Venus in Scorpio Is Making Your Relationship Stronger—or Ending It
Venus, the planet of love, pleasure, and beauty, has been hanging out in Libra, one of its fave signs, for the past month-ish. The vibe has been romantic, flirty, fun, and maybe just a little bit superficial. But when Venus is in Scorpio, aka the most intense, emotional sign, from November 21 to December 15, you’re finding that there’s nothing superficial about your relationships anymore! This transit is helping water signs Cancer’s, Scorpio’s, and Pisces’ love lives thrive, while fixed signs Taurus, Leo, and Aquarius might struggle to keep up with the action.
Scorpio is one of the signs that Venus doesn’t operate at its best in—Venus wants unity, relationships, and oneness with others, but Scorpio is mysterious, private, and very particular about who they let into their life. However, you can use this transit’s observant vibes to appraise exactly what kinds of people you want in your life. Once you decide who’s BFF material, expect to have plenty of seriously meaningful connections with your closest pals. This transit is also great for your sex life! Scorpio is an intimate, erotic sign with profound emotional depth, so when you’re opening up to someone in bed, the rush of pleasure and excitement you feel is out of this world.
All this emotional intensity means this transit is the best if you’re boo’d up. If you’re looking for a fling, expect to catch feelings ASAP, and if you’re totally single, you can easily fall head over heels for someone new. If they like you back just as much, Venus in Scorpio is a helpful transit for DTR’ing or starting a seriously strong relationship. But if they’re just not interested, you might start to take on Scorpio’s obsessive qualities and get totally hung up on your unrequited crush. Know when to take a step back and you can avoid getting your feelings hurt too much.
These next several weeks can be pretty up and down if you’re not careful. If there are any hidden feelings or secrets you’re keeping from your boo, they can easily pop out now—so be honest to avoid drama! Everyone, including you, is feeling very sensitive right now, but these convos will be worth it. Luckily, Venus’s stay in Scorpio this year coincides with Sagittarius season, and Sag’s lighthearted, buoyant energy can help counteract the moodiness.
One of my favorite ways to describe Venus in Scorpio’s vibe is that it helps you feel a sense of true entanglement with your loved ones. You’re feeling more intimacy with others—not just sexual intimacy with your boo but also a sense of love, trust, and oneness with your closest friends and family. This is an important, serious time when it comes to development in your relationships. You’re learning way more about your loved ones, you’re fully understanding the value of these connections, and you’re comprehending yourself on a deeper level too.
Read your Sun/Rising sign horoscopes below:
Aries
Your sign has a rep for getting bored in relationships and bolting fast, but for the next few weeks, you’re focusing on truly getting to know someone special. This transit applies specifically to sex partners, so this is *chef’s kiss* amazing if you’re already boo’d up. If you’re single and just crushing or flirting with someone, it’s basically guaranteed that you’ll end up falling hard.
Taurus
Lovely Venus is activating your chart’s zone of relationships for the next month-ish, so you can think of this transit as cuffing season for your sign. Already existing relationships with friends or your boo are becoming stronger, and any new relationships you begin are starting with their best foot forward. You’re particularly picky when it comes to your ’ships, and so is Venus in Scorpio, so it’s easy to dismiss any potential new connections if they’re not totally “perfect”—or if you’re afraid of rejection. Be a little more outgoing to make the best of this transit.
Gemini
Right now, you’re being urged to investigate the most important, deepest relationship of all—the relationship you have with yourself. Venus in Scorpio is asking you to review your self-care routine, investigate how organized your life is, and take a good, honest look at your health habits. Venus is the planet of love, and right now, it’s trying to emphasize the concept of self-love. This is one of the best times of year to clean up your life, Marie Kondo style, and set new, healthy habits that will be better for you and your relationships!
Cancer
Venus isn’t at its happiest in Scorpio, but that doesn’t really apply to your sign! In your chart, Venus is now in the 5th house, which governs romance, sex, and fun, so you’re actually able to have a thriving love life during this transit! Hotties are sliding into your DMs 25/8, your life is full of romance, and sex is smokin’ hot. Enjoy yourself, Cancer!
