Esteemed counseling service launches inaugural Restorative Justice Practices

Author, professor and trailblazing activist Bell Hooks once said: "To build community requires vigilant awareness … rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of community."

That wisdom serves as a fine springboard for the Coalition for Innovative Restorative Justice Practices' initial convening, which runs 8 a.m.-4 p.m. Friday, June 14, at La Quinta Resort. A pre-convening event is slated for noon, Thursday, June 13.

The gathering of leaders and innovators, spearheaded by the Clay Counseling Foundation, creates a unique opportunity to foster deep discussions and further strengthen an understanding about co-creating valuable ecosystems that are community-based, student-centered, equitable and just.

"We want to build community," says April Clay, Ed. D, PPS, LMFT, whose San Bernardino-based counseling business offers numerous services.

"We want restorative practitioners to meet one another at this event," she says. "There are schools doing or beginning to do restorative work. We want them to meet those who have been doing this work for some time.

"We really want to get into the space of having intersecting conversations, which allows folks not normally in conversation with each other to start dialoguing and having discourse around what restorative practices should look like."

Noting that this work runs from the classroom to the boardroom to the playground, the ripple effects can be significant, affecting safety officers and policy makers, who can learn from various practitioners in a safe space.

"We really want this to be a systemic change, including the judicial system," Clay says, adding that the impetus for the event sprang several years ago when the Clay Counseling Foundation began using these practices with families, teaching them how to use restorative questioning with children.

"It was designed to help kids be more reflective of their own behavior," she says, "and see the need for change and know that consequences are a natural part of their own decision-making. We also started working with schools."

One thing Clay et al have eyed: the classroom-to-prison pipeline.

"We do see the number of kids being exited from our K-12 system parallel with the number of kids entering into the juvenile justice system," Clay says. "We want to reduce that number. So, if you get into a fight or an altercation with your teacher, you flip over a desk, you get a consequent behavior, but we keep you in the school."

Basically, a student would not automatically be pushed out.

"Obviously you want to uphold the rules, but we need to be able to allow kids to participate in the consequences, and that's a big area of restorative work," she says. "Oftentimes, we hear a lot of our schools saying they have restorative practices, but at the end of the day, we're still pushing kids out of the schools. We want to give kids a chance to redeem themselves. We want to give them opportunity to repair the harm that they've created and see them make changes."

The Coalition for Innovative Restorative Justice Practices' initial convening features a variety of gatherings/workshops geared to further illuminate right action, from building community and Restorative Justice Practices and the law to other themes that touch on such things as equity, inclusion and harm reduction.

A "learn by doing" component of the event branches things out further, featuring the value of tai chi, yoga, listening circles, guided meditation and nature walks, among others.

An Introduction to Restorative Practices certification is also offered.

Recently, the Inland Empire Community Foundation became one of many significant sponsors for the event.

"Sponsorships have been a huge benefit because they are allowing us to reduce the cost of the event," Clay says. "If you were to look at this as an investment in our youth, it allows us to help encourage folks to come to the table with fewer barriers because cost does become a barrier.

"Because we're doing it in the Coachella Valley," she says, "these valuable sponsors have connected us to other organizations that we would have not perhaps known about, and that has been an added blessing."

Learn more about Clay Clay Counseling Foundation at claycounselingsolutions.com.

Inland Empire Community Foundation works to strengthen Inland Southern California through philanthropy. Visit iegives.org.

This article originally appeared on Palm Springs Desert Sun: Esteemed counseling service launches Restorative Justice Practices