral someday, and he's brought shame on himself and he knows that," said Navy Cmdr. Daniel Cimmino, representing Ward.
But a senior enlisted sailor from the USS Pittsburgh told the panel that Ward at first denied the accusations.
The sailor, Master Chief Chris Beauprez, said he received a call on the submarine from a sister of Ward's girlfriend, who told him what Ward had done.
Beauprez said he told Ward about the call and Ward denied the woman's allegations, then said he'd address the situation himself. Beauprez testified that he had an implicit trust in what his commander said so he didn't take the matter up any further.
Days later, he said, he heard Ward was being dismissed.
A fellow Navy officer who had gone through training with Ward, Anthony Moore, testified that he heard about the affair when news of it first surfaced — including the detail that Ward had used the name Tony Moore in an online dating profile that he used to meet the woman.
"I was very surprised," Moore, who's based on a submarine squadron in Washington state, told the board by telephone. "And frankly, I was a little concerned for my reputation."