Everything You Need to Know About Dating a Gemini Woman

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From Cosmopolitan

So you finally got your Gemini crush’s number, it’s time to plan the date, and you want to impress her! In fact, you need to make sure that you nail it. As a mutable air sign, it’s difficult to nail Gemini down. She's always on the go, looking for something fun to do—if you're looking for date ideas, try filling your Gem's schedule with picnics in the park, trivia nights, and drive-through movies.

Your Gemini girlfriend is naturally inquisitive, and you’ll bore her to tears if you can’t keep up. She has places to be, journeys to have, and potential to chase. The world is her oyster, and if you know anything about how pearls are formed, you understand that being a mild tease is a fun way to keep her attention. This is not permission to be annoying—but adding some jest to your Gem's life is a great way to keep her entertained. Geminis hate to be bored!

The Gemini basics

Birthday: May 21 to June 20

Type: Mutable air sign

Keywords: Commutative, experimental, creative, free-spirited

Love anthem: "Ex-Factor" by Ms. Lauryn Hill

Famous Gemini women: Naomi Campbell, Ms. Lauryn Hill, Angelina Jolie, Natalie Portman, Mary-Kate Olsen, Ashley Olsen, Marilyn Monroe, Venus Williams

The best matches for a Gemini woman

Gemini placements need a match who’s willing to take them on adventures and keep their minds stimulated. In terms of challenging them intellectually and furthering their thoughts, a Sagittarius is more than capable of giving Gems their mental fix. An Aries, on the other hand, will take Gemini’s wild ideas and run with them, providing endless experiences and plenty of fun.

Sex with a Gemini woman

Driven by natural curiosity, Gemini's sexual traits can be surprising and ever-changing. Many Gemini women can be on the shy side, hesitating to explore the fullness of their fantasies. That definitely doesn’t mean that they're boring in bed—it’ll just take some time and patience to get their mind flowing with sexual fantasies and ideas. Once a Gemini lady is comfortable with you, her interest in role-playing, outdoor sexual experiences, and willingness to explore kink might come as a surprise.

All about dating a Gemini woman

Gemini women are something of a walking contradiction, and they're no strangers to putting their foot in their mouths. Consider this a word of caution if you’re dating a Gemini woman, and a gentle reminder if you are a Gemini woman. If you have the patience, eventually your Twin-Bae’s oddly-worded phrases might become endearing.

Try not to feel too disappointed if your Gemini crush is more of a talker than she is a walker when it comes to sexuality. It can take her time to open up, unless you catch her on an adventurous night—in which case your affair might not last long. Geminis are clever and cunning, and they know that if there isn’t a worthwhile buildup of tension, the entire process of engaging can feel boring and lackluster. Hooking up with a Gemini will likely occur in one of two ways. Either she'll feel comfortable enough with you to experience the fullness of intimacy and sexual prowess, or she'll trap you in a cat and mouse game until she feels ready (if ever).

While "Ex Factor" is the Gemini song, go to your Spotify/YouTube/Apple Music and put on the song “Freek-A-Leek” by Petey Pablo. If you give this song a listen, you’ll understand why this anthem is getting a mention, but not a feature. There are two sides of Gemini. First, there's the coy, shy version that you can bring around your friends; the person who will spend time in her room imagining what it would be like to have fun with you. Out in public, she’ll be a natural charmer, capturing positive attention with her chill vibes and adorable smile. Then, there's the other side to Gemini, the side that’ll rock your world and catch you off guard, much like “Freek-A-Leek” suggests. This side of Gemini loves dirty talking, flirtation, and twisting tongues (both literally and figuratively).

If you want to win a Gemini, you can’t go wrong with flexing your gift of jab—if you have it, that is. Your Gemini woman will appreciate the skill of a finely-worded sentence or a thought-provoking conversation. Consider downloading a “Word of the Day” app or listen to music that expands your vocabulary. You need to take a Gemini outside of their heads and into a shared reality. If you’re boring or ignorant, you'll be unlikely to keep their attention or presence.

Because they're ruled by Mercury, the planet that influences thinking, Geminis need a partner who can get their gears going and keep their thoughts flowing. A good way to break the ice with a Gemini is to understand the way she rationalizes her world. Ask her what her top five favorite movies are, and it’ll help you understand what amuses her and which characters strike her interest—like if she says The Matrix, ask her about her views on government and society. You can even win some points by putting her onto new films, TV shows, or music that gets her sharing your recommendations with her friends. FYI, if she’s sharing your selections with her inner circle, then you’re doing good. The goal is always to get your Gemini lover talking about you.

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