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    • <p>Holidays are incredibly stressful for everyone, especially if you put pressure on yourself for everything to be perfect. Bernard Davidson, PhD, a psychologist in the Department of Psychiatry and Health Behavior at the Medical College of Georgia at Augusta University, said it's important to remain practical during this time of year.</p>
<p>"Remember that the holidays are not about everything being perfect," he said. "Keep your expectations in line, and try not to compare yourself to others. Relax and stay focused on the real meaning of the season: quality time with friends and family."</p>
    • <p>This may sound counterintuitive, but switching your brain from depressed, negative thoughts straight to positive ones isn't always easy - otherwise, you wouldn't be feeling depressed in the first place.</p>
<p>Psychotherapist Ava Diamond, LCSW, creator of Mental Fitness &amp; Nutritional Psychology Coaching, said to instead think about neutral thoughts and to neutralize thoughts with facts.</p>
<p>"If you are seeing life through a depressed lens, you can still focus on something that you believe to be true that is simply neither positive nor negative," she told POPSUGAR. "Usually, I suggest that the fact be something about yourself that you know is accurate, such as, 'I have gotten through holidays before, and this will be over in a couple of days.'"</p>
    • <p>Even if you don't have a <a href="https://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Meditation-Beginners-41080825" class="ga-track" data-ga-category="Related" data-ga-label="http://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Meditation-Beginners-41080825" data-ga-action="In-Line Links">routine meditation practice</a>, taking a few minutes to breathe deeply and <a href="https://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Ways-More-Mindful-44241517" class="ga-track" data-ga-category="Related" data-ga-label="http://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Ways-More-Mindful-44241517" data-ga-action="In-Line Links">be mindful</a> can make a difference.</p>
<p>"Allow yourself a few minutes each day to close your eyes and take a few long, <a href="https://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Breathing-Exercise-Anxiety-44818498" class="ga-track" data-ga-category="Related" data-ga-label="http://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Breathing-Exercise-Anxiety-44818498" data-ga-action="In-Line Links">slow breaths</a>," Alyssa Adams, PsyD, a clinical psychologist and life and relationship coach, said. "Imagine what you want your day to feel like. This momentary break will allow you to relax and recenter before moving through the rest of your day. This can also be a helpful tactic when you're in a stressful situation."</p>
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    Be Practical

    Holidays are incredibly stressful for everyone, especially if you put pressure on yourself for everything to be perfect. Bernard Davidson, PhD, a psychologist in the Department of Psychiatry and Health Behavior at the Medical College of Georgia at Augusta University, said it's important to remain practical during this time of year.

    "Remember that the holidays are not about everything being perfect," he said. "Keep your expectations in line, and try not to compare yourself to others. Relax and stay focused on the real meaning of the season: quality time with friends and family."

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    The Holidays Aren't Always Happy - How to Handle Depression This Time of Year

    December 5, 2019

    The holiday season is supposed to be the happiest time of the year: cheery Christmas music playing everywhere you go, festive decorations on every block, holiday parties, traditions, and lots of tasty treats. But for some people, the holidays can trigger an onslaught of depressive symptoms.

    Whether you struggle with depression year-round or just get blue this time of year, there are some ways you can combat these negative feelings. We spoke to mental health experts, who detailed the 11 best ways to combat holiday depression. If your mood continues to get worse or you experience any of these symptoms of depression for more than two weeks, it might be time to visit a doctor or mental health specialist, such as a psychiatrist, clinical psychologist, or licensed therapist.

    If you are depressed and need help finding help or resources, call the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (1-240-485-1001) or the National Alliance on Mental Illness (1-800-950-6264).

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    Mental Health Experts Reveal 11 Ways to Deal With Holiday Stress So You Can Have a Jolly Holiday

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