【晴報專訊】伍詠薇的命運很神奇，20歲參選亞姐大熱倒灶，只得第四名，21歲嫁給年長30歲的富商翁江培，婚後13天喪夫，她被形容為「劏豬凳」，之後更要長期忍受別人鄙夷的眼光。錯過了一個女人最精采的十年，30歲後，她變身大情大性的美麗貴婦，婚姻幸福，高朋滿座。「我想，我的情商（EQ）應該幾高，幾爆燈，但IQ應該是零，上天給你這麼多挫折，一定有原因的，積極面對啦！」說完，她哈哈大笑。 伍詠薇（伍姑娘）2010年向無綫請假，暫停拍劇，專心經營美容生意，若不是《金枝慾孽貳》勾起她心中的那團火，真的不知何時再在電視劇中見到她。「當時，一吹風要拍這套劇，我就自薦問公司有沒有角色適合我，說如果需要試戲，我都OK。這樣做是因為我知道這一行有很多人、很多好的演員，你要提一提，才能讓別人記得找你，可能有人會選擇擦鞋，但我揀舉手。」在電視圈打滾20多年，資深藝人還會毛遂自薦，伍姑娘果然敢想就敢做。 應要有手段 新劇中，她飾演的「惇太妃」是一位頗有心計的深宮怨婦，想方設法散播謠言對付親姐姐如妃（鄧萃雯飾）；現實生活中，她自認有情有義，喜歡將複雜的事情簡單化，不過，她也坦言女人有心計、有手段未必是壞事。「如果你所指的有手段是將男人玩弄於股掌之間，可能會有問題，但如果是用手段令周圍的人開心快樂，令到氣氛好，我絕對贊成。」 伍姑娘還不介意以自身經驗告訴大家，生活中，手段是必要的。「無論是與我先生（練海棠）這十幾年的相處，還是我未結婚前跟男仔的相處都一定要有手段，我會給彼此空間，好像他騎馬，你把韁繩放遠一些，遠到看不到的時候就拉一拉。」莫非，這就是傳說中的「欲擒故縱」？ 懂得尊重人 因懂得運用手段，伍姑娘面面俱圓，自己過得開心，又能令身邊的人感覺舒服。譬如今次訪問，她甫到達就以四萬笑容與大家握手，又主動與較遠處的攝影師打招呼。「我喜歡說話，動作又多，所以很多人覺得我很醒目，其實，我是尊重人，想大家相處得愉快些。像拍戲時，如果埋位後才跟演對手戲的人say hello，對方可能會不舒服，所以，我一定會一早就問對方叫甚麼名字，讓他覺得受到尊重。」 伍姑娘如此重視尊重別人，皆因她入行後一直不受尊重，故深明其苦。「入行第一日，選美決賽剛結束，有個男攝影師很不尊重地叫我過去影相，還用粗口抱怨我連累他輸了3000元；再到第一任丈夫離世，全世界的記者都鬧我，沒見過我的人都可以鬧我，從這些經歷中，我學到的是，不可以隨波逐流，我要尊重人，哪怕你不喜歡我，一個成功的人一定要豁達，雖然我不是很成功。」伍姑娘過謙了，一個女人在經歷千夫所指後，還有如此多正能量，誰敢說她不成功？ 撰文：黃艷 攝影：林良明
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