A Virginia congressman is coming under fire for a tone-deaf remark made to a woman in jail who has a drug addiction.
Rep. Dave Brat was visiting an addiction support group at the Chesterfield County Jail in his home state on Wednesday and listening to an inmate speak about the struggles she would face when she was released.
The Republican lawmaker’s response suggested he is suffering from a severe empathy deficit.
“You think you’re having a hard time ― I’ve got $5 million worth of negative ads coming at me,” he said, according to NPR reporter Ben Paviour. “How do you think I’m feeling? Nothing’s easy. For anybody.”
Brat, who took down then-House Majority Leader Eric Cantor (R-Va.) in a 2014 primary, is now in a close battle for re-election with Democrat Abigail Spanberger. He apparently felt it was important for the incarcerated members of an addiction support group to understand just how hard his own life is.
“You think I’m a congressman, ‘Oh, life’s easy, this guy’s off having steaks every day,’” he said. “Baloney. I’ve got a daughter, she’s got to deal with that crap on TV every day.”
“So it’s tough,” Brat continued. “No one out there’s got some easy life. Right?”
You can hear the exchange in this tweet:
An odd moment from @DaveBratVA7th's visit to an addiction support group at Chesterfield County Jail: After an inmate describes some of the difficulties she'd face upon release, Brat says his life isn't all roses either, pointing to attack ads from @SpanbergerVA07pic.twitter.com/uVDW4jsAhs— Ben Paviour (@BPaves) October 18, 2018
Brat may have had a sudden moment of clarity because he eventually acknowledged that the challenges these prisoners faced might be a teensy bit more difficult than his.
“And you’ve got it harder,” he acknowledged, according to Paviour. “I’m not dismissing that. You’ve got some fierce, real anxiety with coming up with a job or whatever. And what you’ve got to find is a support system.”
Brat’s challenger condemned his remarks, calling them “an affront to every person in recovery and the Virginians who die daily due to their addiction.”
It is absolutely shameful for @DaveBratVA7th to compare the hardship of addiction and the struggles of recovery to his campaign. This is an affront to every person in recovery and the Virginians who die daily due to their addiction. #VA07https://t.co/YDyh8baiZm— Abigail Spanberger (@SpanbergerVA07) October 18, 2018
Others also piled on.
Me-me-me-me! Let them eat cake! And at the end, he sums up the GOP agenda: You gotta find a support system. Because in their crackpot fantasies, all vulnerable, disadvantaged people are to be supported only by relatives or better a church where they can be converted.— Chris Alexander (@MarsInsider) October 18, 2018
"I have a debilitating disease that could kill me and helped land me in jail."— Shawn Gremminger (@sgremminger) October 18, 2018
"Yeah, well, my political opponent is being mean. Guess we're equal." #compassion
"How do you think I'M feeling?" WHAT ABOUT ME? is the 2018 cry of whiny fragile privileged white men. Brat is clearly the most aptly named man in Congress right now. Hope to see "Retired" or, better, "Defeated", added to his moniker after #November6th. Come on, #VA07, #VoteBlue.— Marybeth Levine (@LevineMarybeth) October 18, 2018
However, Brat is getting support from another person with a notable empathy deficit: President Donald Trump.
Congressman @DaveBratVA7th is one of the hardest working, and smartest, people in Washington. He is strong on the Border, Crime, the Military, our Vets and the 2nd Amendment. He is a powerful vote for MAGA and loves the Great State of Virginia. Dave has my Total Endorsement!— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) October 18, 2018
In response to HuffPost’s request for comment, Brat’s communications director, Mitchell Hailstone, sent a long Facebook post from Chesterfield County Sheriff Karl Leonard, who said Brat’s visit had been mischaracterized by the media.
“It is a shame,” the sheriff wrote, “that what was supposed to be a visit to focus on finding solutions to an issue that is killing tens of thousands of Americans a year has turned into a political matter.” Leonard praised Brat for “stepp[ing] away from the campaign trail” to learn more about the opioid crisis.
On Thursday, Paviour followed up with Paris Mines, the woman whose comments sparked Brat’s woe-is-me remarks.
Unlike many, she said she actually appreciated Brat’s response.
“It was like a sense of relief, like I’m not alone,” she said. “Somebody this important, this big, is got the same things going on, like being overwhelmed. It made me feel like at ease.”
Her reaction differed sharply from that of Kim Myers, an employee of Leonard’s Heroin Addiction Recovery Program who was also at Wednesday’s meeting.
“How could you compare yourself to someone who’s going to get out and not be able to get a job, and not be able to get housing, and has to pay all these fines and restitutions for being in jail?” Myers told Paviour. “Personally, I felt attacked.”
This story has been updated to include comments from Sheriff Karl Leonard, Paris Mines and Kim Myers.
- This article originally appeared on HuffPost.