Relationship expert Andrea Syrtash teaches Roger Hailes how to text the Mansome way. Wondering if you should text or call the girl you just met? If she’s under 30, it’s efficient to text, but if she’s over 30, she’d probably appreciate you picking up the phone. Make sure to ask a question to increase your chances of her actually texting back. And if it’s a booty call you’re looking for, keep your texts funny, not overtly sexual. If you make it to the second date, it’s probably a good idea to actually call.