Giancarlo Granda says he was 20 when he met Jerry and Becki Falwell while working as a pool attendant at the Fontainebleau Miami Beach hotel in March 2012.
Starting that month and continuing into 2018, Granda told Reuters that the relationship involved him having sex with Becki Falwell while Jerry Falwell looked on.
Granda showed Reuters emails, text messages and other evidence that he says demonstrate the sexual nature of his relationship with the couple, who have been married since 1987.
“Becki and I developed an intimate relationship and Jerry enjoyed watching from the corner of the room,” Granda said in an interview.
In this recording from a 2018 phone call that Giancarlo Granda provided to Reuters, Granda said he and the Falwells discussed Becki Falwell’s jealousy about Granda dating other women.
Now 29, he described the liaisons as frequent – “multiple times per year” – and said the encounters took place at hotels in Miami and New York, and at the Falwells’ home in Virginia.
His friendship with the Falwells eventually soured, Granda told Reuters, in part because he wanted to dissolve his ties with the couple and fell into a business dispute with them.
Granda first emerged as a figure in the Falwells’ circle two years ago, when BuzzFeed News reported that the couple had befriended Granda and gone into business with him, buying a Miami Beach youth hostel in 2013.
At the time of the BuzzFeed article, a representative of the Falwell family said Granda was “offered a share” in Alton Hostel LLC because Granda lived in Miami and would act as a manager of the youth hostel.
Corporate records show that Granda currently has a stake in that venture.
Becki Falwell did not respond to emails or phone and text messages from Reuters.
After Reuters presented its initial reporting early last week to the Falwells, a lawyer for Jerry Falwell, Michael Bowe, said the evangelical leader “categorically denies everything you indicated you intend to publish about him.”
On Sunday night, however, as Reuters was preparing to publish this article, Jerry Falwell issued a statement to the Washington Examiner in which he said that his wife had had an affair with Granda and that Granda had been trying to extort money from the couple over the matter.
Granda denies any such intent, saying he was seeking to negotiate a buyout from a business arrangement he says he had with the couple.
Falwell’s statement Sunday to the Examiner said nothing about Granda’s account alleging that the evangelical leader had his own role in the affair, and Falwell didn’t address questions from Reuters about it.
In the statement quoted by the Examiner, Falwell said that “Becki had an inappropriate personal relationship with this person, something in which I was not involved.”
GIANCARLO GRANDA: All right.
BECKI FALWELL: Gian's been very busy lately.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: [LAUGHS] Yeah, yeah.
BECKI FALWELL: His new is like telling me every time he hooks up with people, like I don't have feelings or something.
JERRY FALWELL: You're going make her jealous, Gian.
BECKI FALWELL: Yeah.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: Aw, I'm not trying to do that.
BECKI FALWELL: Like a week ago I was in tears for whole frickin' day.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: Come on.
BECKI FALWELL: He was like, I hooked up with this girl on Tinder, and then I got her an Uber, and I'm, like, just completely depresses.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: Come on. You don't you don't care me--
BECKI FALWELL: Maybe the more you tell me, the more I'll get used to it.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: You don't care me anymore, Becki.
BECKI FALWELL: Huh?
GIANCARLO GRANDA: You don't care about me anymore.
BECKI FALWELL: Uh, yeah, really?
GIANCARLO GRANDA: [CHUCKLES]
BECKI FALWELL: Yeah, obviously.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: Mm-hmm.
BECKI FALWELL: Mm-hmm. Yeah. I'm fine.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: I just-- I just tell you 'cause you're my best friend, right? So--
BECKI FALWELL: I know. I'm trying to be OK. I'm like, accepting that position, but I'm kind of into-- so, yeah.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: It's OK.
BECKI FALWELL: I'm-- I'm-- I'm trying to. I've taken a lot. I've moved on. I've matured, matured.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: Yes.
BECKI FALWELL: I'm not as crazy as I used to be, I would think. I don't think.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: No, you're not.
BECKI FALWELL: So, yeah, this is just-- huh?
GIANCARLO GRANDA: No, you're-- you're perfect. You've--
BECKI FALWELL: Yeah.
GIANCARLO GRANDA: Yeah, you're fine.
BECKI FALWELL: Gotta keep that up.
Yeah, this is just now, I don't know, the whole-- I was always in the-- you know, even before when you were dating somebody, it just kind of threw me for a loop.