‘She is a financial idiot and partier’: I loaned my sister $4,780 for a lawyer during her divorce. I am still chasing repayments

‘She is a financial idiot and partier’: I loaned my sister $4,780 for a lawyer during her divorce. I am still chasing repayments
Quentin Fottrell
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‘She earns $90,000 to $95,000 a year, but this year’s excuse is that she is in arrears for child-support payments.’

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