Lily Allen: I love my children but they ruined my pop career

Lily Allen
Allen says she gets annoyed when people say you can have it all 'because, quite frankly, you can't' - Andrew Crowley for The Telegraph
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Lily Allen has claimed having children has “totally ruined” her music career.

The 38-year-old singer has two daughters - Ethel Mary, 11, and nine-year-old Marnie Rose - with ex-husband Sam Cooper.

Discussing how having children affected her career choices, Allen told Radio Times: “My children ruined my career. I love them and they complete me, but in terms of popstardom, they totally ruined it.

“I get really annoyed when people say you can have it all because, quite frankly, you can’t.

“Some people choose their career over their children and that’s their prerogative, but my parents were quite absent when I was a kid. I feel like it left some nasty scars that I’m not willing to repeat on mine.

“I chose to step back and concentrate on them. I’m glad I’ve done that because I think they’re pretty well-rounded.”

Allen, the daughter of actor Keith Allen and film producer Alison Owen, remembered being left outside when her parents were out for a meal.

She said: “Our parents used to hang out in this one particular restaurant called 192.

“There wasn’t enough space for the kids, so we would be left outside, going round Portobello Market. We’d shoplift things.”

English singer Lily Allen (C) and daughters Marnie Rose Cooper (L) and Ethel Cooper attend "Stranger Things" season 4 premiere at Netflix Brooklyn in New York City
Lily with daughters Marnie Rose Cooper, left, and Ethel Cooper - Angela Weiss/AFP
Allen says father Keith and mother Alison Owen 'left some nasty scars that I'm not willing to repeat'
Allen says father Keith and mother Alison Owen 'left some nasty scars that I'm not willing to repeat' - MJ Kim/Getty Images

The star, who broke out in 2008 with her chart-topping hit Smile, stopped making music after the release of her 2014 album Sheezus.

She has since found a new creative outlet in acting and made her West End debut in 2:22 A Ghost Story.

She said: “I was about two years sober. I’d just moved to New York. A big part of sobriety is surrendering and letting God - in whatever way you want to believe in that - have a plan for you.

“I got a call from a casting director who was putting on a play in the West End. I said ‘No, I’m not an actress’.

“But then I was talking to David (her husband, Stranger Things star David Harbour) - I’d been feeling a bit directionless and didn’t really know what I was doing with my life, except for being a mum and setting up a new home in Brooklyn - and he said ‘Maybe you should call them back’.

“Five weeks later I was in rehearsal.”

Allen received an Olivier Award nomination for Best Actress for her performance in 2022.

Since then she has starred in a stage production of The Pillowman by Martin McDonagh.

She has also appeared on television in Dreamland, about four sisters living on the Kent coast.

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