Leo
Venus is in Scorpio, one of the most emotional signs, and it’s activating your 4th house, which is the most emotional zone in your chart. Relationships can’t be superficial right now. You want love, not lust. You want commitment, not a fling. This is a really great time to DTR with someone special you’ve been seeing casually or upgrade your relationship with your boo by moving in together/getting engaged/adopting a pup. This transit also means you’re getting way closer with your family and spending more time at home (lol, aren’t we all?). These vibes can really help with your stress level, and it’s also great for making your personal space a place where you feel comfiest.
Virgo
The next several weeks are picking up the pace in your love life, Virgo, especially if you’re single! This transit is all about helping you to form new connections, so if you wake up to 50 new Tinder notifications, you can thank Venus for that! If you’re already boo’d up, there are major (but probably good!) conversations happening re: your relationship and you’re able to start that big talk without feeling hesitant or nervous. On a less romantic level, this is also one of the best transits for making new friends! Even though you’re the most picky sign, you’re likely to add at least one or two new connections to your “close friends” list over the next month.
Libra
Hopefully, you were able to maximize Venus’s lovey-dovey vibes while it was in your sign, because now Venus is not focusing on your love life at all. Venus governs love, pleasure, and beauty, but it also rules money, and right now it’s in your chart’s zone of finances. Sorry, money isn’t going to magically start coming your way—you’re going to have to work for it first. There could be a potential bonus or raise coming if you play your cards right, and the happiness you feel after kicking ass at work will be tremendous!
Scorpio
Your mysterious, sultry, enchanting charm is stronger than ever now that the planet of love is in your sign. You’re oozing passion and becoming an even bigger babe magnet right now. You’re naturally coming off as more attractive to others, and you also feel like you have more love to share with others. And what’s more, you’re able to take on the Venusian theme of “beauty” and serve some seriously hot looks. If you’ve been thinking of getting a new hairstyle, a makeover, or giving your wardrobe a massive upgrade, this is the best time of year to go for it! In short, for the next few weeks, you are lookin’ good and feeling gorgeous!
Sagittarius
Sorry, but the emo, intense mood that comes with Venus in Scorpio is especially heavy for you, Sagittarius. For the next few weeks, you’re feeling lonely. This transit is hitting your chart’s 12th house, which governs isolation and the completion of cycles, so new love probably just ain’t happening right now. Instead, you’re looking back to the past at unrequited love, exes you had bad breakups with, and friends you fell out with—likely because these people are starting to show back up in your life. Take it easy and focus on clearing out emotional baggage, bb. Then, when Venus enters your sign in about a month, you can start engaging with your love life as the very best version of yourself!
Capricorn
This transit is homing in on your friend circle, Cap. If you’re looking to add a few new faces to your friends list, finding new squad members is easier than ever. If your group chat is full, this transit is amazing for strengthening your already existing bonds. Since Scorpio is such an intense, emotional sign, you’re sharing some pretty deep moments with your crew. Secrets are being spilled, you’re having serious heart-to-hearts, and you’re learning even more about your BFF. You can easily turn a buddy into a bestie right now, and by the end of Venus’s trip through Scorpio, you’ll have the best crew ever!
Aquarius
There are a few different things you should watch out for while Venus is in Scorpio: First, you’re feeling way more attracted to older people now, especially if they’re authority figures (like your boss, eek!). You’re also coming off as more competent and charismatic at work, and your coworkers are loving every minute they spend around you. Your boss is keeping a super-close eye on you now too, so it’s important to show up and stay busy (and not hit on them, even if you’re crushing hard!). Great performance now = huge rewards like a potential raise or promotion in the near future.
Pisces
With Venus in Scorpio, a like-minded water sign, you’re having an easy, breezy, beautiful time. Right now, you want a relationship that fascinates you. If you’re single, your next crush might be right around the corner, and they’re not your usual type. If you’re already in a relationship, you’re able to focus on all the exciting, unique parts of your partner that make them stand out, and you’re also finding new traits of theirs that make you feel even more enchanted! You want someone you can adventure, explore, and play around with so that your relationship always feels sparkly and exciting. If you’ve felt even the teeniest bored with your love life lately, Venus in Scorpio is here to help you change things up!
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