Here's Every Person Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Have Dated — Like, I Was Not Expecting Some Of These

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Jen's journey of love starts with David Cruz.

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According to E!, they were high school sweethearts and were together for 10 years.

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After David, there was male model Ojani Noa.

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They got married in 1997...

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Jim Smeal / Ron Galella Collection via Getty Images

...and they divorced a year later in 1998.

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After Ojani, there was Diddy.

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They started dating in 1999.

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Brenda Chase / Getty Images

But eventually broke up in 2001.

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According to EW, they were together for 17 months.

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Then there was her dancer, Cris Judd.

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According to People, they were married for less than a year and divorced in 2002.

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Then there was Ben round #1.

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They started dating in 2002.

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And they called off their engagement in 2004.

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After Ben, Jen married Marc Anthony in 2004.

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They had two children together, and they announced their divorce in 2011.

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After Marc, Jen was with another dancer, Casper Smart.

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They dated from 2011–2016.

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That brings us up to A-Rod.

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According to People, Jen and A-Rod started dating in 2017.

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They announced their engagement in 2019.

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And then they broke up in 2021.

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Which brings us up to modern day Ben and Jen, who got together in 2021.

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And got married in Vegas last month in 2022.

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They had another celebration in Georgia last weekend too.

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Now let's go through Ben's dating history.

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Ben's first public GF was Cheyenne Rothman.

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Arun Nevader / WireImage for CineVegas

According to E!, they were high school sweethearts and dated for seven years.

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Then there was Gwyneth Paltrow.

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According to People, they started dating in 1997.

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And they dated on and off until 2000.

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After Gwyn, we have Jennifer round one.

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As we discussed earlier, they were together for two years before breaking up in 2004.

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Bauer-griffin / GC Images / Getty Images

After Jen round 1, Ben got together with Jennifer Garner.

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According to Us Weekly, they got married in 2005.

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They had three children.

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And they separated in 2015.

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After Jennifer Garner, there was SNL producer Lindsay Shookus.

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According to Us Weekly, they started publicly dating in 2017...

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...and they broke up in 2018 before getting back together and breaking up again in 2019.

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Finally, we're at Ana de Armas.

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They went on A LOT of walks together.

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According to People, they started dating in early 2020.

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...and they broke up in early 2021.

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That brings us up to Jen!

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As discussed earlier, they started dating in 2021.

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And they got married last month.

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Good luck to them, and hopefully we'll never have to do this BuzzFeed post again!

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